Book Gang Podcast Episode 33: The Best Backlist Books You Missed (Part 2)

June 3rd, 2022

No need to wait for the latest summer releases when you have this list of best backlist books to check out.

This is the second part of our discussion today.

My well-read co-host, Larry Hoffer, is back to talk about our favorite older books and why these should be in your stack this year too.

Not familiar with the term backlist or frontlist books? The book industry groups published books into two types- frontlist (titles that have sold in the current year) and backlist (titles that are older than a year).

We have resurrected some of our top recommendations in this two-part series that can keep you company while you wait for your library holds to come in. Today we discuss our favorites that are two years or more older.

This list of older books have brought us great joy over our reading years and we can’t wait to tell you why these will make the perfect addition to your reading life too.

Book Gang Podcast Episode 33: The Best Backlist Books You Missed (Part 2)

Listen to the Show:

Listen below or listen on your favorite podcast listening platform!

Mentioned on this episode:

Book Gang Podcast: Best Backlist Books You Missed Part 1

This Year’s Summer Reading Guide (The Best Beach Reads For Your Summer Stack)

This Will Be Funny Later by Jenny Pentland

In My Dreams I Hold A Knife by Ashley Winstead

Fool Me Once by Ashley Winstead

The View Was Exhausting by Mikaella Clements and Onjuli Datta

The Tobacco Wives by Adele Myers

Tobacco Wives Book Chat

Book Gang Podcast: Best Books of 2021 with Larry

Amy’s Email

Amy’s Instagram

House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune

Foul is Fair by Hannah Capin

Macbeth by William Shakespeare

The Tragedy of Macbeth

Scribd

My Notorious Life by Kate Manning

Orphan Train by Christina Baker Kline

Kate Manning’s Author Page

Gilded Mountain by Kate Manning

Christodora by Tim Murphy

The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai

Philadelphia 

The Prettiest Star by Carter Sickels

Goodbye, Vitamin by Rachel Khong

Chemistry by Weike Wang

Joan is Okay by Weike Wang

Emergency Contact by Mary HK Choi

Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell

Yolk by Mary HK Choi

Permanent Record by Mary HK Choi

The Two Family House by Linda Cohen Loigman 

The Wartime Sisters by Linda Cohen Loigman

Book Gang Podcast: A Day In the Life of a Book Publicist with Kathleen Carter

Brooklyn

Florence Adler Swims Forever by Rachel Beanland

We Are the Brennans by Tracey Lange

Sadness is a White Bird by Moriel Rothman-Zecher

The Orphans of Race Point by Patry Francis

Amy’s Interview with Patry Francis

All the Children Are Home by Patry Francis

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough

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Join the MomAdvice Book Gang for just $5 for an exclusive one-of-a-kind reading experience, and let me be your tour guide. I have selected 12 phenomenal books to read together that were picked just for you.  These are thought-provoking stories that deserve discussion, and many are hidden literary treasures. The official 2022 MomAdvice Book Club selection announcement will happen on December 1st. Your $5 membership will grant you access to the following exclusive features.

Monthly in-depth video interviews with each of our chosen authors. Learn the stories behind each of their stories and what they hope you will walk away from each of their books.

Exclusive Bookstore Coupon Discounts. Our Fables Bookstore partnership will give Patreon members 15% off ALL the book club selections for our year. This can be applied to both paperback and hardback selections. 

Exclusive MomAdvice Book Gang Podcast Episodes & Early Access Book Reviews. Your stack will be toppling over with my real-time reviews each month. These reviews are available in both audio and printable formats.  

Monthly Themed Playlists & Digital Downloads. Pair your favorite thriller with my spooky playlist. Brew some tea and listen to an instrumental mix with your favorite classic. Embrace short story songs with my favorite storytellers. The playlists are endless and digital downloads are available for your reading journals.

Sneak Peek Upcoming Content. You will know before anyone else what to expect in upcoming podcast episodes and what I’m researching for our next shows. Be bookishly curious with me and give your input for these MomAdvice Book Gang podcast shows.

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Part One of the Best Backlist Books You Missed

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Book Gang Podcast Episode 33: The Best Backlist Books You Missed (Part 1)

May 20th, 2022
Book Gang Podcast: The Best Backlist Books You Missed

No need to wait for the latest summer releases when you have this list of best backlist books to check out.

My well-read co-host, Larry Hoffer, is back to talk about our favorite older books and why these should be in your stack this year too.

Not familiar with the term backlist or frontlist books? The book industry groups published books into two types- frontlist (titles that have sold in the current year) and backlist (titles that are older than a year).

We have resurrected some of our top recommendations in this two-part series that can keep you company while you wait for your library holds to come in. Today we discuss our favorites that are two years or more older.

This list of older books have brought us great joy over our reading years and we can’t wait to tell you why these will make the perfect addition to your reading life too.

Book Gang Podcast Episode 33: The Best Backlist Books You Missed (Part 1)

Listen to the Show:

Listen below or listen on your favorite podcast listening platform!

Mentioned on this episode:

This Will Be Funny Later by Jenny Pentland

The Lady’s Handbook for Her Mysterious Illness by Sarah Ramey

Bookclub Event

The Prettiest Star by Carter Sickels

Larry’s Best Of List

Lily and the Octopus by Steven Rowley

The Guncle by Steven Rowley

Book Gang Podcast: A Reader’s Backlist Book Challenge

Standard Deviation by Katherine Heiny

Early Morning Riser by Katherine Heiny

Tell the Wolves I’m Home by Carol Rifka Brunt

Party of One: A Memoir in 21 Songs by Dave Holmes

My Friend Anna: The True Story of a Fake Heiress by Rachel DeLoache Williams

Inventing Anna

The Thing About Pam

A Place For Us by Fatima Farheen Mirza

Fatima Mirza and Riz Ahmed on the Oscars Red Carpet

Cruel Beautiful World by Caroline Leavitt

Is This Tomorrow by Caroline Leavitt

Amy’s Interview with Caroline Leavitt

With or Without You by Caroline Leavitt

Pictures of You by Caroline Leavitt

We Contain Multitudes by Sarah Henstra

Valley of the Moon by Melanie Gideon

The Dream Daughter by Diane Chamberlain

Did I Say You Could Go by Melanie Gideon

Dark Matter by Blake Crouch

The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger

Time and Again by Jack Finney

Wife 22 by Melanie Gideon

MomAdvice on Patreon

Connect With Us:

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Larry on Instagram

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Join the Patreon Community For the Bonus Content

Join Our Patreon Book Gang Today

Do you want to have the best reading year ever? 

Join the MomAdvice Book Gang for just $5 for an exclusive one-of-a-kind reading experience, and let me be your tour guide. I have selected 12 phenomenal books to read together that were picked just for you.  These are thought-provoking stories that deserve discussion, and many are hidden literary treasures. The official 2022 MomAdvice Book Club selection announcement will happen on December 1st. Your $5 membership will grant you access to the following exclusive features.

Monthly in-depth video interviews with each of our chosen authors. Learn the stories behind each of their stories and what they hope you will walk away from each of their books.

Exclusive Bookstore Coupon Discounts. Our Fables Bookstore partnership will give Patreon members 15% off ALL the book club selections for our year. This can be applied to both paperback and hardback selections. 

Exclusive MomAdvice Book Gang Podcast Episodes & Early Access Book Reviews. Your stack will be toppling over with my real-time reviews each month. These reviews are available in both audio and printable formats.  

