Reminder: Glad to Give Bake Sale on Friday

May 13th, 2010

Friday is our big bake sale day and I have been hard at work in my kitchen to share a fun, healthy, and easy recipe that could be shared at your next bake sale. Bake sale goodies are a specialty in our kitchen and for a moment’s worth of effort; you can produce dozens of goodies and treats for fundraising efforts.

This is a very special bake sale though because we are raising funds for the Glad to Give organization to help pediatric cancer research. Every single day, 36 children are diagnosed with cancer.  Sadly, one in every five children diagnosed dies. How heartbreaking for the parents of these children and for the children that are suffering, especially if more money could just be allocated to the cause to further cancer research. That is where our virtual bake sale comes in.

I am hosting a little bake sale tour and I am excited to show you what one winner (drawn randomly) will receive for participating. This goodie basket contains an apron with matching pot holders, silicone reusable bake cups, measuring spoons, a wire whisk, cupcake sprinkles, a new egg timer and, “The Best Bake Sale Ever Cookbook.”

I hope that you will consider participating and sharing a favorite baking recipe in honor of this campaign. It would mean the world to me, but it would mean a world more to the families of these children! Start gathering those recipes and think of the ways that you could help with my virtual bake sale. I can’t do it without you!

Meet back here on Friday morning to join in the fun and help raise awareness about the Glad to Give Campaign.

Disclaimer: I was paid for this campaign and invested every dollar back into it to spread the word about pediatric cancer. It is far better to give than to receive. I hope you will consider doing the same!

Amy’s Notebook 05.12.10

May 12th, 2010

For a fun breakfast we will have to try making some flower pancakes (@ not martha)

I am inspired to throw a Wizard of Oz birthday party after seeing these ideas (@ kara’s party ideas)

This kid-friendly wheat bread recipe looks yummy (@ the idea room)

These flowers made from paper napkins are stunning (@ made)

This gluten-free vanilla cornbread looks heavenly (@ Gluten-Free Goddess)

This dining room reveal is so inspiring and beautiful (@ Pink and Polka Dot)

I want to make a zillion of these grosgrain ribbon belts (@ Ruffles and Stuff)

These snickerdoodle muffins would be a hit in our house (@ eat at home)

I like these mad scientist experiments to do with kids (@ One Charming Party)

I will have to try this pizza crust recipe (@ Dinner: A Love Story)

These sour cream banana chocolate chip muffins sound like a yummy way to start the day (@ The Ungourmet)

These mason jars with chalkboard paint labels are so Martha-y (@ Wisdom of the Moon)

I am going to have to dress my salad with this new salad dressing recipe (@ The Pioneer Woman)

I love this DIY tile artwork for a fun accent piece (@ A Soft Place to Land)

These chocolate cupcakes with cream cheese filling look sinfully delicious (@ Blue Cricket Design)

I am going to have to make some popcorn on the stove top (@ Making This Home)

Great Reads for Moms: April ’10 Edition

May 11th, 2010

April was a rich, rich month of reading for me. I think I have read 22 books so far since January and I couldn’t be more proud!  If anyone complains about laundry not being done, floors not being swept, or the house looking like a tornado has been through it I have the perfect excuse. I am forced to remain dedicated to my site and to my readers and leave all of these things to the wayside to provide great reading ideas for you each month. Oh, the sacrifices I make…well, at least that is the case I present to my family! To my credit, is there anything more frugal than reaping the beautiful benefits of the library system?

As the television seasons are winding down, this is the perfect time to pick back up a little reading and start a new “season of shows,” that is ultimately, way more satisfying! Get back into the groove of reading this month and let me help with some new ideas to add to your beach bag this summer!

Here are my top picks for the month of April! Just as an aside, I read many more  books than are just featured here, but try to feature the ones that are my absolute best picks of the month here. If you want to read more, please feel free to friend me on GoodReads! My username is momadvice and I am always happy to connect with people there too! There is nothing more motivating than seeing what other people are raving about and my to-be-read pile is now over a hundred entries long.

Shelter Me by Juliette Fay

Four months after the tragic death of her husband, Janie is greeted at the door by a contractor who has come to make a porch addition on her home. The twist is that Janie did not request the contractor and had no idea that any renovating would even be happening. This porch was a gift that her husband, Robby, had decided to buy for her as a surprise before he passed away.

