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Small-Budget Crushes 09.05.18

Wednesday, September 5th, 2018

crushes give me all the fall vibes!

perfect black dress perfect black dress

a bunch of cats in here a bunch of cats up in here

leaf ring dish plant lover ring dish

pumpkin spice welcome pumpkin spice welcome

bar back sweater bar back sweater (two colors)

wall calendar wall calendar

bow booties bow booties

oval mirror oval mirror

ruffled midi dress ruffled midi dress

bow back sweater bow back sweater

no prob llama no prob llama

slouchy tote bag slouchy tote bag

moto jeggings moto jeggings (loads of shades)

merry witches merry witches print

fall pillows fall pillows

long tee long tee

personal planner personal planner

circular skirt circular skirt (several hues)

wedge cover-up wedge cardigan (several hues)

newborn shorts newborn shorts

patterned cushion covers patterned cushion covers (several hues)

golden girls mug golden girls mug

crewneck sweatshirt crewneck sweatshirt (so many colors!!)

bengal print skirt bengal print skirt (SO affordable and versatile)

leaf pie roller tropical pie roller

buffalo check throw buffalo checked throw

tablet stand tablet stand

pajama set pajama set

firebird firebird print

Keep on window shopping by visiting all of my Small-Budget Crushes. This post contains affiliate links!! xoxoxo

 

Small-Budget Crushes 04.24.18

Tuesday, April 24th, 2018

small budget crushes

This week’s faves! xoxo

adopted a plant shirt adopt a plant shirt

Kerryn Footbed Sandals kerryn footbed sandals (use coupon code SHOES for 20% off!!)

ruffle sleeve top ruffle sleeve top (on sale AND additional 30% off with coupon code GOSHOP)

one line a day journal one line a day journal

embroidered top embroidered top (several shades)

princess and the pea print princess and the pea print

bonus mom candle #bonusmom candle (great Mother’s Day gift!)

brushed fleece wrap brushed fleece wrap

eat well, travel often tea towel eat well travel often tea towel

back-away back away slowly please

ruffled hem midi dress ruffled hem midi dress- several colors

dream bathroom print dream bathroom print

dance bracelet dance bracelet (LOVE!!)

leaf supply book leaf supply book (perfect to pair with a plant for your mama!)

off the shoulder stripes off the shoulder stripes (additional 40% off- no coupon code needed)

cassidy apron cassidy apron

relaxed chambray shirt relaxed chambray shirt (30% off- no coupon code needed)

for what it's worth for what it’s worth quote

twist front sweatshirt sweatshirt with a twist-two colors (on sale AND additional 30% off with coupon code GOSHOP)

linen cushion covers linen cushion covers

white tee perfect tee (under $10 and tons of colors)

woven slide sandals woven slide sandals (use coupon code SHOES for 20% off!!)

Keep on window shopping by visiting all of my Small-Budget Crushes. This post contains affiliate links that help our site! Thank you for supporting me! xoxo 

Amy’s Notebook 03.28.18

Wednesday, March 28th, 2018

Instant Pot Cheat Sheet source

Download this free Instant Pot Cheat Sheet for your kitchen.

Speaking of the Instant Pot, this dish is going a little bonkers on Pinterest (and it couldn’t be easier!).

This piece on class anxiety within a family was really compelling. That idea of, “too much happy,” troubles me too. Is there such a thing?

13 brand new books to read in April.

After spending a couple of days in the airport last week, I CAN’T STOP LAUGHING.

4 things we think we need today, but won’t matter in the long run. So much yes!

I’m curious about this reboot and like that they stayed true to character development. I’ll be tuning in!

Amazon skincare products with a cult following. I am going to have to give a few of these a spin!

This speech was heartbreakingly beautiful.

I also found this article quite compelling. This next generation inspires me in so many ways!

Hopping on the plant trend for your home? Here are 14 that are potentially harmful to your pets.

Speaking of books, I stayed up way to late last night with this one. It’s so good! (all my book reviews on Fri-yay!)

Wondering how Marie Kondo does it? Take a peek at her typical day. I’m loving the spreadsheet idea!

Sconces How to Add Light source

Sconces without any hardwiring? WHAT?! Genius.