Monthly Themed Playlists & Digital Downloads. Pair your favorite thriller with my spooky playlist. Brew some tea and listen to an instrumental mix with your favorite classic. Embrace short story songs with my favorite storytellers. The playlists are endless and digital downloads are available for your reading journals.

Sneak Peek Upcoming Content. You will know before anyone else what to expect in upcoming podcast episodes and what I’m researching for our next shows. Be bookishly curious with me and give your input for these MomAdvice Book Gang podcast shows.

This post contains affiliate links.

Shop the above (Amazon) links or shop through my new MomAdvice Book Gang Bookshop Page!! They pay a 10% commission on every sale and give a matching 10% to independent bookstores.

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The Best Beach Reads For Your Summer Stack

May 18th, 2022

Beach reads are required reading in the warmer months. These summer books deliver on page-turners filled with family drama, steamy love stories, and small-town feelings. Bookmark this summer reading list for your next library day.

The Best Beach Reads For Your Summer Stack from MomAdvice.com

Beach books have been a hot top request in our book club and today I wanted to share a few of my top recommendations for this summer’s reading.

After all, summers should be filled with good books, fun drinks, and fictional escapes. I also have one REALLY compelling memoir that reads as fast as fiction.

Escape real life with a few of my favorite reads this year.

The Best Beach Reads For Your Summer

The View Was Exhausting by Mikaella Clements & Onjuli Datta

Vogue described this as “a perfect summer read,” and I have to co-sign this comment. This book is now my go-to summer recommendation for a sophisticated romance with enough dimension for a thoughtful book club discussion.


The fake dating trope rarely works for me, but this debut examines the media and public’s obsession with Hollywood figures.

Whitman (“Win) Tagore is a well-known actress making headlines with a jet-setting playboy named Leo Milanowski.

The two have made headlines for a decade with their on-again, off-again romance. The public doesn’t know that the entire relationship is staged.


The two manipulate the press for necessary coverage and to gain favor and attention when necessary. All these situations are carefully orchestrated events between two friends.


As you might guess, this gets complicated but in all the best ways. Rather than leaning into the stereotypical plotlines, this goes into smart places like examining what it is like to be a woman of color in Hollywood.


This wife writing duo truly crafted one of my new favorite romances. I can’t wait to see what they write together next! (P.S.- Stay tuned for a summer interview with this fantastic writing duo on the Book Gang Podcast)

Cover Story

Cover Story by Susan Rigetti

This buzzy novel has been making its rounds on bookstagram, and that’s how it landed in my stack. Described as Inventing Anna meets Catch Me If You Can, get ready to meet the next prominent con artist. 

While the novel clocks in at 362 pages, the page count is quite deceptive and can easily be read in a day. Told in diary entries, emails, and text messages, the reader can observe a naive aspiring writer get conned in real-time. 

Lora can’t believe she has landed a summer internship at ELLE Magazine, where she meets Cat Wolff, a contributing editor and heir to a clean-energy mogul. The two begin a side project crafting a short story for a potential magazine submission.

Cat has story ideas, but they aren’t fleshed out well. Lora is a great writer but struggling to make rent. Why not solve both issues at once? 

Cat’s brilliant plan is that Lora can move into the Plaza Hotel with her, and the two can work on the story together.  Lora’s name won’t be on the work, but she can earn a salary and get her start as a ghostwriter. 

Lora grapples with this decision but loves the lifestyle that Cat provides and the ability to do what she loves. It becomes more difficult as she awaits those precious paychecks and as her work begins to gain notoriety. Lora doesn’t know that Cat is being investigated by the FBI, and she may be the next victim.

What makes this story the perfect reading slump buster is that it moves SO FAST by including these different documents and diary entries.

I have been immersed in both Inventing Anna and the memoir that it helped to inspire (My Friend Anna). If you are familiar with this story, it borrows most of its plot from that experience. 

It wasn’t until the 58% mark that the plot switches. 

What makes it the reason you want to finish it is that the last fifteen pages will give you the best plot twist whiplash that you will, FOR SURE, never see coming.

The book is worth the read for the ending alone.

Lessons in Chemistry

Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus

It is the early 1960s, and Elizabeth Zott wants to do her job and get credit for it. As a chemist, her work environment is less than desirable, with a boy’s club mentality among her coworkers at the Hastings Research Institute.

One man, though, treats Elizabeth with the respect she’s always desired, and their relationship evolves into a mutually beneficial exchange that brings them both unexpected joy. 

In a pivotal plot point, Elizabeth has unexpectedly become a single mother and an incredible television star on a cooking show called Supper at Six.

What makes the show such a success is Elizabeth’s refusal to see women as just housewives and to see them as aspiring chemists too. 

The leading lady isn’t the only notable character because Garmus has made an entire beloved cast of characters for the reader to adore, including an adorable dog that the reader will fall in love with. 

This novel is quirky, heartwarming, and feminist-forward in all the right ways.

This will be on my best books of the year list and would be the perfect selection for any book club. Read this before the TV series on Apple+.

Deconstructed

Deconstructed by Liz Talley

Finlay Donovan fans will devour this fun Southern story that blends heart and humor into a perfectly satisfying story.  

An antique-shop owner overhears a gossipy conversation about her husband that draws into question whether her husband has been unfaithful to her or not.

If her husband has been cheating, she will not let him get away with it, and she decides to hire a private investigator to look into this affair and what else he could be hiding. 

What she doesn’t expect is that her new assistant is the perfect accomplice to help her uncover his hidden secrets.

Not only is Ruby a wildly talented seamstress, turning her store’s trash into treasures, but she also knows all the right people to get any job done in town. 

These two women become unlikely friends, and there are some lovely layers to this story with checkered pasts and town secrets. 

What the Fireflies Knew

What the Fireflies Knew by Kai Harris

It is no secret that I am a sucker for coming-of-age stories, and this debut delivered on so much beauty. If you enjoyed our book club book, The Invincible Summer of Juniper Jones, this novel would hit all the sweet spots. 

Almost-eleven-year-old Kenyatta Bernice (KB) has undergone some challenging changes in her life.

Not only has her father died, but her mother also has left.

She and Nia (her sister) are dropped off at her estranged grandfather’s home for an indefinite amount of time with no explained reasons. 

Told through KB’s eyes, this story is beautifully told as she learns more about what tore her mother and grandfather apart.

It’s a big summer of discovery for many reasons.

Still, one of the most powerful is the transition between the two sisters as Nia begins to separate herself from her sister and move away from the things of her youth to embark on the big girlhood journey of self-discovery (and boys).

I have never read this stage so beautifully captured- it reminded me a lot of the transition between my sister and me at that stage.

If you want a book that you want to hug when you finish, this is the book to add to your stack.

Harris writes vividly and beautifully with turns of phrases that are a delight to read.

It also layers in more significant themes like mental illness, race, and identity that add depth to this sweet summer adventure story.  

Described as an ode to “black girlhood and adolescence,” this was one of my favorite library discoveries.

Cleopatra and Frankenstein

Cleopatra and Frankenstein by Coco Mellors

The book opens with a young painter (Cleo) meeting an older successful businessman (Frank). They could not be more opposite but immediately are drawn to one another’s company.

They find a deep appreciation for one another and also acquire their nicknames, Cleopatra and Frankenstein, yielding the book’s unique title. 

Cleo requires a Green Card, and Frank offers her both the steadiness that her artistic life lacks and a permanent residence in the states. 