Although Janie is in no mood and has no desire for a new porch, the job has already been paid for and the contractor, Tug, insists that it was definitely something her husband would have wanted.

As the construction begins on the house, Janie’s heart and life are under construction as she discovers who she is without her spouse. An unlikely support group forms- the well-intentioned priest who comes even when Janie swears at him and dreads his visits, the busy-body aunt who fills in for her absent mother, her cousin who brings her treats from his bakery with his Barbie-look-alike photographer girlfriend, the bossy neighbor who knows exactly how Janie should handle things, and even the quiet contractor that witnesses the comings and goings of this unlikely cast of characters that help Janie get to a place of healing and acceptance for what has happened.

The novel is moving in a way that I can’t describe. It made me laugh out loud because of Janie’s brutal honesty, it made me cry when Janie faced her times of loneliness and the way that the children react to their father’s absence, and it made me wish to see the character to find happiness again, even if it means she must move on from her husband, the love of her life.

The book immediately sucked me in, but it was a little longer than probably necessary as some of the character development that didn’t necessarily need to be there, had been developed by the author. Other than a little bit of dragging at the end, it was a flawlessly beautiful novel that will make me hug my husband a little tighter and created an awareness of how fragile our relationships can be. I can’t recommend this one enough!

(MomAdvice Rating- 4 Stars)

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith

This book was one of the most unbelievably beautiful, heart-wrenching, unexpectedly laugh-out-loud funny in portions, make me weep in others, and heartwarming books that I have read in my life. I had never read or heard of the book before, but am trying to tackle some literary classics this year and this book was the most beautiful coming-of-age story that I have ever read. I can’t believe that I am 32 years old and just now reading it and discovering what a beautiful book this is.

The book is about Mary Frances Nolan (also known as Francie) and shares the story of her life from the tender age of eleven until she turns sixteen. Growing up as a poor girl in Brooklyn, it shares the story of the survival that they must go through to keep food on the table and the difficulties of family life when ends just don’t meet. With a mother who is doing the best she can to keep their family afloat and an unreliable, but loving father who works as a singing waiter and takes to drinking at night to cope with the realities of his life, the family lives in a tiny flat in Brooklyn where they try to make the most on the very least.

Francie is forced to be older than she is from the very beginning of her life. Often saddled with the task of bartering at the grocery store, figuring out a way to get into a better school so she can get her education, and made to get jobs to help with the family finances or assist her mother on jobs, you can’t help but admire Francie’s resourcefulness throughout the book.

The Christmas scenes, the things that the children treasured the most,
the tin can filling with pennies of earnings that would later feed them, the diary entries carefully edited because of her mother who didn’t want Francie writing about her father’s alcoholism, the impractical gifts that the children gave to each other (and their mother let them) only to discover their mother was right, those feelings of first love- all beautifully captured in prose that held me and wouldn’t let me go.

While I can’t say that there is a definite plot to the story, the book is told almost in short story format sharing the daily trials and tribulations of growing up in a poor family, it really did not need a focused plot because the writing was so beautiful.

I would say that it mainly focused on the self-discovery that Francie makes about herself and about her parents as she becomes more aware of what is happening around her and as the responsibilities later shift to Francie’s shoulders when she struggles with wanting to be an adult and support the family, but also desires to get an education.

No words can describe what a treasure this book is to read. Despite being written so long ago, the themes are still so current- the need to keep up with one’s reputation, the importance of hard work and honesty in life, the discovery that money isn’t everything, but that it does make it easier when you don’t have to focus on it, and the importance of loyalty to your family.

If you haven’t read this one, add it to your pile today!

(MomAdvice Rating- 5 Stars)

Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet by Jamie Ford

You know when you read a book and you have a strong desire to tell everyone that they must read it? Well, Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet is that book for me. The book is an endearing story about Henry Lee, a Chinese American living in Seattle, who has just lost his wife to cancer. After he hears that the belongings of Japanese immigrants were found in the basement of the Panama Hotel, the book begins a journey through his life currently and flashing back to his childhood where an unlikely friendship began with a Japanese girl named Keiko that has carried with him through his adulthood.