I love these ideas for putting your clutter to work.

My cow game extracted your Facebook data.

Being authentic is so important to me. I love seeing this list of traits on how to spot an authentic person.

Here are 15 ways to save on a home renovation.

I’m crazy about this woman’s work and I absolutely loved this piece on her.

Untouchable days sound like a productivity game-changer.

It was a good mail day on Monday.

How do you organize your bookcase? I’m a colored spine girl these day and this made me laugh.

refill plugin with essential oils source

Switch out those plugins with this smart essential oil hack.

What happens when you stop wearing deodorant– so interesting!

What a delicious way to use up leftover rice.

This is on my spring break plans list….please scare the crap out of me, Netflix!

I’m trying to savor this book.

The top sale this month wasn’t even something I planned to promote (just a pic in my IG feed). I hope you love your small homes as much as me!

Like your chicken skin crispy? Who knew you had the tool to achieve it already in your house.

As I prep my spring capsule, I found this piece to be really helpful on the closet cleanout process.

I added this addition to my smoothie routine and I’m so surprised how much a tablespoon of this helps keep me full during the day. Here is my make-ahead slant on my smoothie game.

This week’s album share below! Even if you hate country, (*raises hand*) this artist is an absolute treat.

I hope you enjoyed our notebook, a collection of gathered links to DIY crafts, food projects, thrifty ways to spruce up your home, and thoughtful reads. Nothing brings me more joy than to highlight other fabulous bloggers. Follow me on Pinterest for daily inspiration! Please note, there are affiliate links that do help support our site- thank you! xoxo

Amy’s Notebook 01.10.17

Wednesday, January 10th, 2018

Roasted Cauliflower Soup source

Sign me up for a bowl of this roasted cauliflower soup– yum!

Looking to try something new with your friends? I LOVE these ideas (Pssttt- I’m in for a wine walk or day of reading quietly side-by-side ANY DAY!)

Speaking of reading, after hearing all your rave reviews, I can’t wait to dig into this one. Oh, and this one because BOOK CLUB!

If you need me, I’ll be listening to this list of the 50 best podcasts of 2017.

Less stuff, more adventure. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this.

What the men DIDN’T say at the Golden Globes.

I can’t wait to try this tip for better tasting chicken.

I’m all about self-love this year and this list of self-care resolutions really resonates with me. I hope it does with you too!

I’m inspired to try a few of these dishes from this vegetarian batch cooking post.

“We stuck a smartphone in every 14-year-old’s hand and told them it could make them famous. Little wonder that the kids who won that lottery don’t know when to turn the camera off. ” The social media star and the suicide.

Rock Bookends source

Love this easy DIY to glam up rocks into bookends.

Smuggling in toppings for your popcorn? Now this combo is genius!

10 wellness trends everyone will be talking about in 2018.

Here are also 7 books that will put in the right mindset for 2018.

This is also a great to-do list for making 2018 your most healthy year ever.

Maybe she’s born with it…maybe it’s something else.

This update made me so happy to read about.

Know anyone who is highly toxic? This list explains 50 devious ways you are getting played (and why they do it).

This is a fun spin on cakes that I can get behind.

Struggling? I have been thinking about this advice a lot this week.

Bible Study Planner source

Planning to read the Bible more? This free printable planner might help!

Wanting to consume more books this year? I love this article (especially those tips in the comments section). Here are a few of my own strategies.

Do you love Settlers of Catan too? This post should give you a good laugh!

Is decluttering your inbox on your resolutions list? This should help.

Just stocked up on some sweet deals at this unmentionables shop. If you haven’t tried their bralettes, you are in for a treat!

Want to stick to your resolutions? Consider phrasing it differently this year.

Say what? This grocery store is really upping their game.

I bought this printable and I’m having a blast tracking my reading goals now.

If you haven’t watched this show, what the heck are you waiting for? Also, check out this interview with the set artist (SWOON!)

