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The Best Books for LGBTQ History Month

Thursday, September 28th, 2023

Discover history with these must-read books for LGBTQ History Month! Explore the diverse stories and struggles through nonfiction, fiction, and YA reads.

Jeffrey Dale Lofton recently appeared on the Book Gang podcast to chat about his debut book, Red Clay Suzie.

Given Jeffrey Dale Lofton’s extensive expertise in literature, thanks to his senior advisory position at the Library of Congress, he was an excellent collaborator in crafting today’s book list.

Listen to the full episode below (the show notes are located here) and subscribe to the Book Gang podcast for more episodes like this one.

This month-long celebration highlights the LGBTQ community’s rich and diverse history.

Before sharing the book list, I wanted to answer frequently asked questions about what LGBTQ hiistory History Month is.

Who Started LGBTQ History Month?

In 1994, Rodney Wilson, a high school history teacher from Missouri, established LGBTQ History Month.

Thanks to his efforts, he gained the backing of the National Education Association’s General Assembly. This laid the groundwork for a dedicated month to celebrate LGBT history.

You can discover more information on the history through the Library of Congress.

Why Do We Celebrate Pride Month in June and LGBT History Month in October?

In June, Pride Month offers the LGBTQ+ community and its allies a chance to unite and celebrate LGBTQ+ rights.

It commemorates the Stonewall riots in June 1969, which catalyzed the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement.

LGBTQ+ History Month, observed in October, focuses on educating people about the history, struggles, and achievements of the LGBTQ+ community.

It highlights key figures, events, and milestones in LGBTQ+ history to foster understanding and respect.

While Pride Month is more celebratory and contemporary, LGBTQ+ History Month delves into the community’s historical context and challenges.

Both months contribute to LGBTQ+ awareness and support but have distinct missions.

We encourage you to explore this month’s book list for BOTH Pride Month and LGBTQ History Month.

The Best Books for LGBTQ History Month

Jeffrey Dale Lofton's insightful book recommendations reflect his passion for storytelling and the LGBTQ+ community.

Through Jeffrey's knowledgeable role as a senior advisor to the Library of Congress, we have one of our most well-curated book lists today.

Additional selections from Larry Hoffer, my incredible co-host on Patreon and a proud member of the LGBTQ community, have also been added.

Finally, I've included the books that have impacted me the most over my reading years. I hope these book selections evoke compassion and empathy as we reflect on this history month.

As an Amazon Associate and member of other affiliate programs, I earn from qualifying purchases.

The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle by Matt Cain

This heartwarming story follows sixty-five-year-old postman Albert Entwistle as he finds his perfect "found family" story.

With his retirement looming, Albert realizes his life is lonely because he has not been living his truth.

As he starts to share his old love story with co-workers, Albert embarks on a journey to find the boy he once loved.

The author, Matt Cain, has had a prolific career as a writer, broadcaster, and a leading commentator on LGBTQIA+ issues.

Through the true stories of past interviews, Cain came across many individuals who had concealed their sexuality until their later years. It is these shared accounts that helped create Albert’s perspective.

Matt Cain participated in an eye-opening interview about the challenges of publishing in the LGBTQ space for our Patreon. It was too good to continue keeping behind our paywall.

I have chosen his interview for our next Book Gang episode to give context to these men's stories. You will also learn more about Matt's inspiring and inventive journey to publishing.

Related- The Best 2023 Book Club Books (Read with the MomAdvice Book Club)

Red Clay Suzie by Jeffrey Dale Lofton

Celebrate today's Book Gang Guest, Jeffrey Dale Lofton.

Described as a "fictional memoir," this novel includes Lofton's experiences of growing up as a gay boy in the Deep South.

At first, he didn't realize his physical differences, but a comment from a family member changed everything. Now aware of his misshapen chest, he navigates complicated feelings around his appearance.

Later, as Philbet grows older, he finds himself drawn to an older boy, complicating things further in his conservative town.

Luckily, this story is both heartwarming and hopeful despite these challenges.

Pete Cross offers an impeccable audiobook performance that enhances Lofton's story even more.

Listen to Jeffrey Dale Lofton on Book Gang and learn how he wrote this coming-of-age story on his iPhone while commuting to work at the Library of Congress.

Fans of Jeff Zentner will fall in love with this new Southern storyteller.

LGBTQ BOOKS FOR ADULTS FOR LGBTQ HISTORY MONTH

These LGBTQ books for adults offer education and reflection on pivotal moments like the AIDS crisis and its impact and other critical moments in history.

My Policeman by Bethan Roberts

This historical fiction book was inspired by the life of E.M. Forester and his relationship with a police officer named Bob Buckingham.

In the 1950s, a schoolteacher, a museum curator, and a policeman find themselves entangled in a complicated love triangle.

This tragic story explores the quiet love shared between these two men and what it would be like if speaking your truth resulted in your arrest and the destruction of your life.

The story utilizes journal entries (from his lover) and a manuscript (from his wife) that outline a confession, allowing the reader to explore this story from different points of view.

I recommend reading the book first and then streaming the My Policeman movie on Prime Video, starring Harry Styles.

My Government Means to Kill Me by Rasheed Newson

Set in 1980s New York City, this exhilarating coming-of-age story follows Trey Singleton III, a young gay Black man.

When Trey leaves his affluent family behind, he begins to navigate a world of activism and self-discovery amid the AIDS crisis.

Jeffrey Dale Lofton shared that the book's footnotes provide authenticity and a poignant history lesson on early AIDS activism for readers.

Rashid Newson's work illuminates the marginalized voices often absent from this time in history.

In Memoriam by Alice Winn

Set in 1914, two classmates at an all-boys boarding school in the English countryside find love in unexpected places.

Henry Gaunt and Sidney Ellwood grapple with their infatuation for each other amidst the chaos of World War I.

As they navigate life in the trenches, they also navigate boyhood and sexuality.

This novel is an incredible examination of LGBTQ identity during wartime.

The audiobook performance is phenomenal. Pair the audio with the print copy for an immersive wartime experience with newspaper clippings and telegraphs.

Short Film Starring My Beloved’s Red Bronco by K. Iver

This poetry collection won the 2022 Ballad Spar Prize.

The book offers a coming-of-age novel in poems that embrace both the devastation and celebration of love.

Written by a non-binary trans poet, the poems take various forms. Lofton shared that the poem's rhythm is unsteady, much like their experience.

The poems incorporate complex themes like abuse, self-harm, and neglect.

But it also offers a unique exploration into grief that is both personal and political.

Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin

This classic will be a 2024 MomAdvice Book Club pick for Pride Month!

The story follows David, an American expatriate, grappling with his sexuality and romantic relationships with a man named Giovanni and a woman named Hella.

Set in 1950s Paris, James Baldwin offers a timeless exploration of forbidden love and self-discovery that you will find ahead of its time in many ways.

The novel sheds light on the inner struggles and external pressures faced by men in a time when homosexuality was heavily stigmatized.

Tell the Wolves I'm Home by Carol Rifka Brunt

This novel is one of my favorite coming-of-age stories I've ever read.

The novel chronicles the friendship between June and her Uncle Finn and their shared appreciation for the arts.

But when Finn suddenly passes away due to a "mysterious illness," June finds herself in a world of grief and uncertainty.

It is where she finds an unexpected connection with someone who also loved her uncle.

The Heart's Invisible Furies by John Boyne

This novel is one of the best books I've read.

In this beautifully layered story, Cyril becomes dear friends with Julian. The problem is, as Cyril gets older, he realizes his feelings for his best friend are more significant than he realized.

The book chronicles seven decades of challenges, beginning in 1945. The story also explores identity, love, family, and societal change in Ireland.

Through Cyril's journey, the novel offers a poignant and often humorous commentary on the country's evolving attitudes toward sexuality and the lasting impact of personal secrets and societal norms.

In particular, the novel explores the AIDS epidemic in a memorable and impactful way.

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Cantoras by Carolina De Robertis

Set against the backdrop of 1970s Uruguay, this historical fiction novel takes you on a powerful journey.

Five women unite to defy societal norms and seek refuge in each other's arms.

Together, they seek refuge on a remote beach called Cabo Polonio, where they can live freely and be themselves, away from the constraints of a society that suppresses their sexuality.

The novel explores themes of friendship, love, resilience, and the pursuit of personal freedom against the backdrop of political and social turmoil.

Ultimately finding love and hope where they least expected it.

Literary fiction fans will devour this read!

We Could Be So Good by Cat Sebastian

Nick Russo, a determined reporter from a tough Brooklyn neighborhood, navigates a hostile world in the late 1950s New York City.

His guarded heart unexpectedly finds solace in the presence of Andy Fleming, the newspaper tycoon's reluctant heir.

Nick and Andy must grapple with societal prejudices as their unlikely friendship deepens into forbidden love.

They also must make a heart-wrenching choice: to embrace their feelings in the face of adversity or let go.

Endpapers by Jennifer Savran Kelly

In the early-2000s, a bookbinder at the Metropolitan Museum of Art stumbles upon a cryptic old love letter.

Hidden in a 1950s pulp novel, the discovery triggers an obsession to uncover the mystery behind these two women's love. It also explores the persisting threats to the LGBTQ community.

This heartfelt debut navigates the complexities of identity love in a modern timeline still reeling from the 9/11 aftermath.

The New Life by Tom Crewe

In 1894 London, a married man becomes entangled in an affair with another man while collaborating on a groundbreaking new book.

The book's themes challenge societal norms around homosexuality but begin to coincide with a monumental arrest.

As Oscar Wilde's arrest rocks their community, they face a publishing dilemma.

Should they risk everything to publish the book or accept a world unprepared for change?

Lavender House by Lev AC Rosen

A disgraced ex-detective investigates the murder of Irene Lamontaine, the head of a soap empire, in 1952.

Set in the secluded Lavender House, this location offers a haven for openly queer residents.

As Andy delves deeper into the murder mystery, he makes a surprising discovery. There is a world of love and acceptance that challenges his previous prejudices and identity.

This mystery novel offers a poignant exploration of LGBTQ+ struggles in the 1950s.

The Prettiest Star by Carter Sickels

This historical fiction novel is one of the best book club books you will ever read or discuss.

In the 1980s, Brian confronts fear and discrimination following his AIDS diagnosis, and his return to a conservative Appalachian hometown paints an unforgettable portrait of a family in crisis.

This compassionate exploration offers shifting viewpoints in their family, offering a journey experience in a small town marked by cruelty.

The audiobook experience is exquisite, with a multi-cast narration, perfect for LGBTQ History Month.

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The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai

This National Book Award-shortlisted novel intertwines two interconnected stories.

One storyline is set in Chicago during the height of the AIDS epidemic 1980s, following a group of friends affected by the disease and the social and political challenges it presents.

The other storyline takes place in 2015, as one of the characters from the 1980s era searches for her estranged daughter in Paris.

Through poignant storytelling, Makkai brings humanity and compassion to these devastating stories during the AIDS crisis.

LGBTQ YA BOOKS FOR LGBTQ HISTORY MONTH

These impactful LGBTQ young adult books are books you can share with your teen or tween, exploring how this history impacted the younger generation.

Destination Unknown by Bill Konigsberg

This coming-of-age narrative centers on a closeted teenager navigating his sexuality during the onset of the AIDS epidemic.

Micah’s life transforms when he meets C.J., a confident and free-spirited young man. As their friendship deepens, they navigate a world where being true to oneself can be both liberating and scary.