We follow the two as their marriage goes through the highs of new love to the monotony in the middle and then what it feels like to fall out of love. 

Each chapter is a month, and the observations of family and friends round out the story as they too observe this relationship and try to forge their own in different ways. 

There is so much humor throughout these pages, even in heartbreaking moments in their marriage.

Their brief stint as parents of a sugar glider (go ahead and look that up on Tik Tok and tell me you aren’t intrigued) may be some of the most memorable chapters I’ve read in a long time.  

Mellors writing draws Salley Rooney comparisons. Comparatively, I thought this delivered on Katherine Heiney writing joy.

It’s not just the unlikely love story though, for me. It is the dry humor where this one shined and made it such a wildly memorable debut. 

If you are looking for really readable literary fiction, this is it.

Book Lovers

Book Lovers Emily Henry

Beach Read was my favorite book by this author until this latest contemporary romance dropped.

When a New York City literary agent goes on a small-town getaway with her sister, the two work through a checklist of adventures that you would appreciate in any Hallmark movie. 

Expecting to find romance with a hunky local in Sunshine Falls, North Carolina, is just what Nora believe is destined to happen. 

She couldn’t expect that a difficult editor she worked with from the city just might be living there too. 

In Henry’s signature writing style, this has heart, humor, and loads of bookish moments.

This love story also loves to poke a little fun at the romance tropes while leaning into a few of them in its own story.

Fans of Elin Hilderbrand or Jennifer Weiner should definitely get acquainted with Emily Henry’s backlist selections as well as this fantastic new release.

This Will Be Funny Later

This Will Be Funny Later by Jenny Pentland

This fascinating memoir of Jenny Pentland’s childhood is the book that you won’t be able to put down.

Imagine your real-life becomes episodes for a sitcom. Most of us can’t fathom this existence, but the life of Jenny (and her siblings) became the show we know as “Roseanne. “

Jenny’s mom, Roseanne Arnold, is more of a compassionate side note, while the meat of this story focuses on Jenny’s anxieties from paparazzi encounters and struggles with obesity.

In response to these trials, she goes through various programs, including those infamous wilderness camps and fat camps. 

A couple of truth bombs about Pentland’s journey (both in these programs and with the paparazzi) may have yielded an audible gasp. I was also unfamiliar with Roseanne’s backstory, so the captured moments are pretty surprising.

Through even these sad and challenging moments, Pentland embraces the funny.

I, indeed, will count this among my favorite memoirs.   (P.S.- Stay tuned for a summer interview with Jenny on my podcast)

The Kaiju Preservation Society

The Kaiju Preservation Society by John Scalzi

Craving a summer blockbuster film in a book? This lighthearted science fiction book is just what your beach bag needs.

The timing for this is just as the pandemic is descending on the world, but there is no need to stick around to see the devastation when you get to go to another world.

THANK GOD!

Jamie is a driver for an Uber Eats competitor although he never expected his corporate job to take such a turn.

Stuck in the rat race of trying to make ends meet, he ends up making a life-changing series of food deliveries to someone that promises him a job that can get him away from what’s happening in the world.

AND pay him far better too.

Jamie joins a team of scientists in an alternate world intent on the preservation of Kaijus (giant dinosaur monsters).

This book is filled with laughs and “boy humor” that I couldn’t wait to pass on to my husband, from laugh-out-loud mating rituals to heart-pounding danger.

I love that Scalzi never takes things too seriously and isn’t afraid to poke a little fun at some of the more predictable themes.

Stick around for the author’s note on this one- it includes a tale of a double-saved manuscript that was lost and how this book came to be.

Fool Me Once

Fool Me Once by Ashley Winstead

I fell in love with Ashley Winstead’s thrilling debut and was so surprised to see that her next book was a romance.

This gigantic genre leap shouldn’t have worked so well, but Winstead delivered on a laugh-out-loud plot that has made me a believer that she can write anything.

Lee works as a communications director at a women-run electric car company.

While serious and successful at work, Lee definitely leans into the “work hard play hard” mindset. She’s not afraid to throw back a few or call a guy for a one night stand. 

Her carefree attitude isn’t because she’s so easygoing.

There have been many heartbreaks in her life (both in her childhood and as she is older), which is why she keeps so many at a distance.

This jumping to conclusions and mistrust is exactly what ends an important relationship in her life with some of her signature sabotage.

It is also why, five years later, she is stunned to discover that she must reunite with this old boyfriend when the two are both working towards getting a clean energy bill rolling. 

With a political backdrop that doesn’t lean into the negativity, lots of chemistry between old flames, and loads of LOLs, this is destined to be a favorite in this summer’s book stack.

The Truth About Ben And June

The Truth About Ben and June by Alex Kiester

Thank you to the publishing house for the complimentary copy. 

The story opens with the disappearance of a young mother, and Kiester builds a beautifully believable mystery layered with big book club themes. 

Ben never expected to be at a police station inquiring about the procedure for filing a missing person case, but that is precisely where he has found himself.

The juggle of work and family without his wife takes its toll quickly and he would do anything to have June back.

Ben discovers that he doesn’t really know his wife at all and, frankly, neither do her friends.

Kiester takes the reader on a journey to understand June’s motives and a rarely explored topic in literature. To tell you what this is, though, would rob you of the beauty in this read. 

CW: suicide ideation

The Best Psychological Thriller Books to Read

Looking for a few thrillers to add to this stack? Be sure to check out this list of the best psychological thriller books to check out!

What beach reads would you add to today’s stack? Let me know what I’m missing in the comments below!

The Best Beach Reads For Your Summer Stack from MomAdvice.com

Book Gang Podcast Episode 32: Improve Your Reading Memory and Focus

May 13th, 2022

Do you struggle with reading focus and retention? Paula Engebretson is a Certified Life Coach that specializes in helping adults with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) live their best life.

Who better to lead us on reading strategies and reading comprehension than her?

At 31 years old, Paula was diagnosed with ADHD and had to learn how to create systems and routines that made sense with how her brain works.

We discuss the symptoms of adult ADHD and how to begin the process of diagnosis and treatment.

Today’s goal is to give you real strategies for reading more and how you can begin working with your learning disability instead of against it.

You don’t need ADHD to benefit from today’s episode. In these distracted times, all of us could benefit from this life coach’s advice!

Book Gang Podcast Episode 32: Improve Your Reading Memory and Focus

Listen to the Show:

Listen below or listen on your favorite podcast listening platform!

Mentioned on this episode:

Amy on A Slob Comes Clean Podcast

Amy on The Mom Hour

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (Amy’s Guide)

The Lady’s Handbook for Her Mysterious Illness by Sarah Ramey

Online Bookclub Chat

I’m Busy Being Awesome

Paula on Instagram

Book Gang Podcast Episode: Use These Cleaning Hacks for a Better Reading Life

Dr. Russell Barkley

ADDitude

CHADD

When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing by Daniel Pink

brain.fm

Book Gang Podcast Episode: Booker of the Month

Rise App

Loona App

Fidgetland

Worry Stones

We’re Busy Being Awesome Small Groups

I’m Busy Being Awesome Podcast

I’m Busy Being Awesome on Facebook

Connect With Me:

Amy is @momadvice on Instagram

Join the Patreon Community For the Bonus Content

Join Our Patreon Book Gang Today

Do you want to have the best reading year ever? 