I hope you enjoyed our notebook, a collection of gathered links to DIY crafts, food projects, thrifty ways to spruce up your home, and thoughtful reads. Nothing brings me more joy than to highlight other fabulous bloggers. Follow me on Pinterest for daily inspiration! Please note, there are affiliate links that do help support our site- thank you! xoxo

 

Small-Budget Crushes 08.15.17

Tuesday, August 15th, 2017

purl-knit sweater purl-knit sweater (several colors)

reversible tote

reversible tote (several color combos)

grey cross back sweater

grey cross back sweater

beaded tassel earrings

beaded tassel earrings (several colors)

barre now wine later shirt

barre now wine later shirt

Jersey Knit Swing Dress

jersey knit swing dress

comfy tan cardigan

comfy tan cardigan

 

patterned-canvas-clutch

patterned canvas clutch

puff tulip sleeve tee

tulip sleeve tee

english saddle skinny belt

crisscross detailed skinny belt

double-faced plaid shirt

double-faced plaid shirt

gemstone necklace

gemstone necklace

not getting ready today shirt

not getting ready today, me either matchy-matchy shirts

miranda bib necklace

miranda bib necklace

roll tab sleeve tunic

roll tab sleeve tunic (PERFECT fall wardrobe staple)

weaving loom kit

weaving loom kit

 

Keep on window shopping by visiting all of my Small-Budget Crushes. This post contains affiliate links that help our site! Thank you for supporting me! xoxo 

 

 

Amy’s Notebook 02.08.17

Wednesday, February 8th, 2017

Smashed Potatoes With Garlic Pesto

source: minimalist baker

These smashed potatoes with garlic pesto look like a perfect winter side dish.

Easy and affordable ways to add more hygge in your life. I’m trying to add more of this in my life!

I’ll have to remember to use my blow dryer on stickers next time!

6 helpful travel apps to take with you on your next trip!

I always love a good boat-neck tee and these look like winners for my next capsule.

A quick tip to get your stainless steel pots and pans looking like new again– must try this!

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source: she’s crafty

I love this organizing strategy for game controllers.

OMG! How cute is this?!? I loved this movie!

Speaking of movies, I am reading this book and it is CRAZY good. I can’t wait until the film comes out!

Check out this 100 postcards journey– impressive and moving!

Busy is a refusal to sit with yourself. I needed to read this today.

 

Burger Bites

source: skinny taste

I’m going to make these burger bites for our next board game night. Such a fun spin on finger food.

The sweaty girl embarrassment cure company sent me a coupon to share with you- here’s 20% off your purchase. It’s the best gift I gave myself this year!

14 fabulous shops for affordable art– bookmarking for our home!

Add these 17 things to your car and you will be set for any emergency!

Projector Screen

source: a beautiful mess

I love this idea to trade in the television for a projector. What a great use of space!

Ohhhh….this is sounding promising!

Here’s who will match your ACLU donations right now.

Do you work from home? I’m dying laughing over this emergency call for help.

I hope you enjoyed our notebook, a collection of gathered links to DIY crafts, food projects, thrifty ways to spruce up your home, and thoughtful reads. Nothing brings me more joy than to highlight other fabulous bloggers. Follow me on Pinterest for daily inspiration! Please note, there are affiliate links that do help support our site- thank you! xoxo

Lies and Lying: What to Do When Your Child Lies

Tuesday, January 17th, 2017

Lies and Lying: What to Do When Your Child Lies from MomAdvice.com

Editor’s Note- I’m so honored to have Kristina, from Thriving Parents, join our writing team this year. MomAdvice should offer…well…mom advice! I’m no expert, but I am proud to offer to you Kristina’s incredible wisdom on parenting. Today she shares some tips on what to do when your child lies. Can I say I’ve been doing it all wrong? So thankful to read her words today on our site! 

“It’s this way to the bathroom.”  A little girl led the other kids to the bathroom so they could all wash their hands before a snack.  As the only adult left in the room, I could hear the water running and the kids being cooperative about taking turns.  

Crash!

All of a sudden the kids started scrambling.  I heard muttering and whispers.  Then I heard this conversation:  

“Let’s go get our moms.”

“NO! We can’t!  They’ll be mad.”

“They won’t be mad.  They’ll show us how to clean it up.”

“NO!  I’ll get in big trouble!”

“For spilling something?  Accidents happen.”

“I’ll get punished and then won’t get to play.  I’ll clean it up.”