From Stonewall Award winner Bill Konigsberg, this young adult novel explores the years Konigsberg knows best from his youth.

Last Night at the Telegraph Club by Malinda Lo

This young adult historical fiction novel won the National Book Award.

Join Lily Hu, a seventeen-year-old, on a journey of self-discovery. This Booktok book explores queer identity in 1950s San Francisco.

As she navigates her first love with a classmate, their journey leads them to the hidden world of The Telegraph Club.

In a society where impersonating the opposite gender could lead to arrest, this novel examines the struggles faced by lesbian women.

Do not miss the author's note that is filled with incredible details on the historical setting that Lo discovered while researching for this project.

The Other Pandemic: An AIDS Memoir by Lynn Curlee

Jeffrey Dale Lofton recommended this book as a personal and moving account of the devastating impact of the AIDS crisis.

It features personal stories of lost loved ones and photographs that put faces to the names of those affected.

It also showcases the urgent need for LGBTQ+ rights and healthcare access. He states that this book’s message will resonate across generations.

The recommended reading age is ages 12 to 17 years old. However, readers of all ages can appreciate this Junior Library Guild Gold Standard Selection.

Like a Love Story by Abdi Nazemian

In 1989, in New York City, three young people navigate their identities during the AIDS crisis.

Reza, Judy, and Art grapple with self-discovery, love, and fear in a world of discrimination.

Abdi Nazemian's heartfelt narrative offers a tribute to those who lived courageously during a time of fear and loss.

This Stonewall Honor Book celebrates the enduring power of love and acceptance.

BEST LGBTQ NONFICTION BOOKS

These nonfiction books are gripping page-turners that offer necessary history lessons that give readers context to this time.

And the Band Played On: Politics, People, and the AIDS Epidemic by Randy Shilts

This critically acclaimed nonfiction book meticulously chronicles the early years of the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the United States.

Through extensive research and interviews, Shilts provides a comprehensive account of the medical, political, and social responses to the AIDS crisis.

The book vividly details the initial denial and slow response to the disease and the efforts of scientists, activists, and healthcare professionals to understand and combat it.

How to Survive a Plague: The Inside Story of How Citizens and Science Tamed AIDS by David France

This gripping page-turner explores everyday individuals' grassroots activism and tireless efforts during the AIDS crisis.

This nonfiction book explores their survival strategies, including detailed accounts of their incredible research behind treatments.

More importantly, it offers a fresh lens at the relentless persecution in the face of stigma and discrimination during this time.

As these weary-worn survivors trudge on, the sections on survivor's guilt were incredibly impactful.

What what book would you recommend for LGBTQ History Month? Let us know in the comments below what this list is missing!

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Celebrate LGBTQ History Month With This Curated Stack

Thursday, September 28th, 2023

Debut novelist and senior advisor to the Library of Congress, Jeffrey Dale Lofton, discusses identity and self-discovery for LGBTQ History Month in October.

Celebrate LGBTQ History Month With This Curated Stack

Jeffrey Dale Lofton is one of the most intriguing voices I’ve read this year, and I count his debut among my favorites of 2023.

Join us on an inspiring journey as we sit down with Jeffrey Dale Lofton, the talented debut author behind Red Clay Suzie, a fictional memoir that delves into the depths of identity, self-discovery, and the journey of growing up as a gay boy in the Deep South.

In this intimate conversation, Lofton shares his personal experiences that shaped this remarkable narrative, the challenges of navigating his own identity, and the power of storytelling to bridge understanding, especially in the LGBTQ community.

As a senior advisor to the Library of Congress, Lofton brings a unique perspective to literature and history. Be sure to tune in to the second half of our conversation to discover his top book recommendations for LGBTQ History Month.

Don’t miss this week’s bonus book list- The Best Books for LGBTQ History Month!

This new book list includes fiction and nonfiction books on queer history.

Red Clay Suzie Book Synopsis

Nominated for The Center for Fiction 2023 First Novel Prize, this debut novel will resonate with fans of Jeff Zentner.

Told through childlike narration, Philbet is a young boy with a misshapen chest and a heart full of dreams embarking on a journey of self-discovery and acceptance in the rural landscapes of Georgia.

Amidst the backdrop of tomato sandwiches, green milkshakes, and a deep love for cars, he grapples with the challenges of being a gay outsider in a conservative community.

Bullied, misunderstood, and yearning for acceptance, he discovers unexpected sources of strength and solace within his community.

Inspired by Lofton’s true life story, this coming-of-age story will capture your heart.

Meet Jeffrey Dale Lofton

Jeffrey Dale Lofton transitioned from a career in acting to pursue post-graduate studies, earning Master’s degrees in Public Administration & Library and Information Science.

Currently, he serves as a senior advisor at the Library of Congress, indulging in his love for books.

Originally from Warm Springs, Georgia, the author now resides in Washington, DC.

Red Clay Suzie is his debut novel and was longlisted for The Center for Fiction 2023 First Novel Prize.

Celebrate LGBTQ History Month With This Curated Stack

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Red Clay Suzie by Jeffrey Dale Lofton

In the Wild Light by Jeff Zentner

And I Do Not Forgive You by Amber Sparks

To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee

Call Me by Your Name by Andre Aciman

The Serpent King by Jeff Zentner

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How to Survive A Plague by David France

My Government Means to Kill Me by Rasheed Newson

Rasheed Newson’t Debut Novel Retells the Early Years of AIDS in New York City

The Other Pandemic by Lynn Curlee

Short Film Starring My Beloved’s Red Bronco by K. Iver

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The Best Halloween TV Episodes to Stream Now

Thursday, September 21st, 2023

Discover the best Halloween TV episodes and where to stream them now. From heists to haunted houses, these Halloween shows deliver hilarious fun for viewers.

From our marriage & parenting contributor, Mary Carver.

When I was little, I started having nightmares. My mom eventually realized they were caused by something she’d allowed me to watch on television. The terrifying show? Scooby Doo.

I’m no longer scared by a silly cartoon, but I could only watch one season of Buffy the Vampire Slayer before I got too scared.

I don’t see horror movies in the theater, I don’t read Stephen King novels, and when our local amusement park starts playing its “fright night” commercials every year, I lose my mind because HOW DARE THEY?

Suffice it to say, I’m not really here for the scary parts of Halloween. But the candy bars and costumes?

Oh yeah, that’s my jam.

I love dressing up my kids and seeing other kids’ clever and cute costumes. Sometimes I even dress up with them.

And, obviously, I’m in it for the candy. And the pumpkins. And don’t forget It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown! (where to watch It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown full movie)

But luckily for scaredy cat couch potatoes like me, that’s not the only Halloween fun to be found on TV.

EDITOR’S NOTE: As the licensing deal with Netflix expired on your favorite sitcoms, we have updated this list on where to stream these shows in 2023 with a Halloween Cheat Sheet with season and episode names.

Browse today’s updated list of Halloween episodes and where to stream them.

The Best Halloween TV Episodes to Stream Now

Skip the scary movie, pop some popcorn, and join me on the couch for these sitcom Halloween episodes.

Join your favorite characters for costume mishaps, ghostly fun, and non-stop laughs. It's a scream-worthy season you won't want to miss!

Brooklyn Nine-Nine Halloween Episodes

What is Brooklyn Nine-Nine About?

Brooklyn Nine-Nine" is a hilarious comedy series centered around the quirky detectives of the 99th precinct of the NYPD. Their annual Halloween Heist has become a beloved tradition among fans, showcasing the team's wit, competitiveness, and camaraderie.

Brooklyn Nine-Nine Halloween Episode Descriptions:

In Season 1's "Halloween," Jake Peralta's (Andy Samberg) prankster antics set the stage for the first Halloween Heist, igniting an annual battle of wits and trickery.
"Halloween II" sees the heist tradition intensify as Jake and Captain Holt go head-to-head once again in a high-stakes competition.
"Halloween, Part III" continues the annual Halloween Heist, with intricate plans, unexpected alliances, and hilarious betrayals within the precinct.
In "Halloween IV," the Halloween Heist gets even more outlandish as Jake and the squad pull off elaborate schemes to claim the title of "Ultimate Detective/Genius."
"HalloVeen" in Season 5 takes the heist to a whole new level, featuring unexpected twists, heartfelt moments, and a surprising engagement, uniting the precinct in the most chaotic and side-splitting affair yet.

With each installment, the Halloween Heists are not only a test of detective skills but also a testament to the show's ability to deliver humor, suspense, and heartwarming moments all wrapped up into one.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Halloween - Season 1, Episode 6
Halloween 2 - Season 2, Episode 4
Halloween, Part III - Season 3, Episode 5
Halloween IV - Season 4, Episode 5
HalloVeen - Season 5, Episode 4

WHERE TO STREAM BROOKLYN NINE-NINE: Prime Video or Peacock

Modern Family Halloween Episodes

What is Modern Family About?

"Modern Family" is a heartwarming sitcom that follows the lives of the Pritchett and Dunphy families, and when it comes to Halloween, they spare no expense to celebrate the spookiest holiday of the year.

Modern Family Halloween Episode Descriptions:

In "Halloween" (Season 2, Episode 6), the families embark on a costume competition, setting the stage for their annual Halloween extravaganzas.
The Halloween specials get even more outrageous as the seasons progress. "Open House of Horrors" (Season 4, Episode 5) turns their home into a haunted house with unexpected twists.
"Halloween 3: AwesomeLand" (Season 6, Episode 6) brings the family to a theme park for a Halloween adventure.
"Halloween IV: Revenge of Rod Skyhook" (Season 8, Episode 5), brings the competitive spirit to its peak as the families vie for a limited edition movie prop.
"It’s the Great Pumpkin, Phil Dunphy" (Season 9, Episode 5) sees Phil trying to create a magical Halloween for his daughter, but chaos ensues as usual.
"Good Grief" (Season 10, Episode 5) showcases the family dealing with the loss of a beloved relative in their own quirky way, all while celebrating Halloween.

These Halloween episodes of "Modern Family" showcase the show's ability to blend humor and heart, making them a cherished annual tradition for fans.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Halloween - Season 2, Episode 6
Open House of Horrors - Season 4, Episode 5
Halloween 3: AwesomeLand - Season 6, Episode 6
Halloween IV: Revenge of Rod Skyhook - Season 8, Episode 5
It’s the Great Pumpkin, Phil Dunphy - Season 9, Episode 5
Good Grief - Season 10, Episode 5

WHERE TO STREAM MODERN FAMILY: Prime Video, Hulu, or Peacock

Parks and Recreation Halloween Episodes

What is Parks and Recreation About?

Parks and Recreation is a delightful comedy series that takes us on a journey through the quirky world of local government in Pawnee, Indiana, and they certainly know how to celebrate Halloween!

Parks and Recreation Halloween Episode Descriptions:

In "Greg Pikitis" (Season 2, Episode 7), the episode revolves around Leslie's relentless pursuit of a notorious teenage prankster, making it a memorable Halloween adventure filled with humor and clever twists.
"Meet N Greet" (Season 4, Episode 5) sees the characters participating in a public forum on Halloween night, blending political satire with festive Halloween elements.
"Halloween Surprise" (Season 5, Episode 5) truly steals the show. This episode features a heartwarming moment by Ben Wyatt (Adam Scott) to Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler), making it the best Halloween surprise for both the characters and fans.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Greg Pikitis - Season 2, Episode 7
Meet N Greet - Season 4, Episode 5
Halloween Surprise - Season 5, Episode 5

WHERE TO STREAM PARKS AND RECREATION: Prime Video or Peacock

New Girl Season 1

What is New Girl About?