Join the MomAdvice Book Gang for just $5 for an exclusive one-of-a-kind reading experience, and let me be your tour guide. I have selected 12 phenomenal books to read together that were picked just for you.  These are thought-provoking stories that deserve discussion, and many are hidden literary treasures. The official 2022 MomAdvice Book Club selection announcement will happen on December 1st. Your $5 membership will grant you access to the following exclusive features.

Monthly in-depth video interviews with each of our chosen authors. Learn the stories behind each of their stories and what they hope you will walk away from each of their books.

Exclusive Bookstore Coupon Discounts. Our Fables Bookstore partnership will give Patreon members 15% off ALL the book club selections for our year. This can be applied to both paperback and hardback selections. 

Exclusive MomAdvice Book Gang Podcast Episodes & Early Access Book Reviews. Your stack will be toppling over with my real-time reviews each month. These reviews are available in both audio and printable formats.  

Monthly Themed Playlists & Digital Downloads. Pair your favorite thriller with my spooky playlist. Brew some tea and listen to an instrumental mix with your favorite classic. Embrace short story songs with my favorite storytellers. The playlists are endless and digital downloads are available for your reading journals.

Sneak Peek Upcoming Content. You will know before anyone else what to expect in upcoming podcast episodes and what I’m researching for our next shows. Be bookishly curious with me and give your input for these MomAdvice Book Gang podcast shows.

This post contains affiliate links.

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How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

May 10th, 2022

Here are the signs and symptoms to look for and the resource list I wish I had when I received my Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome diagnosis.

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

May is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome Awareness Month and I do my best to use my platform to educate and transparently share about my journey with this disease.

It has always felt like a tricky terrain to share, without sympathy or attention-seeking, but to offer the information that I wish I had years and years ago. 

Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome is considered a rare disease, but I think many doctors would challenge this and say that it is rarely diagnosed instead. As more awareness is raised, more and more people are able to get answers sooner for themselves and for their children.  That is what this month is all about.

I have the most common type and it is the Hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

Personally, I struggle with joint pain (jaw, hands, elbows, feet, hips, and neck),  frequent rib subluxations, managing wild allergic responses, heart rate fluctuations, blood pressure fluctuations, insomnia, chronic pain, and temperature regulation. 

Each person who has this has different challenges. No two patients are alike and we never want to discredit anyone’s experience that is suffering. 

Let’s quickly break down what EDS is, how to get diagnosed, and what other disorders are commonly attached to this diagnosis. If you would like to read my own diagnosis story, it is here.

What is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS)?

The Ehler’s Danlos Society defines EDS as, “a group of hereditary disorders of connective tissue that are varied in the ways they affect the body and in their genetic causes.

They are generally characterized by joint hypermobility (joints that move further than the normal range), joint instability (subluxation [partial separation of the articulating surfaces of a joint]) and dislocations (full separation of the surfaces of a joint), scoliosis, and other joint deformities, skin hyperextensibility (skin that can be stretched further than normal) and abnormal scarring, and other structural weakness such as hernias and organ prolapse through the pelvic floor. 

In the rare types of EDS (like vascular type), there is also the weakness of specific tissues that can lead, for example, to major gum and dental disease, eye disease, cardiac valve and aortic root disorders, and life-threatening abdominal organ, uterine, or blood vessel rupture. 

The Ehlers-Danlos syndromes are currently classified into fourteen types of Ehlers Danlos. In all but the hypermobile subtype (hEDS) genetics variants have been identified as the cause for the disorder and are part of the diagnostic criteria.

Some of the most common symptoms include fragile skin, skin that bruises easily, and joint pain from subluxation. 

How Is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome Diagnosed?

The best place to start is with your general practitioner who can perform a simple test called the Beighton Scoring System that will assess your joint hypermobility.

Below is the test that they can do in their office and a description of the scoring system:

They also will want to document your family history (since there is an inheritance pattern) and your medical history. If this data suggests you may have the disease, they usually will refer you out to a specialist. In some cases, genetic testing is available, but it depends on the types diagnosed. 

The Ehlers-Danlos Foundation has a directory of physicians you can contact in your area. Many patients, unfortunately,  must travel to other states or countries to see a specialist. 

If you are local, this is the person that I saw for my official diagnosis.

What is The “Terrible Trifecta” 

One thing I wish had been explained to me, in this initial stage (with my general practitioner), is that Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome ALONE is not usually the diagnosis.

Our specialist described each patient as a tree with many branches. EDS is the main issue, but each person has other diagnoses that go along with it. 

Most patients (including myself and my children) have “the terrible trifecta” which is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, POTS Syndrome, and Mast Cell Activation Disorder. 

Mast Cell Activation Disorder is best managed with an allergist and I have been told that some of my joint pain may stem from this branch in my disorder. 

Depending on the severity, a cardiologist may be involved with the POTS Syndrome or an experienced PCP (primary care physician) may be able to manage it. 

POTS, for me, is the most debilitating because the dysautonomia creates a storm in my body that throws off my balance, makes my heart beat fast, causes my blood pressure to swing, and makes me feel very disoriented. When my POTS Syndrome is stable, my quality of life is much better. Stabilizing things has become the biggest challenge for my physicians and for me. 

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

 Now that you know the symptoms of EDS, I’d love to share the resource list that I wish I had when I was diagnosed. I have spent thousands of dollars over the years to manage and treat my pain. I really don’t want anyone else to have to do the same. 

This resource list is what works for me and should be discussed with your physician if it is right for you. 

Please note, I have chronic insomnia and pain that are being treated with prescription medications. I have not listed these because each person must individualize their treatment with their own physician.

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

Supplements & Prescriptions 

(Note: this is the file with the recommendations for specific diets and supplements as advised by my specialist. I am only listing what has worked for me, personally. I would also encourage you to get your hormones checked because you may need intervention if you are middle-aged.)

Sagely Pill Organizer (this has soft closures and can be partnered with an app for reminders)

Allegra twice daily (to manage mast cell response- morning & afternoon)

Chelated Magnesium 100 mg, twice daily

Fish Oil

Fludrocortisone (for POTS Syndrome this has been key for me. It cut down on my dizziness and keeps my blood pressure more level. Potassium must be monitored regularly.)

2-ounces George’s Aloe (No substitutions. This has helped me more than anything I’ve taken from the Cousack Protocol. I have far less dislocations since using it. For the record, I would say that I’m a skeptic in holistic relief.)

XClear Nasal Spray (this helps some of my mast cell issues at night)

Daily Electrolytes (for low blood pressure- I do two a day)

Work-From-Home Essentials

Pressure-Relief Seat Cushion (I use this for reading in bed and driving too)

Back Relief Lumbar Pillow

Laptop Bed Tray (I use this for reading in bed too- this is one my most well-researched tools to help on bad POTS days!)