Henry Lee’s father desires for him to have the “American dream,” and he receives a scholarship to attend an all-white private school where he can get the education he needs to succeed in America. The other students taunt him mercilessly and his only reprieve from the taunting is when he is serving food in the cafeteria. While serving the food, he finds the only other student of minority, a beautiful girl named Keiko, and they develop a fast friendship. Unfortunately, Henry’s father wants nothing to do with the Japanese and his growing love for Keiko has to be kept a secret.

When Keiko is shuffled over to a camp, to protect the Japanese from the anti-Japanese sentiments during WWII, Henry knows that he must find a way to go to her and to be with her. Through the help of the lady on staff in the cafeteria, he scores a position working on Saturdays where he can see and be with Keiko. Their friendship and love grow through their letters and Saturdays together and Henry is forced to choose between his family or the girl that he loves.

There is so much color in this novel and the twists are beautifully written. I found myself cheering for Henry as he stands up to the bullies in his life and to his parents, and also feeling misty-eyed as this unexpected relationship takes place.

I don’t want to give away anymore of the plot than is necessary because this book is so worth reading and experiencing for yourself. While some may argue that it isn’t always historically accurate or that the switching back and forth between present and past is choppy, the story is so beautiful that it will have you overlooking those technicalities and rooting for Henry & Keiko the whole way through! Lisa See fans will love this one and I can’t wait to read another book by this author!

As an aside, we read this for my book club and when I tweeted that I was hosting a book club for this book, Jamie Ford tweeted back to me to give my book club his best. And that is when I became  just a regular fan to a super fan. How awesome is that? Hurray for tweeting authors that seek feedback and share through Twitter.

(MomAdvice Rating- 5 Stars)

The Hand That First Held Mine by Maggie O’Farrell

You know when a book sweeps you in and envelopes your day and won’t let you go until it is over? This book did that for me and I could not be more impressed with the author’s beautiful prose, the pacing of the book, or what a gift Maggie O’Farrell has for character development and the art of intertwining two beautiful stories into one.

The book opens with the stunning Lexie Sinclair, a rebellious young woman, and a chance meeting for her and a very sophisticated man named Innes Kent. It is in the post-WWII era, a time when such spirited youthfulness is frowned upon, but Lexie is ready to start a new life in London and she begins her new life with Innes. What begins between them starts a very unlikely love story that is vividly captured with O’Farrell’s words. Innes quickly takes her under his wing and not only loves her, but guides her into a journalism career that Lexie had never thought to explore.

In the next chapter, you are introduced to Elina and her boyfriend Ted and it is fifty years later. They have just brought home their baby boy, never realizing how different both of their lives will be. Elina, who suffered from a difficult delivery, is learning what a challenging role motherhood can be, while Ted grows more and more distant from Elina and the baby. Ted is suddenly having snippets of memories that he can’t recall and the baby forces to light a shadowed past that he did not know he possessed.

It is a book that builds and builds upon these stories and the chapters suddenly twist together and you find out how these stories are interwoven. It took me by surprise how they would weave together and throughout most of the book, you are trying to discover just what it is that brings these two stories together. I hate to say more than that, for fear of giving away the experience of discovery for yourself!

The book’s prose is so visual and almost cinematic in the way the story is told. In some scenes, it feels as though you are reading a script as the characters, setting, and mood are described in vivid detail. It is because of the writing style that I look forward to reading more of O’Farrell’s. This book was a fantastic and fast-paced read- add it to your reading list today!

(MomAdvice Rating- 4 Stars)


Men and Dogs by Katie Crouch

Katie Crouch’s, “Men and Dogs,” is the first book that I have read by this author. The story centers around Hannah, who is in her thirties, struggling with a drinking problem, an unfaithful spouse (although she is unfaithful herself), and a marriage that is teetering on the edge of divorce. To resolve things once and for all, Hannah attempts to break into her own house, to confront her husband about his cheating ways, and falls three stories and suffers a head injury. Hannah ends up in the hospital and is forced into a journey home to her parents so they can help Hannah get back on track.