"New Girl" is a comedy series that follows the lives of quirky roommates in a Los Angeles loft, and their Halloween episodes are a hilarious mix of comedy and relationship drama.

New Girl Halloween Episode Descriptions:

These "New Girl" Halloween episodes offer a perfect blend of laughs and romantic entanglements, making them a fun addition to the series for fans.

In "Halloween" (Season 2, Episode 6), the gang throws a Halloween party at their loft, resulting in a series of amusing misadventures and costume choices. The episode captures the essence of the show's humor and the characters' quirky personalities while celebrating the spooky holiday.
"Keaton" (Season 3, Episode 6) takes the gang to a haunted house, where the scares aren't limited to the spooky setting. Relationship drama ensues, making the Halloween adventure even more entertaining and relatable for viewers.

Personally, I love the one at the haunted house, where the relationship drama is scarier than the special effects, even more.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Halloween - Season 2, Episode 6
Keaton - Season 3, Episode 6

WHERE TO STREAM NEW GIRL: Prime Video, Hulu, or Peacock

How I Met Your Mother Season 1

What is How I Met Your Mother About?

"How I Met Your Mother" is a sitcom that revolves around Ted Mosby (played by Josh Radnor) recounting the story of how he met the mother of his children to his friends, featuring a series of humorous and heartfelt adventures in dating, friendships, and career pursuits.

How I Met Your Mother Halloween Episode Descriptions:

Who commits to a bit better than this gang? Nobody, I tell you! Ted’s search for “the slutty pumpkin” (not to mention their costumes through the years) never fails to make me laugh!

"The Slutty Pumpkin" (Season 1, Episode 6) - Ted attends a Halloween party each year in the hopes of meeting the mysterious girl he met at the same party years ago, known as "The Slutty Pumpkin."
"Canning Randy" (Season 6, Episode 7) - Marshall and Lily struggle with their desire to start a family while Barney helps Ted realize that he has a unique talent for identifying the perfect burger.
"The Slutty Pumpkin Returns" (Season 7, Episode 8) - Ted finally reunites with "The Slutty Pumpkin," but he must grapple with the fact that she isn't exactly who he had romanticized her to be over the years.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

The Slutty Pumpkin - Season 1, Episode 6
Canning Randy - Season 6, Episode 7

The Slutty Pumpkin Returns - Season 7, Episode 8

WHERE TO STREAM NEW GIRL: Prime Video or Hulu

Community Halloween Episodes

What is Community About?

"Community" is a sitcom about an eclectic group of students at Greendale Community College and their quirky adventures in classes and campus life.

Community Halloween Episode Descriptions:

"Community" is also known for its clever and inventive Halloween episodes, which added an extra layer of hilarity to the already quirky show.

In "Introduction to Statistics" (Season 1, Episode 7), the gang attends a Halloween party, and we're treated to memorable moments like Britta's squirrel costume and Jeff Winger's foray into eyeliner, all while navigating their own interpersonal dynamics.
"Epidemiology" (Season 2, Episode 6) takes a spooky turn when a mysterious virus outbreak occurs during a Halloween party at Greendale Community College, leading to hilarious zombie-like chaos and revealing even more about the characters.
"Horror Fiction in Seven Spooky Steps" (Season 3, Episode 5) showcases the study group telling scary stories, each reflecting their deepest fears. This episode is a brilliant homage to classic horror tropes, and Abed's Batman costume steals the show.

While the later seasons of "Community" might have had their ups and downs, these early Halloween episodes remain standout examples of the show's creativity and humor, making them essential viewing for fans.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Introduction to Statistics - Season 1, Episode 7
Epidemiology - Season 2, Episode 6
Horror Fiction in Seven Spooky Steps - Season 3, Episode 5

WHERE TO STREAM COMMUNITY: Prime Video or Netflix

The Office Halloween Episodes

What is The Office About?

"The Office" is renowned for its hilarious and cringe-worthy workplace humor, and its Halloween episodes are no exception.

The Office Halloween Episode Descriptions:

"The Office" Halloween episodes are a testament to the show's ability to infuse humor into everyday office life and are a treat for fans. You can enjoy these episodes and relive the hilarity of Dunder Mifflin's Halloween celebrations.

"Halloween" (Season 2, Episode 5) showcases Dunder Mifflin's quirky Halloween costumes, including Jim's "Three-Hole Punch Jim" outfit, highlighting the show's unique humor.
"Diwali" (Season 3, Episode 6) brings a cultural twist to Halloween as the staff joins Kelly Kapoor's Diwali celebration, blending workplace humor with cultural exploration.
"Employee Transfer" (Season 5, Episode 6) showcases Pam's Charlie Chaplin costume that turns into an unintentionally awkward affair when her grease-painted mustache won't come off,. The costume of the year includes Creed, Kevin, and Dwight ALL channeling Heath Ledger's Joker from "The Dark Knight,"
"Murder" (Season 6, Episode 10) takes Halloween pranks to new heights with a murder mystery theme.
"Costume Contest" (Season 7, Episode 6) showcases the staff's competitive spirit in creative costumes.
"Spooked" (Season 8, Episode 5) features Erin's fears of losing her job when the Halloween party she organized for Robert and his son becomes a disaster.
"Here Comes Treble" (Season 9, Episode 5) brings Andy Bernard failing to create a successful Halloween party at the office despite facing numerous obstacles and distractions. Complicating plans further, his college, a cappella group, "Here Comes Treble," arrive bringing chaos.
STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Halloween - Season 2, Episode 5
Diwali - Season 3, Episode 6
Employee Transfer - Season 5, Episode 6
Murder - Season 6, Episode 10
Costume Contest - Season 7, Episode 6
Spooked - Season 8, Episode 5
Here Comes Treble - Season 9, Episode 5

WHERE TO STREAM THE OFFICE: Prime Video or Peacock

Frasier Halloween Episodes

What is Frasier About?

"Frasier" is a sitcom that follows the life of Dr. Frasier Crane, a successful psychiatrist and radio show host, as he navigates the challenges of his personal and professional life in Seattle, often getting entangled in humorous and complex social situations with his family and friends.

Frasier Reboot: Did you know there is a New Frasier series on Paramount Plus? The new Frasier show will start streaming on October 12th! You can watch the new Frasier trailer here.

Frasier Halloween Episode Descriptions:

Of course, our favorite stuffy Seattle-ites would throw a fancy Halloween costume ball. And, of course, misunderstandings and laughter are aplenty!

In "Halloween" (Season 5, Episode 3), the Crane brothers, Frasier and Niles, host a high-society Halloween costume party. As expected, misunderstandings, social faux pas, and comedic situations abound as the characters navigate their way through the evening in elaborate costumes.
"Room Full of Heroes" (Season 9, Episode 6) explores the world of comic book collectors, adding a unique twist to the Halloween festivities. The episode combines Frasier's signature wit with a dose of pop culture humor.
In "Tales from the Crypt" (Season 10, Episode 5), the Halloween theme continues with the Crane brothers' ongoing humorous misadventures as they find themselves in peculiar situations at the party.

STREAM THEM ALL HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

Halloween - Season 5, Episode 3
Room Full of Heroes - Season 9, Episode 6
Tales from the Crypt - Season 10, Episode 5

WHERE TO STREAM FRASIER: Prime Video or Peacock

EDITOR'S EDITIONS

The MomAdvice editors curated these additional Halloween sitcoms that you might be searching for.

Glee Halloween Episode

What is Glee About?

"Glee" is a vibrant musical comedy-drama series set in the fictional William McKinley High School in Lima, Ohio. It revolves around a diverse group of high school students who unite to form the "New Directions" glee club.

Through the power of music, the show explores themes of acceptance, diversity, and personal growth as the students face the challenges of adolescence.

Glee Rocky Horror Picture Show Episode:

In the memorable episode "The Rocky Horror Glee Show" (Season 2, Episode 5), the glee club takes on a unique Halloween project.

Will Schuester, their teacher, decides to stage a "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" production to help the students confront their fears and insecurities. As they prepare for this daring performance, they grapple with personal issues, relationships, and the complexities of growing up.

GLEE HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

"The Rocky Horror Glee Show" (Season 2, Episode 5)

This homage to the cult classic "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" features iconic songs like "Time Warp" and "Sweet Transvestite" as the glee club members transform into characters from the film.

WHERE TO STREAM GLEE: Disney+, Hulu, or Prime Video

Freaks and Geeks Halloween Episode

What is Freaks and Geeks About?

"Freaks and Geeks" is a cult classic coming-of-age television series set in a suburban high school in the 1980s.

Unfortunately, the show only had one season, but it featured a memorable Halloween episode titled "Tricks and Treats" (Season 1, Episode 3).

Freaks and Geeks Tricks and Treats Episode:

The Halloween Freaks and Geeks episode follows the main characters, including Lindsay (Linda Cardellini), Sam (John Francis Daley), and their respective groups of friends, as they navigate the challenges and adventures of the holiday.

Lindsay is torn between joining her "freak" friends on a night of Halloween mischief or spending time with her family and her "geek" brother Sam. Meanwhile, Sam and his friends embark on a quest for Halloween candy and a chance to impress some girls.

FREAKS AND GEEKS HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

"Tricks and Treats" (Season 1, Episode 3)

The episode beautifully captures the mix of teenage angst, rebellion, and the innocence of childhood that often accompanies Halloween. We recommend this for anyone who appreciates a nostalgic trip back to the '80s.

WHERE TO STREAM FREAKS AND GEEKS: Hulu or Prime Video

Curb Your Enthusiasm Halloween Episode

What is Curb Your Enthusiasm About?

"Curb Your Enthusiasm" is known for its unfiltered and humorous take on the life of Larry David, a fictionalized version of himself.

Curb Your Enthusiasm Trick or Treat Episode:

In the Curb Your Enthusiasm Trick or Treat episode, Larry David grapples with the Halloween holiday in his typically awkward and neurotic fashion.

The central plot revolves around Larry's refusal to give candy to teenage trick-or-treaters whom he deems too old to participate in the tradition.

His decision sets off a chain of comedic events, including clashes with neighbors and a hilarious encounter with a police officer.

CURB YOUR ENTHUSIASM HALLOWEEN CHEAT SHEET:

"Tricks and Treats" (Season 2, Episode 3)

WHERE TO STREAM CURB YOUR ENTHUSIASM: Max or Prime Video

Tell Me: What Halloween sitcom episode do you watch every year? Are we missing anything on this list?

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How a Kindle Page Turner Remote Improved My Reading Life

Wednesday, September 20th, 2023

This remote control Kindle Page Turner is perfect for reading with hand pain. Learn how to use this gadget with your Kindle Paperwhite or the Kindle app.

How a Kindle Page Turner Remote Improved My Reading Life

I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve dedicated a post to a single product, but the Kindle Page Turner is the kind of gadget that deserves its own post.

How a Kindle Page Turner Improved My Reading Life

This is your reminder that Instagram is an optical illusion- this is my Glamour shot with a chronic illness. This is not for sympathy, but it was important to offer a real user perspective for today’s post.

Longtime readers know I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which affects my joints and causes chronic pain. An ongoing problem that has increasingly become harder to navigate is the joint pain in my fingers.

I can no longer hold a book comfortably, so I’ve been troubleshooting my reading life with various gadgets to make reading easier.