This is a true story of what happened once when we went to a playdate.  The little girl had knocked over a bottle of baby powder.  In an effort to be responsible and clean it up, she wet a towel and started to rub it on the baby powder spilled on the floor.  If you’ve never seen baby powder get wet, be thankful.  The baby powder turned into a white, pasty mess all over the floor and bathroom counter.

This was an accident.  This little girl was so afraid of getting in trouble for an accident, she lied to her mom about what had happened.

Lying is pretty common among kids.  There are a lot of reasons that kids lie.  I listed over 10 reasons on this post, Why do kids lie?  The most common thread among all those reasons is kids are afraid of getting into trouble.

It’s our natural reaction to get angry when our child lies.  We feel disrespected.  We feel like our kids are trying to be sneaky.  We do not want to raise dishonest children.  

What you may not know is lying is a developmental skill. Children usually start lying around 3 years old.   One study says when a child lies at a young age, it shows they have a higher intelligence.  It’s attributed to the Theory of Mind, where a child is able to differentiate that people have different opinions, beliefs, and desires.

So what should you do when your child lies?

Acknowledge your child but don’t acknowledge their lie (at this time).

I know this sounds foreign and a lot of you must be thinking if you don’t acknowledge the lie, it’ll encourage them to lie again.  There’s nothing further from the truth.  Let me explain.

Adults lie because of stress.  We lie when we’ve forgotten to rsvp to a birthday party, when we want to pay less for our child’s ticket to the movie theater, or when we are running late.

Children lie out of survival.  For them, it’s not about the lie.  It’s about not disappointing us.  Everyone has a need to be loved and accepted – especially children.  They feel a need to convince us they’re telling the truth so they don’t feel like we’ll take away our love and acceptance.  Now you and I know we would never take those away.  Children’s brains are still developing.  While they may say they know they have our unconditional love, their brain goes into a state of fight, flight, or freeze.  They need to know they can trust us and we’ll love them regardless of when they make a bad decision.

When you consistently acknowledge the child but not their lie, you won’t be reinforcing the lie with negative attention.

What does this look like?

You walk into the kitchen to find your 5-year-old with a cookie in her mouth.

“Are you eating a cookie before dinner?”

“No.”

Here’s where you’d normally want to say, “Open your mouth and let me see” or something similar because you just KNOW there’s a cookie in her mouth.  Instead, try saying, “I know you must be hungry.  Dinner will be ready soon.”

Later, tell her, “I know you didn’t want to admit you had a cookie in your mouth earlier.  I think you may have been afraid you’d get in trouble.  Next time I need you to be honest with me so I know I can trust you.”  If she continues to protest (“No, Mommy, I didn’t!”), let her know the moment has passed.  “It’s over now.  I just need you to be honest with me next time.”

We don’t need to harp on mistakes.  Kids will think about things after we’re done talking about them.  Adults do the same thing.  Your child doesn’t need judgment because she knows what she did wrong.  She doesn’t need to admit it out loud to know she was wrong.  Believe me – she knows.  Instead, she needs to know she has your love and support.

Lies and Lying: What to Do When Your Child Lies from MomAdvice.com

Here are some other ways you can handle lying:

Change your reaction

 

Do you make it easy for our child to be honest?  Adults can have a hard time hearing and not reacting negatively to the truth.  If your reaction is too harsh or critical, a child is going to feel less safe coming to you when they need help and have messed up.  This will lead to more lies so they can avoid your judgment.

Understand the emotion

 

There’s typically an emotion behind the lie.  Are they feeling frustrated, left out, or scared?  Find the root of the problem and you can work on strategies for handling the problem in the future.

Offer alternative solutions

 

I once watched as one of our children elbowed her sister and pushed her off of a chair.  Before I could pause, I said, “Why did you just push your sister?”  

“I didn’t,” she replied.  I had seen her do it so I knew she was lying.  I didn’t choose to walk away and discuss it later because this was a safety issue.

Instead, I handled it this way: “I think you wanted your sister off of the chair.  If that happens again, what could you do?”

There was no response.  She was embarrassed and I could see she froze in place.  I continued talking to her.

“Next time, you could either ask her to move, ask a parent for help, or move to another seat yourself.  Which one do you think you can do next time?”

Again, there was no response.