Hannah knows that the reason she is living like this is because of the mysterious disappearance of her father. At the tender age of eleven, Hannah’s father goes on a fishing trip and never returns again. In her heart, she truly believes that her father is not dead, but simply missing. She is set on discovering what really happened to her father on the night of his boating accident and to know once and for all if her husband is dead or alive.

Her gay brother Palmer, on the other hand, has his own demons to deal with and has always secretly believed that he is the cause of their father’s disappearance. He is finally in a great relationship, in a fantastic house that they have created together, and his career is going great. When his partner decides that he wants them to have a baby, Palmer knows that he can’t commit, mainly because of the deep-rooted feelings that he has surrounding their father’s disappearance.

While the book was fast paced, the story never really went anywhere for me. I could not relate to Hannah’s selfishness, even with the disappearance of her father, and how the other family members accommodated her behavior.

It was just an okay read for me and the story of her dad did not take a satisfying turn or add the resolution to the story that I hoped.

Editor’s Note-  There is graphic language and sexuality in this book.

(MomAdvice Rating- 3 Stars)

Not enough great reads for you? Check out our Books section of our site for monthly recommendations and ideas for making reading a priority again in your busy mom life!

Disclosure: All of the links above are affiliate links and are provided so you can locate the books quickly and easily. Feel free to order a book, but we encourage utilizing the library system and buying me a latte instead.  Then we both would be really happy and we could have our own little book club together! Wouldn’t that just be so much more lovely? Happy Reading!

What has been in your book stack this month? Feel free to share your book recommendations or feedback on any of the books that have been mentioned above! I love getting new suggestions for my book pile!

An Apron Full of Giveaways 05.11.10

May 11th, 2010

Pretty Ditty Aprons, $12.50 for pattern

Welcome to our Apron Full of Giveaways, where we round up all of the best giveaways on the web. This is the spot where you can share your blog contests or where you can find fantastic stuff to enter.

This week our giveaway will be happening on Friday and to enter, you just need to share your favorite bake-sale-worthy recipe for our Glad to Give Virtual Bake Sale. We are trying to raise funds and awareness around pediatric cancer and I would love for you to participate. More details to come on Thursday and if you love these aprons that are featured, you will not want to miss entering!

The giveaway with Moody Mama will be ending today at 8PM EST. So far, we are under 100 entries, which means you have a GREAT chance of winning! This giveaway is a special one for one mommy-to-be or can be given to a friend or family member who is expecting. We are giving away one item (up to $50) from Moody Mamas maternity line of clothing, newly launched at Target. Please head over there and get your entry in today! Follow the links below to access the current contest- NO ENTRIES HERE, PLEASE!

Below are the contest links-if you are hosting a contest please link it up below. Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them! Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).”

Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!

New Article: Great Board Game Recommendations

May 10th, 2010

Our family loves to play board games and we love sharing great game ideas with our friends. We hope you like our new piece on Great Board Game Recommendations for some added fun to that board game collection. There is nothing like a great set of board games to keep you busy on those rainy days. Make sure to check your local thrift shops for some fun board game bargains!

Feel free to leave a comment and share your own recommendation for anything that might not have made our list!

Grilling Out: Rosemary Ranch Chicken Kabobs

May 10th, 2010

Kabobs are my new favorite food this summer and I have been trying a few new recipes out on our family, as we kick off another season of great grilling. The marinated shrimp kabobs are my kid’s new favorite seafood dish, but these Rosemary Ranch Chicken Kabobs are my new favorite summer dish and I can’t wait to make them again.

The rosemary and ranch add such a wonderful depth of flavor to the chicken and these come off the grill so juicy! For this dish, I not only marinated some chicken in a container, but I also marinated some red peppers in a separate container so that I could do a few vegetable kabobs as a side dish. Could you marinate them together safely? A lot of people do, but I wanted my vegetables nice and crisp and I wanted my chicken to be fully cooked so I opted for two separate kabobs instead of pairing them together. The red peppers were ready to come off the grill in six minutes, while the chicken still needed another six to be fully cooked so it seemed like a good idea to separate them!

I have become a huge fan of those disposable containers for marinating foods because they are so easy to transport out to our grill and are easy to stack, especially if you are headed out for a picnic. It may also be because I have had  a few too many leaky bags in my fridge so I find these to be a great option for me!  These freezer containers plus our handy dandy meat thermometer have made grilling out practically foolproof and have streamlined our grilling effortlessly.