Many readers have asked that I share all of the tried-and-true items that have helped my reading life (scroll down for a full list).

As someone who would refer to herself as a “professional reader,” I have to read for longer periods of time than an average reader.

In addition to today’s post, I am hosting a Book Gang podcast on Literary Wellness with Chronic Pain with Alexandra Orfanide, Creator of The Hypermobility Helpline Podcast & Osteopath on November 10th to discover new ways to manage reading with chronic pain. I will update this list with her suggestions after we record.

For now, the Kindle Page Turner is new to my arsenal of tools but has singlehandedly made even my worst joint days manageable with reading.

This tool allows me to change the placement of my fingers on this remote based on which joint is experiencing the least amount of pain.

I wanted to explain how this gadget works for you today!

What is a Kindle Page Turner?

This remote control allows you to turn pages without touching the screen, making it a convenient option for those who require a hands-free approach to reading.

The demonstration for this Booktok reading sensation is that it is usually paired with a reader cozied under a blanket, clicking the remote while lying in bed.

What I Love About the Kindle Remote:

This ergonomic remote stays charged with a USB charging cord, which lasts for a week on a single charge.

The remote itself does not require charging, but the sensor that is clipped to your gadget is charged with the cord.

What impresses me the most about this tool is that the remote is unbelievably light, so light, in fact, that I’ve been known to walk around my house all evening with the remote still attached to my wrist.

As someone with wrist issues, this element alone made this gadget a winner.

The biggest win for hand pain sufferers or people with carpal tunnel is using this in either hand and selecting which finger needs to do the page turning for that day.

I will switch from the thumb to my trigger finger or other digits when I’m having a difficult day.

Page-turning is quick and pushing the large button doesn’t take too much finger strength.

What I DON’T Love About This Kindle Remote:

This device is imperfect in its design construction, and I want to share my minor grievances with it.

If you have hand pain, getting the wristlet threaded for the first time will require assistance.

The holder must be threaded through with a pin and requires a steady hand to achieve.

As someone who lacks fine motor skills, assembling it took me a long time. It surprises me that this element does not come pre-assembled for users.

The page-turner remote only moves forward, not backward, so you must swipe if you need to manually reverse direction.

The biggest hurdle is that the device placement takes a little getting used to. It can hide a word of text, typically wherever you place it.

Lori, a reader here, also submitted this tip as a workaround! If you adjust the margins of your Kindle page, you can reduce the words covered by the clip!

Click the font menu (Aa) then layout and adjust the margin options there. This is her screen that shows what that new layout will look like, but will require more clicking with a remote if you go this route.

Quick Tips for this Kindle Page Turner Remote:

Keep in mind, if you have a case with a large lip, you may need to pop it off to use this ebook remote.

I use a slim origami Kindle case, so I haven’t encountered that issue with my current setup.

It would be best to position this lower than where you would tap to access your Kindle menu. If you set this too high, it will go back to your Library, and you must confront how many books you have bought and still need to read.

Once you find the optimal placement, you are off to the races.

How to Use a Kindle Remote Page Turner

Let’s walk through the process of pairing your Kindle Page Turner Remote for the first time.

Be sure to scroll down for more fun reading gadgets!

Step 1: Check Compatibility Before Purchasing a Kindle Page Turner

Before purchasing a Page Turner Remote, ensure it is compatible with your reading device.

While I use this, specifically for my Kindle Paperwhite, the remote control can also be used on an iPad, Android tablet, or Barnes and Noble Nook.

If you use the Scribd app, Libby app, or Kindle app for reading with your wireless device, this device should be compatible once you have opened up your book for reading.

Step 2: Pair the Remote with Your Kindle

Enable Bluetooth: On your Kindle device, go to “Settings” > “Bluetooth & Wireless.” Make sure Bluetooth is turned on.

Put the Remote in Pairing Mode: Follow the instructions provided with your Kindle Page Turner Remote to put it in pairing mode. Typically, this involves holding down a button until a light indicator blinks.

Discover Devices: On your Kindle, tap “Pair a New Device.” Your Kindle will start searching for nearby Bluetooth devices.

Select the Remote: When your Kindle discovers the remote, select it from the list of available devices to pair them.

Confirm Pairing: If prompted, confirm the pairing on both your Kindle and the remote.

Here are some frequently asked questions about Kindle page-turning remotes:

Does the Kindle Have an Auto Page Turner?

Kindle devices primarily rely on manual page turning, either by tapping/swiping the touchscreen or using physical buttons if equipped with them.

That is why a remote can be a helpful device for people with hand pain.

Do You Have Any Page-Turners for My Page-Turning Remote?

I host the Book Gang podcast that celebrates debuts, under-the-radar books, and backlist selections! We host an author or literary hero to help co-host our shows.

Each episode features a page-turner book list. That’s a beautiful place to start!

The Best Prime Reading Guide 10 Free Kindle Books

Do You Have Resources for Free Kindle Books?

I am the queen of free Kindle books and how to get them. Be sure to check The Best Prime Reading Guide with Ten Free Books you can borrow if you have Prime.

Don’t forget to take advantage of the Kindle First Reads program that allows Prime members to access and purchase new books a month before they are officially released to the public!

You can check this landing page for monthly Kindle First Reads recommendations.

If you don’t have Prime, the library or my The Best Daily Kindle Deals list is a wonderful spot for readers on a budget.

Below I am sharing my favorite reading tools for hand pain. Sending love and comfort to any reader who faces these kinds of challenges!

The Best Reading Tools for Chronic Pain

You can read more comfortably beyond the Kindle Page Turner! These are the items that help me the most with reading and chronic pain. As a professional reader with hand pain, I rely upon these items daily.

Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, I will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase.

Kindle Paperwhite

There is a reason why I do so much reading on my Paperwhite.

The Kindle Paperwhite is an excellent choice for individuals with hand pain because of its lightweight and ergonomic design.

The lightweight design reduces the strain on my wrists and fingers during prolonged reading sessions.

The fact that you can load it with HUNDREDS of books, is both a curse and a blessing. Be sure to look at the resource list above for budget-friendly Kindle books.

Kindle Remote Page Turner

This helpful reading device inspired today's post. This reading gadget can reduce hand pain by allowing you to turn pages on your Kindle, Nook, or iPad without physically touching the screen or buttons.

Be sure to see today's post for navigating how to use the Kindle remote.

Oval-8 Finger Splints

I use these lightweight orthopedic devices to support and immobilize problem finger joints.

These finger splints help alleviate hand pain by providing stability, reducing strain on the affected joints, and promoting proper finger alignment.

Sizing can be tricky with plastic. I do recommend buying a variety pack because fingers can swell depending on the seasons.

Many Etsy sellers create beautiful silver ring splints (or gold) if you prefer something more fashionable.

Arthritis Hand Compression Gloves

These gloves provide gentle compression to the hands and wrists, which helps reduce inflammation, increase circulation, and relieve pain.

I find these incredibly helpful in the winter months with Raynaud's Syndrome.

I've had many readers that have had great success with these especially in the winter months. You can wear these under your regular gloves for circulation support.

Lazy Glasses for Bed (Prism Glasses)

Lazy Glasses are innovative optical devices that allow users to read or watch shows while lying down or reclining without straining their necks.

These glasses use a prism system that bends the line of sight, enabling the user to view a book, smartphone, or screen at a right angle while in a more comfortable position.

Remember, if you wear glasses, these need to go over those- not impossible, but I want to mention that.

Gooseneck Tablet Holder Stand for Bed

You will often see the page-turner remote and stand together as it allows readers to be completely hands-free when reading.

This e-reader holder can be positioned at a comfortable angle height and offers hands-free accessibility to your tablet or e-reader.

Be mindful that you need a spot to clamp this on a nightstand or headboard.

Lazarus Balm Stick

This topical balm stick works better than anything else I've ever tried. I have no affiliation with this company but have been a loyal customer for years.

I will periodically put this balm on my knuckles and wrists for pain relief.

It takes about ten minutes to kick in, but it lasts surprisingly long.

LEVO G2 Book Holder Floor Stand

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This is the book stand I use for reading hardcover books. I have no affiliation with this company.

This clever book holder Velcro's your book in and keeps the pages back.

It can be positioned over your bed, chair, or even upside down!

The company initially offered a side table clamp design at a lower price point, but I can attest that it has been my most used reader tool through challenging health stages where I've been bedridden.

If you are on a budget, check Ebay pricing for LEVO stands for a gently used version.

TELL ME: What reading tools help you with chronic pain? If you have tried any of the devices mentioned, I’d love to hear your experience with them.

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The Best Gifts for Kids Who Have Everything

Tuesday, September 19th, 2023

Are you searching for the best gifts for kids who have everything? This unique gift guide offers ideas for gifts for older kids, toddlers, and preschoolers.

The Best Gifts for the Kids Who Have Everything

Welcome to our updated 2023 gift guide for the kids who seem to have everything. Cue the confetti!

You’re in the right place for great gifts that I don’t think you’ll find anywhere else.

Our comprehensive gift guide has compiled a curated selection of unique and fun gift ideas for kids of all ages that are perfect for birthday gifts, special occasions, or just because.

Whether you have teens, tweens, toddlers, or preschoolers, we’ve covered you with many exciting gift options.

So dive in and discover some of our favorite gifts for your kiddos that we also believe are fun for the whole family.

Activate Your Rakuten App First

Just as a reminder, if you are on a budget, I DO recommend that you sign up with Rakuten to do your shopping. This service will give you cash back on all your qualifying purchases.

If you want to read more about this shopping app, head here for an in-depth review of what Rakuten offers.

If you want $40 and plan to get shopping, this should automatically deposit $40 in your account for purchases(sorry- new customers only!).

Here are my suggestions for this year!

Gifts For Kids Who Have Everything

GIFTS FOR KIDS WHO HAVE EVERYTHING UNDER $25

Browse these unique gift ideas for kids under $25.

Barbie Styling Head

The Barbie Styling Head offers styling fun with thick, flowing hair that can be brushed or twisted.

The set includes a pink brush and hair barrettes with pop-in gems for added style.

Gaming Glasses

These gaming glasses are essential for kids who frequently use digital screens, as they shield their eyes from harmful blue light, reduce eye strain, and visual fatigue.

The design feature flexible and comfortable silicone frames, making them durable for extended wear, and come with a convenient protective carrying case to prevent scratches and dust.

Ed Emberley's Big Green Drawing Book

Ed Emberley's step-by-step drawing instructions, using just nine basic shapes, make it easy for kids and adults to bring a world of creatures, people, and monsters to life on paper.

With 96 pages of creative inspiration, this classic drawing book would be great with a sketchbook and pencils for a complete gift set.

Unicorn Bag

Elevate your child's style with this adorable mini crossbody bag.

Featuring a main zippered compartment for small essentials and a single shoulder strap for effortless wear, it's both practical and trendy.

This unicorn bag features a sparkly horn and is adorned with colorful pompoms in a rainbow palette.

Anti-Soggy Cereal Bowl

For the cereal enthusiast, this unique bowl is designed to keep your cereal from getting soggy by separating the milk from the cereal.

Pair this fun bowl with boxes of their favorite cereal.

Child Sized Apron

Encourage your little chef's culinary creativity with this apron, available in both adult and kid sizes.

The playful design features an adjustable neckband and roomy pockets for tools and recipes.

It would be so cute to pair with a kid's cooking set, or you could pair it with a subscription box from a dinner prep company.