“I’ll let you think about those choices and we can talk about which one you’ll do next time later.  Remember, the choices are: you could either ask her to move, ask a parent for help, or move to another seat yourself.”

Then I walked away.  She knew what she had done was wrong.  She didn’t need me to repeatedly point it out to her.

Later that night at bedtime, I asked her the question again.  “Next time you want your sister to move from a chair, what could you do?  Ask her to move, ask a parent for help, or move to another seat?”

“Ask you for help.”

“Great!  I’ll always help you when you need it.  It’s really important we keep everyone safe in our family and that’s why we don’t push people.”

I gave her 3 choices because her brain was stuck in fight, flight, or freeze mode and she wasn’t capable of thinking of them on her own.  She was embarrassed she was caught red-handed.  By giving her 3 choices, she had the freedom to pick which one worked for her, or she could have added her own choice.  

Have your child repair a mistake

 

If your child broke something, have them repair it.  If they said unkind words to someone, have them make a list of kind things about that person.  If they threw books all over the floor, have them pick them up.   

Don’t be judgmental, critical, or negative

 

It can be difficult to hide our disappointment in our kids.  They can usually see it on our face before we even realize we’re doing it.  Not being judgmental, critical, or negative is important because you want your child to be able to come to you and be honest with you in the future – especially in the teenage years.

It’s going to take some time for your child to stop lying.  The first time you don’t react to their lie, they’re going to be surprised.  They’re going to test you to see if there will be a reaction the next time.  Keep with it!  Eventually, they’ll begin to be honest because they know they can come to you without fear of punishment.

The best thing we can do is to teach our child that everyone makes mistakes.  It’s important to own up to those mistakes and try to do better the next time.  

During these formative years, we want our kids to make as many mistakes as possible.  This way we’re available to help guide them on how to pick up the pieces and repair their mistakes, if they need it.  When they’re old enough to go out into the world, they’ll be better equipped to handle mistakes and uncomfortable situations.

Here are some books to read with your child about lying:

Liar, Liar

Half-Truths & Brazen Lies

Telling the Truth: A Book About Lying

Ruthie and the Not So Teeny Tiny Lie

The Berenstain Bears and the Truth

Help Me Be Good About Lying

Howard B. Wigglebottom and the Monkey On His Back

Lying Up a Storm


–Kristina 

Kristina Grum is a Certified Parent Educator who has over a decade of experience working with children, including being a classroom teacher. She took the (very) long route to loving motherhood. These days she strives for ways to connect with her kids, while using shortcuts to manage and organize her home. She is a postpartum mood disorder survivor who thrives on helping others find the joy in parenthood that is just lurking around the corner. She currently teaches positive discipline parenting classes in her local area and she believes that every parent can shift from barely surviving to thriving in Parenthood. Visit her on Thriving Parents today! 

Lies and Lying: What to Do When Your Child Lies from MomAdvice.com

Amy’s Notebook 10.05.16

Wednesday, October 5th, 2016

Quinoa Lasagna

source: fit foodie finds

This quinoa lasagna is going on my menu planner this week.

Why absolute minimalism will never feel like home– I loved this perspective.

I love that they tested internet viral kitchen hacks (with surprising results!)

A simple slow cooker marinara sauce for busy weeknights.

“Learn to embrace a paradox: Time is precious and plentiful. To have as much time as you need for the things you want, you need to be ruthless about not filling time with things you don’t care about.”- secrets of people with all the time in the world.

I can never turn down a great twist on caprese. Get in my belly!

Stuffed Baked Apples

source: camille styles

Stuffed baked apples look like a heavenly autumn treat.

Here are a few ways to turn chicken nuggets into dinner.

Have you heard of a FEED supper? It looks like a great way to share an experience & money for a good cause.

An adorably decorated Halloween porch.

Book Styling Ideas

source: apartment therapy

New ways to style your home with books– SWOON!!

Speaking of books, I am really enjoying this read and excited to dive into this one this week!

The minimum amount you should be tipping for food deliveries.

We need to start a family movie tradition.

These apple treats look like the perfect portion size for our family.

Fake a mantle– we are still enjoying our space heater version that I painted for our office.

This is such a great budget exercise. It makes me think about my own spending.