I love to stick these, marinade and all, in the freezer and prep a few different marinades in one afternoon. Most marinades have similar base ingredients (dressings, olive oil, vinegars, salt, pepper, seasonings, Worcestershire sauce, etc..) and it is so much easier to do this all at once rather than getting them out each time. What a time saver!

If you actually have any meat leftover (which is debatable in our house), I love to put these on top of a salad the next day. The chicken is still surprisingly juicy even after being zapped in the microwave and it has been a wonderful way to spice up my daily salads for lunch!

Rosemary Ranch Chicken Kabobs (Courtesy of AllRecipes)

1/2 cup olive oil
1/2 cup ranch dressing
3 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
1 tablespoon minced fresh rosemary (If you haven’t planted rosemary yet like me, 1 teaspoon of the dried stuff works great!)
2 teaspoons salt
1 teaspoon lemon juice
1 teaspoon white vinegar
1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper, or to taste
1 tablespoon white sugar, or to taste (optional)
5 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves – cut into 1 inch cubes

In a medium bowl, stir together the olive oil, ranch dressing, Worcestershire sauce, rosemary, salt, lemon juice, white vinegar, pepper, and sugar. Let stand for 5 minutes. Place chicken in the bowl, and stir to coat with the marinade. Cover and refrigerate for 30 minutes. Preheat the grill for medium-high heat. Thread chicken onto skewers and discard marinade. Lightly oil the grill grate. Grill skewers for 8 to 12 minutes, or until the chicken is no longer pink in the center, and the juices run clear.

For an easy way to get the grill and patio equipment ready for summer, be sure to visit our Gearing Up for Summer article!

Do you freeze marinades or have a time-saving strategy for grilling? Please share here!

Freebie Friday: May 7, 2010

May 7th, 2010

Happy Freebie Friday!! We are thankful to have Freebies 4 Mom share their list of the best freebies of the week with our readers each and every Friday. Please be sure to visit Freebies 4 Mom for all of the latest freebies, coupons, sweeps, and ideas for how to stretch your dollar. This week Heather is giving away six months of Cottonelle which would certainly help out that grocery budget. Good luck to each of you that enter that contest!

MomAdvice is humming along with a recipe for deliciously pulled pork to pop in your slow cooker, our weekly giveaway round-up, a new outlook on how to practice thankfulness, and our notebook of inspiration. If you know or are a mama-to-be, make sure that you enter our $50 giveaway for a new maternity wardrobe piece from Moody Mama.

Make sure to join our MomAdvice Facebook Page today! Each day we are highlighting one or two sites that will make your life a little easier. You can get sneak peeks into contests, start discussions with other members, and see all of the latest posts,  or make suggestions for things you would like to see.

Most importantly, HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY! Sending loving virtual hugs to all of you and hoping you are celebrated in BIG ways this year! Much love to you all!

Health & Beauty
Nursing Care Instant Relief System
NeilMed Sinus Rinse (on Facebook)
Pampers Cruisers (Vocalpoint)
L’Oreal Everstrong (Target)

Food
Dunkin’ Donuts Medium beverage
South Beach Living Fiber Fit S’mores Bar
Denny’s Pancake Puppies Sundae (on Facebook)
Libby’s Vegetables (on Facebook)
Kraft Summer Sample Pack (on Facebook)
Mambo Sprouts Coupon Book

Entertainment
Walgreens 8×10 Photo Collage (thru Sat.)
iTunes Latin Alternative album (on Facebook)
Walmart Free MP3 Downloads

Home
Right@Home Glade Relaxing Moments Gift Basket
Lane Bryant free Cami (ends 5/10)
Oscar Mayer Thrill of the Grill House Party
Breyers Summer to Remember House Party
Ball Fresh Taste of Summer House Party
Gerber Generation Celebration House Party
Hasbro Game Night House Party
McDonalds McNuggets and Shrek House Party
Cleaning for a Reason (for women with cancer)

Upcoming Freebie Events:
Please call your local store or restaurant to confirm they are participating in these freebie events