Neck Book Light

Ignite your child's love for reading with this USB-rechargeable neck book light.

The flexible design and multiple lighting modes make it the perfect companion for young bookworms, allowing them to comfortably read in the dark.

I love that this design features a large-capacity battery.

Board Game Dinner Tray

Make mealtime an exciting adventure with these divided eating trays, designed with eight portions and a hidden treat.

Crafted from safe, BPA-free materials and adorned with vibrant illustrations, it's the perfect gift for kids who need a game to incentivize adventurous eating.

Magic Kit

Unleash your child's inner magician with this comprehensive magic set.

Packed with over 25 easy-to-learn tricks and high-quality props, it empowers young beginners to perform astonishing tricks with professional flair.

With an instruction booklet and access to online videos, this set offers step-by-step beginner guidance.

GIFTS FOR KIDS WHO HAVE EVERYTHING UNDER $50

Browse these kid gifts under $50!

Waterproof Rain Boots (Many Designs & Prints)

These waterproof rain boots are the ideal gift for kids who love to explore and play, rain or shine.

Featuring a snug insole and lining for comfort and a traction outsole for sure footing on slippery surfaces.

I recommend buying this rubber boot cleaner to keep them looking like new.

Minecraft Sword and Pickaxe

Surprise your child with the perfect gift for their Minecraft adventures.

This versatile play tool effortlessly transforms from a pickaxe to a sword, adding excitement to their gaming experiences.

Giant 10-foot OCEAN Coloring Poster

I love gifts that foster collaborative creativity, and this giant ten-foot coloring poster fits the bill perfectly.

Crafted on premium paper, the poster can withstand a range of art supplies, including crayons, markers, paints, and more.

100% Organic Cotton Sweater Set - Baby Girl

This two-piece set makes the coziest gift ideas for a baby.

This two-piece set is made from 100% Organic Cotton and is soft, warm, and breathable.

Searching for a baby boy or other sweater set options instead? Check them out here.

Nerf Basketball Pro Over the Door Hoop with Mini Ball

Turn any room into a slam-dunk haven with the NERF Basketball Set.

This over-the-door design can easily attach to standard-sized doors for a lightning-fast setup.

Featuring premium elements like a shatter-proof backboard and a spring-loaded rim, it withstands even the most vigorous dunks.

GIFTS FOR KIDS UNDER $100

Browse these kid gifts under $100.

Marvel Spider-Man Hoodie In French Terry

This line of superhero inspired gear is a must-have for any fan.

Featuring the iconic Spider-Man design, it's a stylish and comfortable way to channel your inner hero while keeping warm.

These items will sell out so we have pointed you to a landing page to shop them all.

Shark , Bear, or Bunny Robe

This robe design isn't limited to sharks; it comes in adorable bunny and bear designs.

With roomy front pockets and a secure "never lose" belt stitched down the back, it will be a favorite after bathtime.

Tablecloth Playhouse

Transform any table into a magical play haven for kids with this versatile table tent.

This enchanting addition provides an interactive space for children who need more ideas for imaginative play.

This is an ideal gift choice for families with limited space.

GIFT IDEAS FOR TEENS & TWEENS UNDER $25

Browse these unique gifts for teens and tweens under $25

Taylor's Version Swiftea Mug

For the tea drinker in your family, this cute mug is a stylish way to show their love for Taylor's re-recorded music.

The mug can be customized and I suggest pairing this with a fun tea drink.

Rapid Ramen Cooker

This simple, microwaveable container makes perfect ramen noodles quickly, so your teen can indulge in no time flat.

Pair these ramen cookers with a fun variety box of ramen noodles.

Kitsch Satin Heatless Curling Set

This heatless curler set is a must-have for teens who want gorgeous curls without the heat damage.

It includes satin hair rollers that you can use overnight to wake up with beautiful, heat-free curls.

This is the tried-and-true set my daughter uses every morning.

USB Rechargeable Hand Warmer

I never expected that a USB rechargeable handwarmer would be my teenager's most used gift, but it is.

These are perfect for tweens waiting at the bus stop, ensuring they stay cozy and warm during chilly mornings.

They also have been excellent for attending sporting events or outdoor concerts.

This offers a reliable backup charger for their iPhone, too.

P.S.- This gift just squeaks past the $25 mark, but it is on sale often.

Flippy Book or Tablet Stand (MANY PRINTS AND COLORS)

This cozy tablet stand is perfect for those Gilmore Girls binge sessions.

This lightweight stand offers hands-free device viewing at home or while on the move. The storage pocket for earbuds is an added bonus.

Caboodles Storage

Teens can get organized in style with this Caboodles case for their back-to-school essentials or beauty supplies.

Fill this with hair accesssories, art supplies, or fun makeup for the holidays.

Reusable Smart Notebook

Teens can effortlessly convert handwritten notes into digital text using this reusable notebook.

You can clear the notebook pages with just water!

Satin Silk Pillowcase (2 Pack)

A satin pillowcase is a luxurious addition to any teen's bedroom, and this affordable set makes a great stocking stuffer.

Not only does it feel incredibly smooth, but it also helps reduce hair frizz and breakage while they sleep.

Wireless Charging Station, 3 in 1 Wireless Charger Stand

For tech-loving teens who can't get enough of their Apple gadgets, this charging station is the ultimate gift.

It fast-charges multiple devices at once, from the newest iPhones to Apple Watch and AirPods Pro.

Pressed Flowers Camera Case

This camera case is perfect for capturing concert moments.

It has a handy shoulder strap, allowing quick access so you can capture moments on the go.

Don't have a Fujifilm camera? Here are some fun color options to go with it.

Microfiber Hair Towel

This is our most used beauty tool!

Teens can effortlessly dry their hair without heat damage using these super-absorbent microfiber hair towels.

These towels would make the perfect stocking stuffer.

One Question a Day: A Five-Year Journal

Teens can capture their thoughts and feelings over five years with just one daily question in this easy-to-use journal.

Ticket Stub Diary Diary

The Ticket Stub Diary is an ideal gift, combining their love for live events with the joy of journaling.

This would make a great gift with a starter set of tickets for their first show of the year.

GIFT IDEAS FOR TEENS & TWEENS UNDER $50

Wireless Gaming Mouse

Enhance your teen or tween's gaming experience with this wireless gaming mouse that offers faster response times and customizable features.

This is the perfect teen stocking stuffer for gamers craving a competitive edge.

Mini Photo Printer

Teens can elevate school projects and room décor with this mini photo printer.

It's compact and super easy to use, letting you print out your favorite photos, stickers, and more to add a personal touch to their assignments and bedroom.

Jewelry Holder

This mushroom-shaped jewelry holder is a fantastic teen gift.

It offers a fun and stylish way to keep their accessories organized while adding a pop of color to their room décor.

Custom AirTag Wallet

This stylish personalized leather money clip includes a snug pocket for your Apple AirTag,so you don't lose it.

Pair with an Apple AirTag for the perfect gift for the kid that loses their wallet or car keys.

Bluetooth Beanie Headphone Hat

This Bluetooth beanie is the perfect gift for a tween that wants to stay cozy and connected.

The hat offers 16-20 hours of continuous wireless music and is charged with a USB charger.

Weaving Loom Kit

Ideal for beginners dipping their toes into the world of weaving, this kit allows you to craft wall hangings, decorations, and small cushions.

Plus, it's easily portable, making it the perfect companion for crafting adventures beyond your home.

Pressure Relief Seat Cushion (MANY COLORS)

This pressure relief cushion is a comfortable and supportive desk accessory for teens.

Whether they are sitting for long periods while studying or gaming, this offers extra comfort during downtime.

We have loved these cushions so much that everyone in our family has one.

Nail Stamper

This at-home nail studio allows you to easily create custom manicures and pedicures with built-in drying.

It includes everything needed for up to 125 nails, offers a variety of trendy nail patterns, and makes a great gift or sleepover party activity.

Favorite Books Art Print (CUSTOMIZABLE)

This customizable art print showcases an original watercolor painting of a stack of vintage books.

You can personalize the print with your six favorite book titles, making it an ideal gift for book lovers and budding authors.

The Puffin in Bloom Collection

The Puffin in Bloom collection offers classic books like Anne of Green Gables, Heidi, Little Women, and A Little Princess with stunning illustrated covers by Anna Bond in a charming keepsake box.

These editions are a beautiful addition to any teen or tween bookshelf.

Video Rocker Gaming Chair

Level up your gaming setup with the Classic Video Rocker Gaming Chair, designed for teens' comfort during gaming, reading, or lounging.

Nail Kit Set

Teens can elevate their nail game with this all-in-one DIY nail art kit, featuring professional acrylics, gel nail polish, UV light, drills, nail tips, and art decorations.

Herschel Mini Backpack

This Mini Classic Backpack is perfect for teens on the go, offering a compact yet stylish solution to carry and organize their daily essentials.

Mini Projector

This home theater projector is perfect for teens craving a fun movie night, and the mini projector is compatible with all your devices.

Related- DIY Outdoor Movie Night

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The Best Anthony Doerr Books (Exclusive Author Interview)

Monday, September 18th, 2023

Read my interview with the author on the All The Light We Cannot See book. Discover the Anthony Doerr books in order and details on the new Netflix TV series.

The Best Anthony Doerr Books (Exclusive Author Interview)

This exclusive interview with acclaimed author Anthony Doerr delves into the captivating world of Anthony Doerr’s Pulitzer Prize-winning All the Light We Cannot See book.

Join me as Doerr offers unique insights into the creation of this literary masterpiece, revealing the inspirations, challenges, and emotions that brought this unforgettable tale to life.

Be sure to scroll down to see the FULL LIST of books from the author, and more details on the All the Light We Cannot See movie.

All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr

All The Light We Cannot See Summary

In this story, Marie-Laure lives with her father in Paris near the Museum of Natural History, where he works as the master of its thousands of locks.

When she is six, Marie-Laure goes blind, and her father builds a perfect miniature of their neighborhood so she can memorize it by touch and navigate her way home.

When she is twelve, the Nazis occupy Paris, and father and daughter flee to the walled citadel of Saint-Malo, where Marie-Laure’s reclusive great-uncle lives in a tall house by the sea.

They carry what might be the museum’s most valuable and dangerous jewel with them.

Meanwhile, in a mining town in Germany, the orphan Werner grows up with his younger sister, enchanted by a crude radio they find.

Werner becomes an expert at building and fixing these crucial new instruments, a talent that wins him a place at a brutal academy for Hitler Youth, then a special assignment to track the resistance.

More and more aware of the human cost of his intelligence, Werner travels through the heart of the war and, finally, into Saint-Malo, where his story and Marie-Laure’s converge.

All the Light We Cannot See Themes:

This novel was selected for an Alex Award which is given to ten books written for adults that have special appeal to young adults, ages 12 through 18.

You will find many powerful themes in this book including:

War and Its Impact: The novel vividly portrays the devastating effects of World War II on individuals, families, and communities. It poses moral dilemmas faced by characters caught amid the conflict.

Resilience and Survival: The story follows the journeys of two young protagonists, Marie-Laure and Werner, as they navigate the challenges of war. Their resilience, courage, and determination to survive against all odds highlight the strength of the human spirit.

Human Connection: Amidst the chaos of war, the novel emphasizes the importance of human connections and empathy. It explores the bonds formed between characters, emphasizing the capacity for kindness and compassion even in the darkest times.