Flippy Tablet/Kindle Holder

Sleep Helpers

Cervical roll (can be added to any pillow)

Loona App (recommended by my therapist and has helped greatly)

This Mattress Pad (it adds some cushioning for my joints and helps my temperature issues)

Coop Pillow (can be adjusted based on your body’s needs- the best sleep investment I’ve made)

Working with a TMJ Specialist to Have a Custom Nightguard Made (the most expensive thing ever- worth every dollar)

EDS Books, Apps, & Medical Equipment

The Zebra Club App (teaches movement & stability skills that are as beneficial as working with a physical therapist)

Living Life to the Fullest With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (this guide can be used with your physical therapist or you can work through the exercises independently)

Curable App (Bootcamp programs & the app are both beneficial in turning down your pain responses)

Pulse Oximeter & Blood Pressure Cuff (use this data to help with your appointments or to inform you why you aren’t feeling well)

EDS Life Hacks Facebook Group (helpful encouragement with focus on positive solutions)

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

Pain Management Helpers

Oval-8 Finger Splints (I just use the plastic ones, but they do sell pretty braces on Etsy)

Quell Wearable TENS Unit (here is an in-depth review on this device)

Compression Gloves

Rechargeable Hand Warmers (even used in summer when I have hand pain)

CBD & CBD Balms (this resource has a medical assistance program for low-income families and veterans. Be careful with CBD and low blood pressure- I can’t do it anymore!)

Wearables That Help

Nuboso Neural Insoles (help with balance and spatial awareness)

Loop Experience (these help with balance, spatial awareness, & tone down my anxiety)

Girlfriend Collective Leggings (gentle compression & buttery soft- worth every dollar)

Compression Socks

True Body Bras (they help with my shoulder pain & spatial awareness)

Bomba Slippers (the only time my feet don’t feel miserable)

How I Manage Life With Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome

Extras That Make My Life Better

Infinity Cube (to calm anxiety)

Hair Towels (to cut down on blow-drying time)

Infiniti Blow Dryer (it spins so I don’t have to hold two things)

Olive & June Poppy Tool (so I can do my own nails- must be used with their nail color)

Madison & Reed Hair Color (because I don’t have enough spoons to go to a salon)

Things That Haven’t Worked For Me

Posture Bras or Posture-Driven products (they overcorrect me)

MLM Schemes 

Toxic Positivity

I hope that this resource list offers additional support and I will continue to update with items that REALLY WORK as I come across them. Please tell me, what’s helped you manage your symptoms the most?

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Book Gang Podcast Episode 31: Must-Read Books by Asian American and Pacific Islander Authors

May 6th, 2022
Book Gang Podcast Episode 31: Must-Read Books by Asian American and Pacific Islander Authors

May is AAPI Heritage Month, and we want to celebrate these voices with a well-curated book stack. Kristin from Fables Books joins the show to talk about this month’s StoryGraph reading challenge and share some of their best picks for a memorable reading month.

I also bring a great book club selection, an under-the-radar book gem that swept me away, and debuts that pulled me out of reading slumps. This episode has you covered whether you are looking for your next fantasy adventure, YA romance, or historical fiction escape.

We want to remind our listeners that Fables is our partnered bookshop, and all of the links do go directly to their store. Remember, this shop also offers a used book collection. Please support our indie book shop.

Book Gang Podcast Episode 31: Must-Read Asian American and Pacific Islander Authors

Listen to the Show:

Listen below or listen on your favorite podcast listening platform!

Mentioned in this episode:

Bree Unabashedly on Instagram

Book Gang Podcast: Falling for Holiday Romance 

The Reading List Book Chat

MomAdvice on Patreon

Ehlers-Danlos

The Lady’s Handbook for Her Mysterious Illness by Sarah Ramey

Lady’s Handbook Book Chat

Fables Books

Fables Book Reading Challenge

Amy’s Interview with Celeste Ng

Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng

Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng

She Who Became The Sun by Shelly Parker-Chan

If I had Your Face by Frances Cha

The Tangleroot Palace: Stories by Marjorie Liu

Monstress by Marjorie Liu

Everything Here is Beautiful by Mira T. Lee

Sari Not Sari by Sonya Singh

A River of Stars by Vanessa Hua

Forbidden City by Vanessa Hua

Blue-Skinned Gods by SJ Sindu

Daughter of the Moon Goddess by Sue Lynn Tan

Heart of the Sun Warrior by Sue Lynn Tan

One Last Stop by Casey McQuiston

Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab

The Way Spring Arrives and Other Stories by Yu Chen & Regina Kanyu Wang

Fables Books on Facebook

Fables Books on Instagram

Fables Books on Tik Tok

Connect With Me:

Amy is @momadvice on Instagram

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Don’t Miss Today’s NEW POST- 13 Books by AAPI Authors To Read Right Now

Join Our Patreon Book Gang Today

Do you want to have the best reading year ever? 

Join the MomAdvice Book Gang for just $5 for an exclusive one-of-a-kind reading experience, and let me be your tour guide. I have selected 12 phenomenal books to read together that were picked just for you.  These are thought-provoking stories that deserve discussion, and many are hidden literary treasures.

Monthly in-depth video interviews with each of our chosen authors. Learn the stories behind each of their stories and what they hope you will walk away from each of their books.

Exclusive Bookstore Coupon Discounts. Our Fables Bookstore partnership will give Patreon members 15% off ALL the book club selections for our year. This can be applied to both paperback and hardback selections. 

Exclusive MomAdvice Book Gang Podcast Episodes & Early Access Book Reviews. Your stack will be toppling over with my real-time reviews each month. These reviews are available in both audio and printable formats.  

Monthly Themed Playlists & Digital Downloads. Pair your favorite thriller with my spooky playlist. Brew some tea and listen to an instrumental mix with your favorite classic. Embrace short story songs with my favorite storytellers. The playlists are endless and digital downloads are available for your reading journals.

Sneak Peek Upcoming Content. You will know before anyone else what to expect in upcoming podcast episodes and what I’m researching for our next shows. Be bookishly curious with me and give your input for these MomAdvice Book Gang podcast shows.

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Book Gang Podcast Episode 30: Booker of the Month

April 22nd, 2022

When the 2019 Booker Prize longlist was announced, Deedi (@deedireads) challenged herself to read them over a year. Reading this prize-winning literature ended up changing her reading life forever.

Each year, this literary award (Booker Prize) for fiction is one of the most prestigious literary prizes given to an author. This prize is awarded to what is the best novel of the year written in the English language and published in the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland. It is a prize that can transform the winner’s career. It can also change a reader’s life.

We will be discussing Deedi’s favorite Man Booker International Prize winners and how we can join her fun book club challenge on The StoryGraph. She shares her Booker of the Month details and where other readers can take this challenge with her.

Book Gang Podcast Episode 30: Booker of the Month

Listen to the Show:

Listen below or listen on your favorite podcast listening platform!

Mentioned in this episode:

The Reading List by Sara Nisha Adams

The Reading List Book Chat 

The Best Psychological Thriller Books to Read

DeediReads

The Booker Prizes

Women’s Prize for Fiction

National Book Award

The Hugo Awards

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens 

Booker of the Month

Bernie Lombardi on Instagram

Literary Award Lounge Discord Server

The StoryGraph

Book Gang Podcast: How The StoryGraph Can Enhance Your Reading Life

How to Use The StoryGraph For A Better Reading Life

Fables Books Challenge

Alex Awards

Binge Mode

Such a Fun Age by Kiley Reid 

Great Circle by Maggie Shipstead 

Bewilderment by Richard Powers 

My Sister The Serial Killer by Oyinkan Braithwaite 

Redhead by the Side of the Road by Anne Tyler

Girl, Woman, Other by Bernadine Evaristo

The Testaments by Margaret Atwood

Frankissstein by Jeanette Winterson 

Lanny by Max Porter 

Ducks, Newburyport by Lucy Ellmann

The Shadow King by Maaza Mengiste

Deedi on Instagram

Deedi Speaking

Deedi on Twitter

Deedi’s Newsletter

From Deedi’s Couch

MomAdvice on Patreon

Connect With Me:

Amy is @momadvice on Instagram

Join the Patreon Community For the Bonus Content

Join Our Patreon Book Gang Today

Do you want to have the best reading year ever? 