MAY
PGA Free Golf Lesson Month
50 Days of Free Disney Music
6-12 Cinnabon free roll for Nurses
8 – Lakeshore Learning Craft make jewelry holders 11-3pm
8 –  Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a trellis planter 10-11am
8 – Michaels Free Mother’s Day Card 10-12pm
8 – Michaels Wilton Cookie Event 12-1pm
9 – TCBY Free Frozen Yogurt for Mom
9-15 – Free HydroMassage
11 – Dunkin’ Donuts free Iced Dark Roast Coffee 4-10pm
18 – Haagen-Dazs Free Flavor Day 4-8pm
21 – Chick-fil-A Reserve Your Free Spicy Chicken Sandwich
22 –  Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a catapult 10-11am
29 – Michaels American Girl Craft Flower Card 10-1pm
29 – Michaels Free Summer Tote 10-1pm

JUNE
1-2 – Museums on Us (Bank of America)
3 – The Home Depot Martha Stewart Living Eco-Friendly Gardening workshop 7-8:30pm
5 – The Home Depot Kids Workshop make a soccer game 9-12pm

Amy’s Notebook 05.05.10

May 5th, 2010

I w ant to try a few of these chocolate chip cookie recipes (@ the kitchn)

I love this list of handmade gifts to give for Mother’s Day (@ Craftzine)

These homemade baked cheese crisps look like a yummy salad addition (@ joyful abode)

This family tree brooch looks like a beautiful gift for Mother’s Day (@ Ruffles And Stuff)

I like this layered fabric flower and might need to embellish a pair of slippers of my own (@ Sugar Bee)

This honey frosting would be a fun new way to top a cupcake (@ Lynn’s Kitchen Adventures)

I love this creative gift using crayons for teachers (@ Testosterone Times Three)

These chocolate cupcakes with strawberry icing look so yummy (@ This Week for Dinner)

I am in love with this ruffled shirt made from a t-shirt (@ Tea Rose Home)

Taking the kids on a photo safari would be a great summer activity (@ Dabbled)

These raisin bran muffins would be a fun breakfast treat (@ brown eyed baker)

I really like this shutters memo board (@ Lemon Tree Creations)

I adore this American Girl pioneer party and these fun printables (@ One Charming Party & Living Locurto)

Knowing how to make these towel animals would certainly make me the coolest mom ever (@ CraftyPod)

These thank you postcards are genius! (@ Dinner: A Love Story)

This fruit salsa with cinnamon pita chips would make a healthy and delicious snack (@ Two Peas and Their Pod)

Shifting Your Focus to Thankfulness

May 4th, 2010

“If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you,” that would suffice.”  ~Meister Eckhart

I have discovered a very annoying habit about myself. When I get nervous, I repeatedly say thank you. Not once, not twice, but usually around fifteen times.  When I was in labor, I had the nurses in giggles because each time they would ask me something, I would say thank you… even in the deepest pain and anguish of labor.When I got in a car accident, I said thank you to the lady who hit me. Not because I was thankful, but because my nerves get the best of me. I was once told this is a self-esteem issue and that I have a desire to be liked. That is probably true and I suppose I could act in far worse ways than expressing repeated thankfulness.

In reality though, living in thankfulness in a world of immediate gratification, speed of light technology, and the busy hum of our lives can be a practice that is often overlooked.  Each day as my kids get older, I find myself looking at the clock in the morning and glancing at in the evening, never realizing that so much time has passed or that I have not acted thankfully once the whole day.

Everyone has a different way of showing their thankfulness for what they possess and own. I know many who keep a gratitude journal where they take a moment to jot down a few things in life that make them happy. I attempted this, but found myself repeating myself over and over again. It is hard to say thank you without saying thank you for your spouse, your children, your home, your God, and for what you already have. I’d shut my little gratitude journal and say, “Well, that’s four.”  No, the writing process quickly bored me, but I still wanted to find an outlet that would remind me of all of the little things in life that make my world go round.

I needed a more creative outlet for my gratitude and a daily reminder of what I posses. Sometimes it is the big things- a new job that pays the bills, a new furnace when our furnace was going out, a financial goal that is met for our family. Other things are smaller, but are still absolutely special- movie nights with my family, freshly folded laundry, or just a great cup of coffee.