The Power of Knowledge: The novel celebrates the transformative power of knowledge and the way it can provide solace and hope. Marie-Laure’s love for books and Werner’s expertise in radio technology are symbolic examples of the intellectual pursuits that can illuminate even the darkest paths.

Moral Choices: Throughout the story, characters are faced with moral dilemmas and choices that challenge their values and principles. These ethical quandaries reflect the complexities of human nature and the blurred lines between right and wrong during times of war.

At the time of this interview, Anthony Doerr had already been on the New York Times best-seller list for twenty weeks. He certainly doesn’t need this interview for a promotion.

Shortly after my interview, they awarded All the Light We Cannot See the 2015 Pulitzer Prize for fiction and the 2015 Andrew Carnegie Medal for Excellence in Fiction.

The Best Anthony Doerr Books (Exclusive Author Interview)

What was it like spending a decade on this book, and did you ever feel discouraged while writing it?

Oh, I was crazy with doubt almost of the time.

You invest so many months into a single project—shelves stuffed with WWII books, three separate trips to Europe, dozens of scribbled notes, and the terror that you won’t be able to pull it all together keeps you up at night.

I worried that if I abandoned the project, I’d let down my wife, kids, editor, and myself.

And I never dreamed it would take so long—a quarter of my life!

The story beautifully centers around radio communication bringing unlikely individuals together. What inspired your choice to delve into radio, and did researching older radio models and their workings play a significant role in crafting this plotline?

I adored radios as a boy and often stayed up late listening to baseball games under my covers while my parents thought I was sleeping.

But that passion had waned until ten years ago, when I took a train from Princeton, New Jersey, into New York City.

I had just completed a novel and was searching for a new idea, and I had a notebook in my lap.

The man in the seat in front of me was talking to someone on his cell phone about the sequel to The Matrix, I remember that very clearly, and as we approached Manhattan, sixty feet of steel and concrete started flowing above the train, his call dropped.

And he got angry!

He started swearing and rapping his phone with his knuckles, and after briefly worrying for my safety, I said to myself: What he’s forgetting, what we’re all forgetting, is that what he was just doing is a miracle.

He’s using two little radios — a receiver and a transmitter — crammed into something no bigger than a deck of cards to send and receive little packets of light between hundreds of radio towers, one after the next, miles apart, each connecting to the next at the speed of light, and he’s using this magic to have a conversation about Keanu Reeves.

Because we’re habituated to it, we’ve stopped seeing the grandeur of this breathtaking act.

So I decided to write something that would help me and my reader feel that power again, to feel the strangeness and sorcery of hearing the voice of a stranger, or a distant loved one, in our heads.

That very afternoon, ten years ago, I wrote a title into my notebook: All the Light We Cannot See—a reference to all the invisible wavelengths of the electromagnetic spectrum (like radio waves).

And that night, I started a piece of fiction in which a girl reads a story to a boy over the radio.

I conceived of her as blind and him as trapped in darkness, and the sound of her voice, carried by radio waves – the light we cannot see — through walls, as his salvation.

My heart went out to Werner, especially during his time in the Hitler Youth and the difficult choices he had to make for survival.

The book delves into themes of death, war, sadness, and poverty, despite the underlying hope in the story’s conclusion. Writing about this challenging period in history must have been tough.

Can you share which scene was the most challenging for you to write?

Yes, lots of the research for this novel was excruciating.

The destruction of human beings during WWII, especially on the Eastern Front, occurred on a scale almost too large for the human brain to comprehend.

Sometimes, the source material would send me to dark places, and I’d have to take breaks to work on other projects.

As for scenes that were hard to write, a writer faces many kinds of difficulties: technical, emotional, and syntactic.

In terms of emotions, all the scenes involving Frederick were the most difficult because he reminds me of one of my sons.

Marie-Laure’s father’s intricate puzzles add so much beauty to your story.

It made me wish I could find a puzzle for my kids to solve.

How did you come up with this concept?

A friend of our family once gave me a Japanese puzzle box as a present.

It was a wooden cube that looked like an ornate, solid block of wood. No visible doors, no knobs, no handles, no buttons.

But, as our family friend showed me if you knew what side to push in on, then various panels would start to slide down, and by manipulating all the panels in clever ways, you could eventually slide open the top and discover a hidden compartment inside.

I played with that thing for hours, showing it off to friends, examining its construction, etc., then eventually put it on a shelf and forgot about it.

A couple of decades later, while working on this novel, the puzzle box came back to me, along with my fascination with it, and I decided to try writing a couple of scenes in which Marie-Laure’s father fashions puzzle boxes.

Which character do you identify the most within your book?

I do my best to identify with all my characters, even the bad actors—I think that’s probably part of the job description for any novelist, isn’t it?

This novel has 187 chapters beautifully segmented and sectioned for the reader in small doses. Why did you decide to structure your story this way?

Obviously, there are infinite ways to write a novel, but for me, “plotting it out” has always sounded scary and programmatic.

I have to compose, revise, and re-revise scenes to understand what should happen.

So my process involves a lot of trial and error. I write hundreds of paragraphs trying to figure out where the story is going, and I usually cut most of them.

I knew early on that I wanted the two narratives to feel like two almost parallel lines that gently inclined toward each other.

The structure was a big mess for a long time.

It probably had 250 or 300 chapters at some points.

All I knew early on — and wanted a reader to intuit – was that Marie’s and Werner’s lives would intersect.

But it took me a long time to figure out exactly how that would happen.

If you could tell anyone to read one book (other than your own), what would that book be?

Oh, gosh, my answer to this question changes all the time, but a novel I’m absolutely in love with right now is Karen Joy Fowler’s We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves.

It’s about family, siblinghood, memory, storytelling, and particularly about our society’s treatment of animals.

It’s also structured in this beautiful, organic, perfect way—I hope a few of your readers will look at it!

*Editor’s Note: Read my interview with Karen Joy Fowler about “We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves” here!

Frequently Asked Questions About Anthony Doerr Books:

How do you pronounce Anthony Doerr?

Anthony Doerr’s last name sounds like “door.” For a pronunciation guide, it would look like this: Anthony Dor

What are the best Anthony Doerr books?

My favorite book by the author is All the Light We Cannot See.

This novel also is the highest-rated on GoodReads, followed closely by Cloud Cuckoo Land.

Is All The Light We Cannot See based on a true story?

All The Light We Cannot See is a work of historical fiction.

While the characters are entirely fictional, the setting of Saint-Malo is a real place.

When can I watch All The Light We Cannot See movie?

The book will become a Netflix TV series very soon!

Directed by Shawn Levy, the Netflix adaptation stars Louis Hofmann, Lars Eidinger, Marion Bailey, Hugh Laurie, Aria Mia Loberti, and Mark Ruffalo.

With four hour-long episodes in total, the All the Light We Cannot See limited series will premiere on November 2, 2023, nearly a decade after the novel was published.

You can watch the riveting movie trailer here!

What are Anthony Doerr’s books in order published?

The Shell Collector: Stories (2001)
About Grace (2004)
Four Seasons in Rome: On Twins, Insomnia, and the Biggest Funeral in the History of the World (2007)
Memory Wall: Stories (2010)
All The Light We Cannot See (2014)
Cloud Cuckoo Land (2021)

Anthony Doerr Books

Anthony Doerr is the author of six books. He won the 2015 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction and the 2015 Andrew Carnegie Medal for Excellence in Fiction for his novel All the Light We Cannot See.

His talent extends to the world of short stories and essays, where he has claimed an impressive five O. Henry Prizes.

Anthony's work has been translated into over forty languages.

He has received recognition from the Barnes & Noble Discover Prize, the Rome Prize, the New York Public Library's Young Lions Award, a Guggenheim Fellowship, an NEA Fellowship, and an Alex Award from the American Library Association.

Other esteemed honors include the National Magazine Award for Fiction, four Pushcart Prizes, three Pacific Northwest Book Awards, five Ohioana Book Awards, and the coveted 2010 Story Prize.

Discover more about all six books in this book list today.

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Cloud Cuckoo Land

This new book by Anthony Doerr weaves together the lives of five characters from different centuries and places, all saved by an ancient Greek story about a shepherd's quest for an imaginary utopian city.

As they face adversity and loneliness, this enchanting novel celebrates the enduring power of storytelling. The story offers a heartfelt tribute to the magic of books and literature.

Cloud Cuckoo Land was a finalist for the 2021 National Book Award, Novel of the Year in the British Book Awards, and winner of the Grand Prix de Littérature Américaine in France.

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All the Light We Cannot See

This historical fiction novel offers readers a fresh perspective on World War II with themes perfect for a high school classroom.

A blind French girl and a German boy's lives intersect in occupied France as they both struggle to survive the destruction of World War II.

Eventually, their stories converge in Saint-Malo during the war.

The novel was a #1 New York Times bestseller, remaining on the New York Times Bestseller List for over 200 weeks, and will be released by Netflix as a limited series on November 2, 2023.

Memory Wall: Stories

This story collection is all connected by the theme of memory—how it operates, its impact on people's lives, and the consequences when it fades away.

Through these stories, Doerr explores the wonder in everyday things like seeds, fossils, and clouds.

Four Seasons in Rome: On Twins, Insomnia, and the Biggest Funeral in the History of the World

Anthony Doerr takes readers on a captivating adventure in Rome through this memoir.

In this memoir, he documents his discoveries, including the works of Rome's literary predecessors, the city’s historic landmarks, and his unique moments with his family.

This intimate and revealing book not only celebrates the beauty of Rome but also offers an insightful glimpse into new parenthood.

About Grace

David Winkler is fascinated by the unpredictability of weather and possesses a mysterious ability to foresee future events.

After a distressing dream of his daughter drowning in a flood, while he tries to save her, he embarks on a journey to escape the haunting vision.

Eventually finding refuge on a Caribbean island and befriending a couple with their own daughter, David is encouraged to reconnect with his past.

The Shell Collector: Stories

In Africa, a reclusive 63-year-old blind biologist rescues an American woman and a native girl from malaria by using cone shell venom.

However, his isolation is disrupted as people seek the miraculous remedy, leading to tragedy and death for some.

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The Best Page Turners About Motherhood to Read Now

Thursday, September 14th, 2023

These books about motherhood are the best page turners to read now. Dive into the joys, struggles, and complexities in this curated list of books about moms.

If you missed the Book Gang podcast, Adele Griffin celebrated the literary wisdom in motherhood-themed books! Adele Griffin’s debut revealed a captivating surrogacy journey and shares the characters that molded her narrative.

Listen to the full episode (the show notes are located at The Best Motherhood Lessons From Literary Characters) below and subscribe to the Book Gang podcast for more episodes like this one.

In honor of today’s topic, Adele and I share our favorite books about motherhood with this beautiful reading list celebrating mothers.

Remember, you can find our book club member recommendations at the end of our book lists!

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Best Page Turner Books About Motherhood

Browse these top page-turner books about motherhood. This list includes book club books, thrillers, mysteries, classics, and memoirs.

ENLIGHTENING INFERTILITY BOOKS

These books document the infertility journey through fiction and include a poignant personal story that influenced today’s author.

The Favor by Adele Griffin

Adele Griffin's adult debut showcases a fictional surrogacy story in the contrasting lives of two women.

Meet Nora Hammond, who struggles with debt, a cramped apartment, and infertility alongside her husband Jacob.

Yet, when socialite Evelyn Elliot enters Nora's life, a deep connection forms, thrusting Nora into Manhattan's luxurious elite society.