Join the MomAdvice Book Gang for just $5 for an exclusive one-of-a-kind reading experience, and let me be your tour guide. I have selected 12 phenomenal books to read together that were picked just for you.  These are thought-provoking stories that deserve discussion, and many are hidden literary treasures. The official 2022 MomAdvice Book Club selection announcement will happen on December 1st. Your $5 membership will grant you access to the following exclusive features.

Monthly in-depth video interviews with each of our chosen authors. Learn the stories behind each of their stories and what they hope you will walk away from each of their books.

Exclusive Bookstore Coupon Discounts. Our Fables Bookstore partnership will give Patreon members 15% off ALL the book club selections for our year. This can be applied to both paperback and hardback selections. 

Exclusive MomAdvice Book Gang Podcast Episodes & Early Access Book Reviews. Your stack will be toppling over with my real-time reviews each month. These reviews are available in both audio and printable formats.  

Monthly Themed Playlists & Digital Downloads. Pair your favorite thriller with my spooky playlist. Brew some tea and listen to an instrumental mix with your favorite classic. Embrace short story songs with my favorite storytellers. The playlists are endless and digital downloads are available for your reading journals.

Sneak Peek Upcoming Content. You will know before anyone else what to expect in upcoming podcast episodes and what I’m researching for our next shows. Be bookishly curious with me and give your input for these MomAdvice Book Gang podcast shows.

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The Best Psychological Thriller Books To Read

April 18th, 2022
The Best Psychological Thriller Books to Read from MomAdvice.com

Looking for great psychological thriller books? This list offers mystery, unreliable narrators, and creepy serial killers. 5-star thrillers guaranteed!

I’ll lead with an unpopular book opinion- The Woman in the Window & The Silent Patient are not my favorite thrillers.

Embracing the unreliable narrator trope requires more than replicating the next Gillian Flynn Gone Girl experience. It must come with a good backstory and the writing chops to lead me down the wrong path.

Do these books exist? 

You bet they do! 

Today I’m sharing 12 thrillers to get your book stack started. 

The Best Psychological Thriller Books To Read

Local Woman Missing by Mary Kubica

Local Woman Missing by Mary Kubica

Mary Kubica is a MomAdvice favorite and for a good reason. She writes some of the best psychological thrillers, and I’ve been sharing about her work since her debut (read my exclusive interview on that one). 

In fact, I am such a fan that Mary graciously agreed to co-host the podcast with me to share about HER favorite psychological thrillers, so definitely give this episode a listen to learn more about her writing process and the books she loves. 

LISTEN HERE:

Did you know that Local Woman Missing won the Audie Award? If you are looking for an audiobook to devour, I would recommend adding this to your listening stack.

Kubica builds a great twisty story that has the just right amount of suspense and whodunit fun that had me flipping the pages as fast as I could.

It is unusual for more than one person to go missing in a neighborhood, but that’s what happens in this story leaving one to wonder if these cases could be related. Not only do two women disappear, but a six-year-old little girl has also vanished.

Eleven years later, though, the child is found, and everyone wants to know where she could have been and how this is connected to the other disappearances.

This book is fast-paced, has inventive twists, and reads like a suspenseful film.  I, truly, had zero idea where this was going and that made it a pleasure to read from start to finish. 

The Push by Ashley Audrain

The Push by Ashley Audrain

Meaty enough to be a book club pick, shocking enough to have you holding your breath, and twisty enough to keep you guessing until the final pages. What more could a girl want in a thriller?

Motherhood doesn’t come naturally to everyone and Audrain shows how this can make connections with our children difficult, especially if we don’t have any example of what that looks like.

This is the case for Blythe who ends up having a child that is unusually difficult and where she struggles to find connection.

Is it because she hasn’t had the right example or is it because there really is something disturbing about her child?

The book shares Blythe’s story, but also shares the story of generations of women before her that have all had disturbing relationships with their children.

When a tragedy happens, the reader is left wondering if this is really brought on by the child or if Blythe’s past is just catching up to her.

White Smoke by Tiffany Jackson

White Smoke by Tiffany D. Jackson

Marigold struggles with anxiety after a bedbug situation in her home caused significant stress, among other difficult situations she has had to face.

Her newly blended family is embarking on a new journey, though it is just the change they all need. Her mom has accepted a new job, and one of these fun perks is rent-free living. 

When they pull up to their newly renovated home, they realize that the neighborhood is unexpectedly creepy. All the houses are rundown, and the neighbors are less than welcoming.

But that isn’t the only thing that’s unwelcoming.

The house has a vibe to it that is deeply unsettling. 

Jackson’s love for the Goosebumps series inspired this fast-paced YA psychological thriller. If you need a further endorsement, R.L. Stine said: “The creeps come on slowly, then start to build. I wanted to scream, but I was too busy to turn pages. I had to know.”

Little Secrets by Jennifer Hillier

Marin seems to be leading the perfect life- a fantastic husband, a beautiful son, and a successful career. 

Her life comes to a crashing halt when she is out shopping and her son is taken.  In this split second of her looking away, her son goes missing, and her entire world is shattered.

One year later, Marin’s marriage is struggling, they still have been unable to find her son, and she is in a spiraling depression. 

She hires a private investigator to reexamine the case as a last-ditch attempt. 

What she digs up, though, isn’t information about Sebastian but surprising information about her husband that changes everything. 

The Golden Couple by Greer Hendricks & Sarah Pekkanen

The Golden Couple by Greer Hendricks & Sarah Pekkanen

This thriller doesn’t lean into the intoxicated woman trope or a therapist who suddenly has become the love interest in the couple’s story. For that, we are thankful. 

Marissa and Matthew Bishop are the title’s “golden couple” who surprisingly found their perfect marriage in trouble. Who better get their marriage on track than Avery Chambers, whose controversial therapy methods have gotten her kicked out of traditional therapy settings and featured in headline news. 

Her program guarantees results even if it explores beyond the boundaries of the traditional settings. As each viewpoint is revealed, the reader is led on a wild goose hunt on who offers the most reliable view since they ALL harbor a few secrets. 

This writing duo delivers again on a fast-paced thriller with solid twists. 

I love that they wrote in a few red herrings that had me fixating that I knew the endings or twists, but I was wrong.

We Are Watching Eliza Bright by A.E. Osworth

We Are Watching Eliza Bright by A.E. Osworth

Eliza is one of only two women who are hired as a programmer at a gaming company. Unfortunately, her presence isn’t welcomed, particularly in the programming department, where Eliza becomes a source of ridicule and is harassed.

When the incident is reported, her boss doesn’t take the necessary next steps and goes along with the “boys will be boys” toxic dialogue instead of addressing the issue correctly. 

When Eliza takes the incident to a journalist, all hell breaks loose as people begin to demonize, target, and dangerously harass her. One user, in particular, has made it his mission to destroy Eliza for her actions.

The Family Upstairs by Lisa Jewell

The Family Upstairs by Lisa Jewell

Need a thriller you can finish in a single day? This novel from Lisa Jewell is just the ticket!

I am, admittedly, fascinated by cults and the power of charismatic leaders to manipulate people to do unthinkable things. I’m reading another cult thriller RIGHT NOW.

In this story, Libby returns home from work to find a letter written to her on her 25th birthday. 