Halloween Plate Wall

source: tatertots & jello

These are such cute decorating ideas for Halloween!

Blanket scarf diy’ing must be happening right now- this is our top article this week!

I can’t wait to give this new podcast a listen.

Meal prep IG’ers on fleek!  Off to follow them all…

I’m going to work on simplifying my email responses.

You guys must be cozy, blanket capes were your top purchase this week!

I am SO EXCITED about this new Netflix series!

I hope you enjoyed our notebook, a collection of gathered links to DIY crafts, food projects, thrifty ways to spruce up your home, and thoughtful reads. Nothing brings me more joy than to highlight other fabulous bloggers. Follow me on Pinterest for daily inspiration! Please note, there are affiliate links that do help support our site- thank you! xoxo

 

Andromeda Romano Lax’s 3 Favorite Books

Monday, June 20th, 2016

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Author: Andromeda Romano-Lax. (Author of Behave, Searching for Steinbeck’s Sea of Cortez, & The Detour Read more about Andromeda in our interview HERE!)

Andromeda Romano Lax’s 3 Favorite Books

I have too many favorites so my best way to focus is by theme, and in this case, my theme will be “wives in the shadows” plus “mother blame,” two topics that are central to my novel, Behave.

The Wife by Meg Wolitzer

The Wife by Meg Wolitzer

In the first category, I absolutely love Meg Wolitzer’s The Wife, which is acerbic, funny, and all-too-real. I’ve read it multiple times, and even once the book’s twists are revealed, it’s no less enjoyable. (By the way, one of my favorite classic male writers is Philip Roth, but what he tends to ignore–the inner lives of women and especially wives–Wolitzer examines with a fabulous, Roth-like wit.)

American Wife by Curtis Sittenfeld

American Wife by Curtis Sittenfeld

 

Also in the category of shadow wives I recommend Curtis Sittenfeld’s American Wife. I loved how she handled a fictionalized version of the Barbara Bush story. Both historical truth and unfettered invention co-exist harmoniously in this empathetic novel.

We Need to Talk About Kevin by Lionel Shriver

We Need to Talk About Kevin by Lionel Shriver

In the category of “mother blame” I challenge anyone to read Lionel Shriver’s We Need To Talk About Kevin and not feel chills, horror, and that rarer thing–sympathy. This is a book that will stay frighteningly current as long as we have mass shootings, but even without the violent storyline it’s a great look at failed mother-child bonding, guilt, public shaming, and all those things that make being a mom heart-breakingly tough at times.  

This post contains affiliate links! To learn more about the authors featured, please visit our Sundays With Writers series!

March 2016 Must-Reads

Thursday, March 31st, 2016

March 2016 Must-Reads from MomAdvice.com

I am so excited to share eight books that I read this month with you.  It was a really incredible month of reading and we have even got to feature a couple of these authors in our Sundays With Writers series before revealing this month’s list. Sometimes I just can’t wait for a monthly round-up to connect you with a good book!

Regardless of your taste, I have something for everyone this month. Selections range from true crime to fantasy to historical fiction to contemporary to a memoir-type advice column.  I am hoping one of these books finds its way into your stack since I try to add a lot of variety to each month’s round-up!

As my daughter & I embark on a Spring Break trip together (just us two!!), I am sure I will have many more books to share with you while we are on our break.  Let me know if there is anything that you think I should read while we are on vacation. I’d love to hear your recommendations.

Let’s not waste any more time! Here are 8 new books that I indulged in this month! 

The Forgetting Time by Sharon Guskin

The Forgetting Time by Sharon Guskin

If you are a regular reader on the blog, you know I have talked, and talked, and talked about this book. What I want to say is that you should only read my brief description below and go into this one without knowing anything. It will make the book so much more enjoyable- I promise.

This book reads a bit like a mystery as you try to solve the puzzle of a child’s unusual first years of life. The story intertwines with a doctor nearing the end of his career due to a deadly diagnosis and he could be the only one who could make Noah and his mother’s life better. What Noah is suffering from is beyond what any parent could comprehend.

Gripping, thought provoking, and and an excellent pick for any book club!