However, their unique power dynamic faces a test when Evelyn selflessly offers to become Nora's surrogate.

This book is a perfect beach read, but equally compelling to discuss with your book club.

You can hear Adele's surrogacy story on this moving episode of the Book Gang podcast- The Best Motherhood Lessons from Literary Characters. (LISTEN NOW).

Lucky Boy by Shanthi Sekaran

This story revolves around two women: one, an undocumented immigrant, and the other, living the quintessential American Dream in Berkeley.

At eighteen, Solimar embarks on a perilous journey across the Mexican border, ending up pregnant and far from her intended path.

Meanwhile, Kavya Reddy wants to be a mother as she struggles with infertility.

When Soli's detention leads to Kavya becoming the official guardian of her son, a fierce battle between these women ensues.

Waiting for Daisy: A Tale of Two Continents, Three Religions, Five Infertility Doctors, an Oscar, an Atomic Bomb by Peggy Orenstein

Peggy Orenstein guides readers through her hardships of infertility, detailing their tiring fertility treatments and international adoption efforts.

This memoir reveals details on the thriving fertility industry while delivering a heartfelt and often amusing narrative of a woman's path to motherhood.

Adele Griffin describes Orenstein as the “big sister she needed” through her fertility challenges.

Stay with Me by Ayobami Adebayo

Set in Nigeria, this captivating debut novel explores the trials of a marriage strained by infertility.

Infertility marred Yejide and Akin's love story, weighing heavily on them in their culture.

When their families pressure Akin into taking another wife, it shatters their agreed-upon commitment to monogamy.

BEST BOOK CLUB BOOKS ABOUT MOTHERS

Dive into these stories and experience the highs and lows of motherhood like never before. These are the best book club books about mothers for discussion.

Hello Beautiful (Oprah's Book Club) by Ann Napolitano

Our guest described this homage to Little Women as a "genuine and heartfelt portrayal of motherhood."

The story takes place in the aftermath of tragedy, where William Waters finds comfort in the company of a lively family.

However, as dark secrets resurface, they test their bonds, leading to a generational rift.

Oprah notably chose this selection as her 100th book club pick.

This Is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel

This powerful novel offers a mother's perspective on the unique challenges of parenting a transgender child.

As Claude transforms into Poppy, their family's relocation to a new town brings a poignant dilemma about when to share their truth.

Landslide by Susan Conley

This literary fiction novel unfolds its story in a remote fishing village in Maine.

A fishing accident leaves Jill's husband in the hospital, making her the sole provider and caregiver for her boys.

As I rarely see mothers of teens in fiction, this book reminded me I'm not alone.

One memorable quote reads, "Being a mother isn't anything like I thought it would be. It's harder. Better. More confusing. Shorter. Longer."

The Other Mother by Rachel M. Harper

This thought-provoking generational saga skillfully explores themes of race, identity, family, and forgiveness.

With over three decades of intertwined history, it follows Jentry's quest to uncover the mysteries of his absent father.

The story invites readers to unravel secrets and delve into complex familial themes, making it ideal for book clubs.

The audiobook narration of this story is beautiful- I listened on the Scribd app.

The Death of Vivek Oji by Akwaeke Emezi

In 1990s Nigeria, Vivek stands apart from other boys. He's unafraid to embrace his unique identity by wearing dresses and keeping long hair.

When his lifeless body, adorned in colorful fabric, is discovered by his mother, she searches for answers to his death.

Vivek's secrets and the truth behind his tragic end slowly unspool in this mesmerizing and heart-wrenching novel.

The Extraordinary Life of Sam Hell by Robert Dugoni

This remarkable mother has become one of my favorite literary characters in recent years.

Sam, born with ocular albinism, overcomes bullies with the unwavering support of his great friendships and one incredible mother.

Dugoni's touching story, inspired by his family’s experiences, is a must-read for any book club.

The Dream Daughter by Diane Chamberlain

In 1970, a young widow learns her unborn daughter has an incurable heart defect.

With the help of her enigmatic physicist brother-in-law, who can time travel, she embarks on a journey to ensure her daughter can receive experimental surgery in 2001.

This time travel story transcends motherhood in the best kinds of ways.

Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng

Step into the orderly world of Shaker Heights, a serene suburb shaken and disrupted by the arrival of a new family.

In this gripping tale, a custody battle ensues, bringing two very different families together and, ultimately, breaking them apart.

Celeste Ng's masterpiece ignites a powerful exploration of the complexities beneath the surface of seemingly perfect lives.

PAGE TURNER THRILLERS AND MYSTERIES ABOUT MOTHERHOOD

Motherhood is complex and these books explore the darker sides of motherhood in the thriller and mystery genre.

The School for Good Mothers: A Novel

Chan's sci-fi dystopian novel serves as a thought-provoking commentary on the relentless challenges of motherhood.

Frida Liu struggles to balance work and single motherhood.

Following a parenting mistake, Frida must surrender her child and undergo a motherhood education program, training with a robot baby.

Chan explores what it means to be a "good mother," in compelling ways. There are also many support group scenes that I still think about.

The Push by Ashley Audrain

This disturbing psychological thriller book delves into the intricate dynamics of motherhood and the struggle to bond with challenging children.

Blythe's story unfolds as she questions whether her daughter's behavior results from her parenting or something more sinister.

This challenging story examines the impact of generations of troubled mother-child relationships in families.

Related- The Best Psychological Thrillers to Read

Room by Emma Donoghue

For many years, a small space known as the "room" has held captive a five-year-old boy named Jack and his Ma.

Ma has created a rich and imaginative life for her son despite their captivity.

Narrated through Jack's childlike perspective, the book is both endearing and poignant, capturing the innocence of a young boy.

Their story embodies unconquerable love in harrowing circumstances and showcases the unbreakable bond between a mother and her child.

Mother-Daughter Murder Night: A Reese Witherspoon Book Club Pick by Nina Simon

Lana Rubicon teams up with her daughter and granddaughter to solve a murder mystery when someone in their town turns up dead.

Together, they navigate tricky family dynamics and expose secrets in their sleepy town.

This book offers insightful and often humorous commentary on mother-daughter dynamics, making it a cleverly crafted, cozy crime novel.

Don't miss these other NEW Fall Books in our 2023 Fall Reading Guide.

Related- Listen to Nina Simon on Book Gang- The Remarkable Murder Mystery That Changed Everything.

BEST MEMOIRS ON MOTHERHOOD

These motherhood memoirs capture the joys, challenges, and complexities of this role.

Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year by Anne Lamott

Anne Lamott's memoir takes us through the journey of becoming a mother at thirty-five, all on her own.

She shares the highs and lows of that crucial first year with humor and faith. This handbook to motherhood has been loved by mothers of many generations.

In her candid narrative, Lamott weaves the significant and everyday moments that shape a mother's life.

CLASSIC BOOKS ABOUT MOTHERS

Celebrate the best mothers in classic literature.

All-of-a-Kind Family by Sydney Taylor

Adele brought this beloved series celebrating a close-knit Jewish family in early 20th-century New York City.

This story follows five lively sisters—Ella, Henny, Sarah, Charlotte, and Gertie—as they navigate the highs and lows of life.

Be sure to listen to today’s show to learn the surprising backstory of how this book came to be.

Adele expressed a desire to be the nurturing mother figure in this story. She also loved how these sisters cared for each other in the most beautiful ways.

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

Is there a better mother in a book than Marmee?

Adele described this mother as remarkable, noting Marmee's life outside her home. It was a story that resonated with her the most as the daughter of a working parent.

Step into the enchanting world of the March sisters.

Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy are four special siblings whose connection grows stronger while their father is at war.

Looking for more books about mothers? Fall in love with these MomAdvice Book Club recommendations:

What is your favorite book about mothers or motherhood? Let us know in the comments below what this list is missing!

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The Best Motherhood Lessons from Literary Characters

Thursday, September 14th, 2023

Celebrate literary lessons found in books about mothers! Adele Griffin shares her riveting surrogacy story in her debut and how these characters shaped her.

The Best Motherhood Lessons From Literary Characters

Adele Griffin knew something had been missing from her fiction for a long time.

Although she knew it was missing, she admits that it took her years to process and refine this motherhood journey into her adult fiction debut, The F a vor.

In this moving conversation, we discuss her riveting surrogacy journey and what writers have gotten wrong when writing about this deeply personal partnership. It is a profound bond that can have lifelong impacts on all parties involved, but the author’s challenge was packaging it lightly for a reader like her.

As a seasoned author of over thirty books, she describes her unique challenges and hurdles in writing adult voices and, ultimately, the literary mothers who shaped this story, and how she viewed motherhood.

In one of the most eclectic stacks brought to our show, we will discover surprising trivia behind some well-known classics and contemporary literature that brings modern motherhood issues to light.

Bonus Books About Mothers Book List

Today’s BONUS BOOK LIST explores The Best Page Turners About Motherhood to Read Now. This includes Adele’s fiction, nonfiction, and memoir selections. I’ve rounded out this stack with the most compelling books I’ve read on motherhood.

And if you want to dive into Adele’s page-turning plot twists, you will love today’s bonus. Patrons get an additional SPOILER-FILLED episode with Adele, discussing three pivotal moments in her book’s ending.

The Favor Book Synopsis

The Favor delves into the intricate world of surrogacy, weaving together the lives of two women from vastly different socioeconomic backgrounds.

Readers meet Nora, a vintage fashion curator navigating the hidden burdens of financial debt and fertility struggles.

Her life takes an unexpected turn when Manhattan’s socialite, Evelyn Elliot, breezes into the vintage shop she works at and enlists her as a personal assistant for high-society events.

As the two women get to know each other, Evelyn proposes an unprecedented favor—offering to be Nora’s surrogate.

As Evelyn’s pregnancy unfolds on social media with the hashtag #compassionatesurrogate, Nora must navigate uncharted territory in this captivating novel, blending modern motherhood with a fashion-forward backdrop.

Meet Adele Griffin

Adele Griffin is the author of over thirty highly acclaimed books across various genres, including Sons of Liberty and Where I Want to Be, both National Book Award finalists.

The Favor is her adult fiction debut.

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Retirement Gifts for Men They Will Love and Use

Monday, September 11th, 2023

This gift guide features the best retirement gifts for men that they will love and use. These gifts for retired men include ideas for adventure, travel, and fun.

This oddly specific retirement gift list has been one of the most requested by our readers.

I wanted to have a spot to point to friends and family, and hope you’ll enjoy these thoughtfully curated gifts.

While many lists I’ve found are filled with clutter and gag gifts, these recommendations lean into style and are gifts that they will love and use over the years.

So, join me in honoring this milestone and finding the perfect way to say, “Congratulations on your well-deserved retirement!

Retirement Gifts for Men

Whether they're looking forward to more time on the golf course, cozy evenings with a good book, or grand adventures in far-off lands, these thoughtful retirement gifts are designed to make their retirement unforgettable.

OUTDOOR GIFT IDEAS FOR MEN

Explore the ultimate outdoor gift ideas list for backyard adventures at home or out on the golf course.

Wall Golf Pencil Holder Golf Pencil Display

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Elevate his golf memorabilia with this wall-mounted golf pencil holder, designed to showcase pencils from his favorite courses proudly.

This stylish and organized display can hold up to 23 pencils.

Smart Bird Feeder with Camera

Capture the beauty of nature with a smart bird feeder equipped with a built-in camera.

This unique retirement gift lets you watch birds from your phone, making it a fantastic way to enjoy the outdoors and stay connected with the natural world.