It is the letter that she has been waiting for all her life.

Within the note, she learns the identity of her birth parents and that she is the sole inheritor of an abandoned mansion in one of London’s most fashionable neighborhoods that are worth millions.

This house has a dark history that makes it less desirable than one might expect. 

Twenty-five years ago, the police were called to this house because there were reports of a baby crying. 

This baby, healthy and happy, was found in her crib- safe and sound.

Downstairs though, were three dead bodies, all dressed in black, and the other four children had mysteriously disappeared.

Get the surprising backstory in this twisty thriller.

My Lovely Wife by Samantha Downing

My Lovely Wife by Samantha Downing

Told from the husband’s perspective, we are quickly enveloped in how much he adores his wife. They seem like the perfect couple, and she does all the things any good wife would do. She’s beautiful, she keeps track of everyone’s activities, she makes incredible dinners, and they have a great romantic life. 

It’s just that their new favorite hobby is working as a team to seduce and murder 

This web of lies affects everyone in their house, like their poor unsuspecting children, and it becomes more and more difficult to keep anyone from finding out, especially when people turn up dead.

This added and believable suspense is what I loved about this story and kept me engaged until those final pages.

Too Good To Be True by Carola Lovering

Too Good to Be True by Carola Lovering

While Skye is over the moon to find her soulmate, her family and friends remain skeptical about Burke because she knows so little about him. 

It doesn’t help that Burke doesn’t have a lot of friends or family to back up the story of his past.

Burke’s real story is deeply twisted with another woman, and Skye is about to find out why she has become the target of Burke’s affection and how deep his lies go.

This is one of those books that you should read as little as possible about and enjoy one of those crazy 24-hour stay-up-way-too-late thriller vibes.

Pretty Things by Janelle Brown

Pretty Things by Janelle Brown

Nina’s mom is a con artist who does her best to keep Nina in a good school and has given her the best childhood she can, despite her profession.

When Nina finds friendship with a wealthy boy at school, they find comfort in being outcasts together. 

As their friendship blossoms into something more, they get busted by his father, and Nina is removed from the school and taken away from him.

Now Nina works as a high-end con artist herself; she scopes social media accounts for the fabulously wealthy, drugs them up, and then takes all she can from their home.

When she hits a rough financial patch, she remembers the boy she fell in love with…oh, and the passcode to the family safe that holds millions.

The Mother-In-Law by Sally Hepworth

The Mother-In-Law by Sally Hepworth

Lucy knows that she is not the wife that Diana has envisioned for her son.  Lucy struggles with the distance Diana seems to create within them, despite her charitable spirit and working tirelessly for others as an advocate for female refugees.

When Diana unexpectedly dies of suicide, her family is surprised and realizes that her cancer diagnosis may have just been too much for her.

The problem?

The autopsy shows that she never had cancer, but the body does show traces of poison and evidence of suffocation.

Diana’s complex relationships come into play as you try to piece together what has happened. Told in alternating points of view, through past and present, you realize just how many people had a motive in Diana’s death and how many layers she did have to her own story.

False Witness by Karin Slaughter

False Witness by Karin Slaughter

Trigger warnings galore- proceed with caution.

Leigh has been running from her past for twenty years, and the only one who knows the truth is her estranged sister. Callie hasn’t been a part of Leigh’s life as she battles a lifetime of addiction. Yet, the sisters must come together because time is running out, and life as they both know it could end.

I would suggest reading the letter to the reader BEFORE reading this one, which you will find tucked in at the back of this book. 

Slaughter chose to set this story during pandemic times, and it is laced with all the daily dilemmas we are finding ourselves in with our current pandemic and why she felt it was important for this story.

This book is so gripping and has so many layers to it. The dynamics between how these two sisters weather the pandemic and the big moral dilemmas these two face make this an incredibly captivating read.

Looking for more thriller fun?

19 thrillers to keep you up all night
19 more thrillers to keep you up all night
read my exclusive interview with Ruth Ware

QUESTION: What’s the latest thriller you read that kept you up past your bedtime? Comment below!

Book Gang Podcast Episode 29: Funny Books (with Fables Books)

April 15th, 2022
Book Gang Podcast Episode 29: Funny Books (with Fables Books)

If you need some funny books in your life, this podcast on the funniest books is for you.

Kristin from Fables Books and I agree that we don’t gravitate toward lighthearted books so it is always a fun surprise when books like these bring us unexpected joy.

Expand your book stack beyond the funny classics like Tina Fey, Mindy Kaling, Bill Bryson, and Trevor Noah. This humorous book stack offers some under-the-radar books that hit all the right funny notes.

Whether you are looking for short stories, science fiction, a collection of essays, middle-aged hilarity, or coming-of-age YA humor- we have you covered.

We want to remind our listeners that Fables is our partnered bookshop and all of the links do go directly to their store. Remember, this shop also offers a used book collection. Please support our indie book shop.

Book Gang Podcast Episode 28: Use These Cleaning Hacks for a Better Reading Life

Listen to the Show:

Listen below or listen on your favorite podcast listening platform!

Mentioned in this episode:

This Will Be Funny Later by Jenny Pentland

Fables Books Reading Challenge 2022

Book Gang Podcast: How The StoryGraph Can Enhance Your Reading Life

How to Use the StoryGraph App For a Better Reading Life

Born a Crime by Trevor Noah

The Book of Polly by Kathy Hepinstall

Standard Deviation by Katherine Heiny

Mickey 7 by Edward Ashton

Hollow Kingdom by Kira Jane Buxton

Feral Creatures by Kira Jane Buxton

Kira Jane Buxton on Instagram

As You Wish by Cary Elwes

How to be Perfect by Michael Schur

You’ll Grow Out of It by Jessi Klein essay

Inside Amy Schumer

Bossypants by Tina Faye

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling

Weird Things Customers Say in Bookstores by Jennifer Campbell

What If Its Us by Becky Albertalli & Adam Silvera

Here’s To Us by Becky Albertalli & Adam Silvera

They Both Die At The End by Adam Silvera

Simon vs the Homo Sapiens Agenda by Becky Albertalli

Once More Upon a Time by Roshani Chokski

Barbie in The 12 Dancing Princesses

Happy and You Know It by Laura Hankin

McSweeney’s

Funny or Die

A Ladder to the Sky by John Boyne

One Last Stop by Casey McQuiston

Red, White and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston

Bonus Books (From Fables Book Club):

All That She Carried by Tiya Miles

Network Effect by Martha Wells

Murderbot Diaries

House in the Cerulean Sea by T.J. Klune

The Fifth Season by N.K. Jemisin

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Join Our Patreon Book Gang Today

Do you want to have the best reading year ever? 

Join the MomAdvice Book Gang for just $5 for an exclusive one-of-a-kind reading experience, and let me be your tour guide. I have selected 12 phenomenal books to read together that were picked just for you.  These are thought-provoking stories that deserve discussion, and many are hidden literary treasures. The official 2022 MomAdvice Book Club selection announcement will happen on December 1st. Your $5 membership will grant you access to the following exclusive features.

Monthly in-depth video interviews with each of our chosen authors. Learn the stories behind each of their stories and what they hope you will walk away from each of their books.

Exclusive Bookstore Coupon Discounts. Our Fables Bookstore partnership will give Patreon members 15% off ALL the book club selections for our year. This can be applied to both paperback and hardback selections. 