I decided to start a Things That Make Me Happy virtual photo album and began to add those super special moments and the perfectly ordinary that I find extraordinary in life. Behind the lens of my camera, I try to capture to me what makes me thankful each and every day.  Almost every single day, I try to find one thing that makes me happy and to take a picture of it.

I then loaded all of these beautiful things that make me happy into a digital frame that we had. It had been gathering dust in our office,  not loaded with pictures since my daughter was a tiny baby.  I put all of these pictures into the digital frame and put them in my front room where I do all of my best thinking.

As I see the images flashing before my eyes, I silently give thanks over and over again.

Thank you!

Thank you!

Thank you!

Thank you!

Thank you!

Thank you!

Thank you!

If people find it strange that I have random photographs of waffles and library bags mixed throughout our family pictures, no one has ever been brave enough to inquire aloud. I am sure they chalk it up to the weird artsy mother who hangs pictures of shoes on walls and mistreats her home.

As Jacqueline Winspear has said though, “Grace isn’t a little prayer you chant before receiving a meal.  It’s a way to live.” I want to live thankfully, to be aware of every blessings (great AND small), and the more aware I become the more thankful I am. The more thankful I am, the more blessed I feel.  It is a richness that money can’t buy.

Try a little thankfulness today:

Find a New Way to Say Thank You– If you have a digital frame gathering dust, start loading it with pictures that make you happy to remind you of what you have to be thankful for. Other ideas could be updating your screen saver on your computer with images of thankfulness, starting a free Flickr album, keeping a small family journal on an online site like Cozi,  or printing out a photo album at a place like Shutterfly so you can glance through it with your morning coffee.

Give a Little of Yourself to Say Thanks– The best way to show that you are thankful to those around you is to let them know that you care. It could be bringing them a meal when someone is ill or needs caring for, it could be just sending them a card to thank them for something they have done, it could be as simple as sitting down and spending time with them. Put one person on your thankful list each week and do something that will make them feel special. Rinse. Repeat.

Compliment Someone Today– Want to make someone feel immediately special and at home in your presence? Give them a compliment. This past week, I got an hour to volunteer in my son’s class. Each child that came through, I tried to make them feel like the most special person in the world. I told them how smart they were, how amazing their ideas were, and would compliment them on something they were wearing or doing. The faces…beaming. The warm fuzzy I got from the experience… priceless. You may think that was just a child’s response, but if someone compliments me, I beam like it is the Fourth of July. You never outgrow the beauty of a compliment and telling someone they are special and that you are thankful for them is something that will last long after you have said it.

Thank Your Children– When was the last time you thanked your child? Praise is one of the greatest gifts we can give to our kids and I want to give it to them freely. I don’t always succeed, sometimes I really hate my nagging self or how easily I can lose focus on offering praise. The best way to raise a grateful child is to be grateful. I want to do this so much better and I want my kids to remember that I thanked and praised them often.

What are some ways you are practicing thankfulness? What is one thing you have done to show your thankfulness that you are really proud of?

An Apron Full of Giveaways: $50 Moody Mamas Gift Certificate & Flip SlideHD

May 4th, 2010

ImaginAprons, $26

Welcome to our Apron Full of Giveaways, where we round up all of the best giveaways on the web. This is the spot where you can share your blog contests or where you can find fantastic stuff to enter.

We are kicking off another fantastic Mother’s Day giveaway today that you will not want to miss. This giveaway is a special one for one mommy-to-be or can be given to a friend or family member who is expecting. We are giving away one item (up to $50) from Moody Mamas maternity line of clothing, newly launched at Target. Please head over there and get your entry in today! Follow the links below to access the current contest- NO ENTRIES HERE, PLEASE!

Today is also the last day to enter for a Flip SlideHD (valued at $279.99)  that would make the most perfect Mother’s Day gift. We need your entry by 8PM EST to be included! Not only is it the traditional Flip camera, an easy to tote video camera that takes impressive video footage, but it also has a 3 inch slide-up screen which makes it a virtual “video brag book,” for your family and friends. Follow the links below to access this contest- NO ENTRIES HERE, PLEASE!

Below are the contest links-if you are hosting a contest please link it up below. Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them! Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).”

Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!