Reviewers describe a crystal clear picture experience with this option and easy connectivity.

Beginner Pickleball Set

Elevate your pickleball game with this complete retro set with paddles, balls, and a mesh bag for easy transport and storage.

This set is recommended for a beginner or an intermediate player, perfect for the retiree trying out a new hobby.

Compact Binoculars for Birdwatching

Enhance retirement adventures with high-powered binoculars featuring 12x magnification and a wide field of view, perfect for spotting distant wildlife and taking in the beauty of nature.

Whether for bird watching, traveling, or outdoor activities, these binoculars offer comfort for eyeglasses and non-wearers, with adjustable eyecups and large eyepieces for clear, focused viewing.

National Geographic Backyard Guide to the Birds of North America

This beloved guide offers a comprehensive look at North American birds, making it an excellent retirement gift for nature enthusiasts.

The book is organized by family, featuring identification tips, behavior insights, vocal descriptions, and more.

TRAVEL GIFT IDEAS FOR HIM

Explore travel gift ideas for him to make those future travel days more enjoyable.

Carry-On Hard Shell Suitcase - 21"

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This carry-on suitcase is an ideal gift for retirees ready to explore.

For parents retiring together, a matching set would be the perfect send-off.

This lightweight design fits perfectly in overhead bins, perfect for short getaways.

Packed with features like interior panels, a removable laundry bag, Japanese-crafted Hinomoto 360-degree wheels, a TSA-approved lock, and a smooth telescopic handle, this affordable suitcase ensures hassle-free airport navigation.

Leather Passport Cover Personalized Leather Passport Holder

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For the retiree who plans to travel abroad, elevate his adventures with a personalized leather passport cover.

Choose a classic monogram to personalize this for the recipient.

COZY GIFT IDEAS FOR HIM

Find the perfect cozy gift ideas for him that will bring warmth and comfort for those lovely days at home.

Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater

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Give him a true wardrobe staple that will keep him cozy at home or out and about with this cashmere crew sweater. This budget-friendly cashmere sweater is lightweight, soft, and comes in loads of colors.

Pair with a cashmere comb for a complete set.

UGG Ascot Slipper

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The Ascot combines the style of a loafer with the comfort of a slipper, making it a top choice and bestseller for everyday wear during retirement.

A versatile rubber sole makes it perfect for running out to grab the mail or to observe what's happening in his neighbor's yard. I kid, I kid…

Kindle Paperwhite

The new Kindle Paperwhite is an ideal retirement gift for book lovers.

The backlit reading is easier on the eyes, the font can be adjusted, and this can be read in the sun or low light. Picture him poolside with a great book on his retirement!

Help them start their Kindle library with ten free books from the Prime Library and their Amazon First Reads book- both available for FREE if they have Prime.

This device can also be paired with the Libby app for borrowing library books.

Scrabble Deluxe Edition with Rotating Wooden Game Board

Elevate their game night at home with this exquisite Scrabble game cabinet, crafted from solid wood with a rich mahogany finish.

The built-in turntable feature ensures a seamless gaming experience.

You can also shop our Unique Jigaw Puzzles for Adults guide for some other fun tabletop ideas.

RETIREMENT GIFTS FOR COWORKERS

Show your appreciation for retiring coworkers with thoughtful retirement gifts that celebrate their years of hard work and wish them well in their new journey.

Whether it's a personalized keepsake or a gift that aligns with their post-retirement plans, discover a range of ideas to bid them a fond farewell.

Milk Bar Assorted Cookie Tin

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Treat him to this delicious Milk Bar cookie assortment as a sweet send-off.

I promise, gifts from this shop are always memorable.

This cookie tin includes one of each delectable flavor: Compost Cookie, Cornflake Chocolate Chip Marshmallow Cookie, Chocolate Confetti Cookie, Confetti Cookie, Corn Cookie, and Blueberry & Cream Cookie, all individually wrapped for freshness.

Personalized Retirement Poster

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Celebrate a retiree's journey with a personalized newspaper retirement design, a perfect keepsake for reminiscing about the year their career began.

This unique gift allows for personalization with photos and special touches. It's a thoughtful way to honor their work anniversary and their life's milestones.

Frame it inexpensively at your local craft store.

Retirement Gift Smells Like It's Not My Problem Candle (Funny Retirement Gift)

Photo Credit: Wisdom House Co (Etsy)

Celebrate retirement with a funny gift that they will use.

This "Smells Like It's Not Your Problem Anymore" candle can be personalized for your coworker and comes in various scent combinations.

Ahead of My Time Poster Print

Photo Credit: Oh Fine Art Prints

For the quick last-minute gift, let him know he is ahead of his time.

This funny motivational quote print, blends typography and classical art and can be downloaded instantly for printing.

Visit your local thrift store for a vintage frame to match the classical art style of this print.

Steaks for the Grill

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If you want a great group gift idea, a butcher box is beautiful for their first long and leisurely evening meal.

Pair this with a Bluetooth meat thermometer so he can really put his feet up.

Skillshare Annual Membership

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The new learning adventures have just begun. I recommend a Skillshare annual subscription as a great group gift from everyone at the office.

Your favorite former co-worker can pick up a new skill like digital photography, a new instrument, cooking, or even find strategies to tune up that classic car in the garage.

Our family keeps an annual Skillshare subscription to share in our home, and I recommend it as a fantastic gift to give. As a paid subscriber, this should give you access to a $50 off coupon when you head to the site.

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Easy Seafood Fried Rice (Better Than Takeout)

Monday, September 11th, 2023

Meal prep this seafood Fried Rice from leftover rice, soy sauce, veggies, and your favorite seafood. Try this better than takeout shrimp fried recipe today.

Are you looking for a versatile and budget-friendly dish to help you put those odds and ends in your fridge to good use?

Look no further than this Seafood Fried Rice recipe!

This flavorful meal transforms leftovers into a tasty lunch option and can be customized to suit your dietary preferences, such as using cauliflower rice for a lower-carb version.

If you meal prep brown rice in your rice cooker like we do each week, you already have a wonderful base for this recipe. Learn how to cook brown rice in rice cooker today.

In this blog post, we’ll walk you through simple steps to create a delicious Shrimp Fried Rice that’s a healthier and more satisfying alternative to your takeout cravings.

How to Cook Fried Rice With Shrimp or Prawns

Scroll down to see the complete ingredient list and printable step-by-step instructions.

Shrimp or Prawns

Cooked rice (day-old rice works best)

Frozen mixed vegetables

Eggs

Soy sauce

Cooking oil

Optional extras (see below for ideas)

Step 1: Prep Your Ingredients

Gather your ingredients- Shrimp or Prawns, cooked rice (day-old rice works best), frozen mixed vegetables, eggs, soy sauce, cooking oil, and any optional extras (see below for ideas).

If using day-old rice, break up any clumps so that it’s easier to work with in the pan.

Measure your frozen veggies.

Beat the eggs in a small bowl and set them aside.

Step 2: Sauté Your Veggies

Heat some cooking oil in a large pan or wok over medium-high heat.

Add your chopped vegetables to the pan and stir-fry them until they’re tender but still crisp. This should take about 3-4 minutes.

Seafood Fried Rice- Cooking Eggs and Veggies in Wok

Step 3: Scramble the Eggs

Push the sautéed vegetables to one side of the pan to make space.

Pour the beaten eggs into the empty side of the pan. Allow them to cook without stirring for a few seconds.

Once they start to set, scramble the eggs until fully cooked.

Now, mix the scrambled eggs with the cooked vegetables in the pan.

Step 4: Add Seafood and Rice

Add your cooked shrimp or prawns to the pan with the vegetables and eggs.

Next, add the cooked rice. Stir everything together to combine.

Step 5: Season to Perfection

Drizzle soy sauce over the mixture to add flavor and color. Be sure to taste as you adjust the seasoning to your liking.

If you like a bit of heat, you can also add a dash of sriracha sauce or crushed red pepper flakes.

Seafood Options You Can Try In your Fried Rice

Shrimp: Cooked shrimp adds a delicious seafood flavor and texture to the fried rice.

Crab Meat: Lump crab meat or imitation crab can be flaked into the rice for a sweet and briny taste.

Scallops: Sliced or chopped scallops provide a tender and mildly sweet seafood element.

Mussels: Steamed and shelled mussels can be mixed into the fried rice for a unique taste and texture.

Fish Fillets: Small pieces of white fish, such as tilapia or cod, can be lightly seasoned and pan-fried, then added to the rice.

Lobster: Lobster meat, diced into chunks, offers a luxurious addition to seafood fried rice.

Fish Roe: Roe from fish like salmon or flying fish can be used as a garnish for a burst of salty flavor.

Oysters: Fresh or canned oysters can be chopped and stirred into the fried rice for a unique taste.

Smoked Salmon: Flaked or thinly sliced smoked salmon can add a delightful smoky flavor.

Sardines: Canned sardines can be flaked and mixed into the rice for a strong, savory taste.

Seafood Fried Rice Toppings to Try:

Chopped green onions or chives for freshness

Pineapple chunks for a sweet and tangy twist

Sesame seeds for a crunchy texture

Cashews or peanuts for added crunch and protein.

Yum Yum Sauce

What Goes With Shrimp Fried Rice?

For lunch meal prep, I paired this Shrimp Fried Rice recipe with bags of green grapes and some prepared edamame for a delicious lunch.

Be sure to scroll down for even more meal prep ideas!

Seafood Fried Rice

Yield: 6 servings

Prep Time: 10 minutes

Cook Time: 20 minutes

Total Time: 30 minutes

A frugal chef’s dream dish made from leftover rice and veggies. Try this shrimp fried rice for a meat-free night at your house or any other suggested seafood combination.

Ingredients

2 tablespoons sesame oil
2 tablespoons canola oil
1 pound medium prepared fresh shrimp or prawns (see post for more seafood options)
2 cups frozen mixed vegetables (any mix of frozen peas, carrots, corn, and green beans)
3 minced garlic cloves
1 teaspoon fresh ginger
3 large eggs, lightly beaten
4 cups cooked jasmine or other long-grain white rice, preferably cold and day-old
4 tablespoons soy sauce
Salt to taste

Instructions

In a large skillet or wok, heat sesame oil and canola oil.
Add shrimp or prawns and cook for 3 minutes or until pink and done. With a slotted spoon, remove the seafood into a bowl and set aside.
Add your choice of veggies and cook for two minutes.
Add garlic and ginger and cook for one more minute.
Scoot your veggies to one side and add your beaten eggs to the wok (see the picture in this post for guidance). Scramble the eggs well.
Finish by adding the cooked rice, soy sauce, and salt to taste. Stir to combine.
Add the seafood and toss well.

Notes

For variations on seafood options, see today's post with tinned fish and fresh seafood options. Shrimp rice topping suggestions can also be found for variations.

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Nutrition Information:

Yield: 6 Serving Size: 1
Amount Per Serving: Calories: 376Total Fat: 12gSaturated Fat: 2gTrans Fat: 0gUnsaturated Fat: 10gCholesterol: 238mgSodium: 831mgCarbohydrates: 39gFiber: 3gSugar: 2gProtein: 27g

The calorie and nutrition information provided with our recipes is intended to be an estimate based on commonly used ingredients and serving sizes. However, individual nutritional needs may vary, and the actual values can depend on factors such as specific brands of ingredients, preparation methods, and portion sizes. Please use these figures as estimates.

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