Exclusive MomAdvice Book Gang Podcast Episodes & Early Access Book Reviews. Your stack will be toppling over with my real-time reviews each month. These reviews are available in both audio and printable formats.  

Monthly Themed Playlists & Digital Downloads. Pair your favorite thriller with my spooky playlist. Brew some tea and listen to an instrumental mix with your favorite classic. Embrace short story songs with my favorite storytellers. The playlists are endless and digital downloads are available for your reading journals.

Sneak Peek Upcoming Content. You will know before anyone else what to expect in upcoming podcast episodes and what I’m researching for our next shows. Be bookishly curious with me and give your input for these MomAdvice Book Gang podcast shows.

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The 20 Best Family Movies to Stream Right Now

April 13th, 2022

Pop the popcorn, grab a board game, and watch the best family movies for your next memorable night together. We have you covered with family films to stream on Netflix, Prime, & Disney+.

The 20 Best Family Movies to Stream Right Now

From our marriage & parenting contributor, Mary Carver.

My family is not one of those quiet, calm ones (do those even exist?).

I wouldn’t even try to convince you that I always love spending time with them or that hunkering down with my crew is my happy place.

That’s not us.

But while we cannot agree on where to get takeout, whose turn it is to empty the dishwasher, what snide comments about politics are over the line, what board game is the best, or who gets to use the bathroom first in the morning, we can agree to occasionally watch the same thing on the same screen.

Miraculously, we can agree that family movie nights are our favorite nights.

And, more often than not, the same people who were just fighting over who gets to sit in the comfy spot of the couch or use the softest blanket, settle down in front of the TV and have a great time together.

Sometimes, we even share the popcorn bowl without a fuss.

Because family movie night has such a calming and bonding effect on my people (and me), I’m always on the lookout for feel good stuff to watch together. And I’m here to share what I’ve found!

If you’re looking for some great family night movies, I’ve got you covered.

I’m assuming you’ve heard of (and have possibly watched a few too many times) Encanto, Princess Bride, Star Wars and every other super popular kids movie.

These are movies you might not have heard of or perhaps forgot about, and they’ve all been vetted and voted for by my family. 

FYI, my family includes my husband who doesn’t really like “kid movies,” my 14-year-old who would watch Harry Potter and Marvel movies all day long given the choice and also thinks she’s too cool for “kid movies,” and my 8-year-old who [bless her heart] is game for pretty much any movie that brings us all to the same room at the same time.

Some of these picks won’t work if you only have little kids. But if you have older tweens and teens, especially if you have an age gap like we do, you’re definitely going to find your next movie here!

ANIMATED FILMS FOR FAMILY NIGHT

Family Movie Night Ideas From MomAdvice.com

Abominable (rent on Prime) – A grieving young teen discovers a yeti on the roof of her apartment building. She and two friends travel across China to return him to his home, while trying to avoid capture by a corrupt collector and zoologist. Sweet and fun enough that we’ve watched it more than once.

Family Movie Night Ideas From MomAdvice.com

Leap! (IMDbTV through Prime) – An orphan girl dreams of becoming a ballerina, so she escapes her orphanage and, after a case of mistaken identity, joins a ballet school in Paris. She befriends both a former dancer who becomes a mentor and a young inventor who becomes a friend. Takes place in late 1800s but feels modern. My youngest adores this movie!

Family Movie Night Ideas From MomAdvice.com

The Mitchells vs. the Machines (Netflix) – A dysfunctional family embarks on a cross-country road trip, only to find themselves in the middle of a robot war. Enormously creative animation and a realistic portrayal of a family that struggles to get along even though they love each other deeply.

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Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse (rent on Prime) – A black teen boy in Brooklyn becomes the Spider-Man in his universe, then has to work with other spider-powered individuals from other dimensions to save the whole multiverse. Great adventure with character development—and incredible animation!

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Vivo (Netflix) – A Cuban kinkajou and quirky tween work together to deliver a love letter and song to a famous singer. Fun adventure and sweet story with original music by Lin-Manuel Miranda.

LIVE ACTION MOVIES FOR FAMILY NIGHT

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Flora & Ulysses (Disney+) – A girl whose parents are separated and struggling finds a squirrel she believes to be a superhero. The family bands together to protect the super squirrel from an overzealous animal control agent. Cute, big-hearted movie I actually can’t wait to watch again.

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Lemonade Mouth (Disney+) – A group of high school misfits and mild rebels forms a band that inexplicably makes it big. Adorable with actual great music, and when those kids deal with family and friend issues but persevere for the music, I legit tear up. Every single time.

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The Sleepover (Netflix) – When two siblings discover their mom is a former thief in witness protection, who’s just been kidnapped, they team up with friends to rescue her. Wacky adventure and so much fun!

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Spin (Disney+) – A teenage girl struggles to balance the expectations of her multigenerational Indian-American family with her new passion of deejaying. Solid portrayal of figuring out the balance between honoring your family and following your dreams, and bonus points for the diversity of characters.

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Yes Day (Netflix) – Kids convince their uptight parents (though mostly the mom, sigh) to devote an entire day to saying “yes” to every idea they have. Of course the family bonds through the fun and the mess that ensue. Fun and, thankfully, didn’t convince my own kids we need to have a Yes Day at our house.

MIXED ANIMATION & LIVE ACTION MOVIES FOR FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT

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Mary Poppins Returns (Disney+) – Of course, Mary Poppins is a classic and for a reason! But this sequel (that mirrors the original nearly beat for beat in a lovely homage) is a blast too. Catchy music that’s bound to become new classics and, like with the Julie Andrews musical, some fun animation mixed in with the live action.

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Paddington (1 – Netflix; 2 – rent on Prime) – Is there a sweeter, accidentally wiser bear than Paddington? I think not. Both of these movies are a delight.

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Peter Rabbit (1 – rent on Prime; 2 – Netflix) – Nobody’s accusing Peter Rabbit of being sweet and wise, but he (and his animal friends and family) are quite funny. Both of these movies are a blast.

OLDER MOVIES THAT ARE STILL GREAT FUN

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Akeelah & the Bee (rent on Prime) – A tween with a rough home life and community competes in a spelling bee to avoid detention. To her surprise she wins! Her principal encourages her to compete in the regional spelling bee and to be coached by a former professor. This one was inspired by a true story and might be eye-opening for your kids about the challenges other kids face.

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Dora & the City of Lost Gold (Prime) – This one isn’t that old, but if you thought Dora was a thing of your past (and were glad), I urge you to give this movie a try anyway! It’s a funny, occasionally self-aware live-action adventure that isn’t grating like the original cartoon.

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Night at the Museum (Disney+) – A single dad struggles to connect with his son and hold down a job, takes a position as a night guard for a museum that comes alive after closing. Rumors say a fourth movie is coming out this year or next, so now’s the time to watch the first three!

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Parent Trap (Disney+) – I grew up on the original movie with Hayley Mills, but my family really enjoyed the Lindsay Lohan remake about identical twins who meet at summer camp and realize their parents divorced and then split them up as young girls. The hijinks are just as fun and the conclusion just as sweet in this newer version.

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Race to Witch Mountain (Disney+) – My kids and husband would ask if we’re even having a conversation about family movie nights if we don’t include a movie with Dwayne “the Rock” Johnson. So last but certainly not least is this adventure that unites two sibling aliens, an ex-con, and a scientist as they try to escape evil aliens and corrupt government officials to get the alien kids home to their own planet. It’s a ride, in the best way!

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