After you are done reading it, you can read my interview with Sharon Guskin as we discuss her debut novel. It’s a REALLY interesting interview and it gave me a lot to think about! 

5 Out of 5 Stars

Be Frank With Me by Julia Claiborne Johnson

Be Frank With Me by Julia Claiborne Johnson

Good grief, Be Frank With Me, was just adorable from start to finish- I can’t recommend it enough!

Reclusive literary legend M. M. “Mimi” Banning has been holed up in her Bel Air mansion for years. But after falling prey to a Bernie Madoff-style ponzi scheme, she’s flat broke. Now Mimi must write a new book for the first time in decades, and to ensure the timely delivery of her manuscript, her New York publisher sends an assistant to monitor her progress. The prickly Mimi reluctantly complies—with a few stipulations: No Ivy-Leaguers or English majors. Must drive, cook, tidy. Computer whiz. Good with kids. Quiet, discreet, sane.

When Alice Whitley arrives at the Banning mansion, she’s put to work right away—as a full-time companion to Frank, the writer’s eccentric nine-year-old, a boy with the wit of Noel Coward, the wardrobe of a 1930s movie star, and very little in common with his fellow fourth-graders.

As she slowly gets to know Frank, Alice becomes consumed with finding out who Frank’s father is, how his gorgeous “piano teacher and itinerant male role model” Xander fits into the Banning family equation—and whether Mimi will ever finish that book.

Frank is one one of the sweetest characters that is so perfectly formed that you just want to give this sweet little boy a hug when you get done with this book. I found myself giggling through some of Frank’s antics and well up when he just couldn’t fit in with his peers. I can’t imagine the research that went into forming all of Frank’s numerous thoughts about actors, movies, and all the fun facts that he had gathered over the years that seemed to consume him. The supporting characters were just as fascinating especially Frank’s eccentric mother.

The only criticism with this one is the ending felt unresolved and wasn’t wrapped up very tidy- it just left me dangling. I am wondering if that is because the author plans a sequel. If so, I can’t wait to read it because I already miss Frank.

I am so excited that Julia will be joining us this week for our Sundays With Writers series. You won’t want to miss it- she’s absolutely charming! Be sure to check back on Sunday! 

5 Out of 5 Stars

Green Island by Shawna Yang Ryan

Green Island by Shawna Yang Ryan

This book was selected by my local book club and was, admittedly, a book that I probably would not have picked up on my own. I am so incredibly glad I read it though and I think you will be too.

I just love when a book educates you on a time in history that you have been completely unaware of. Ryan pulls off a magnificent literary feat by tackling six decades set in Taiwan over the course of the twentieth century. It is horrific what so many endured during this time and begins with the story of the unnamed narrator’s father being captured because he is suspected of Communist activities. He is kept for over a decade in brutal and inhumane conditions. It then follows his return home, the unkindness of others, the stress of feeling watched, and the other generations that continue to struggle through the decades with their own issues. It’s far too much to go into in a quick review, but you will learn a lot along the way!

Things I would note with this one. First, I wish I would have educated myself a bit before diving into it. I knew nothing about the Chinese nationalists or the history of Taiwan and the author offers no real introduction into the history of that, assuming the reader can follow along. After a browse through Wikipedia, I was able to understand better, but it was a confusing time in politics and reading that first would have helped me through the book.

Secondly, the book did lag for me in parts, but the good parts in this far outweigh the slow parts. Power through and I hope this time in history is as eye-opening for you as it was me. She is a masterful storyteller and I’m glad I read this!

I am also so very honored that Shawna will be joining us this next month for Sundays With Writers. While researching for this interview, I am astonished at the level of commitment she had to this book. I can’t wait to share that with you! 

Editor’s Note- This book does contain graphic violence that was inflicted on these prisoners. 

 4 Out of 5 Stars

Columbine by Dave Cullen

Columbine by Dave Cullen

I have been wanting to read this one since Laura, from Hollywood Housewife, shared her list of best true crime novels.

It is impossible to read this book and not learn something new about the devastating Columbine tragedy. Cullen dedicated a decade of his life compiling the real facts around this case and the lives impacted by this senseless tragedy. Working from what is happening currently and flashing back to the preparations for this crime, we are able to get a clearer understanding of motive in a very eye-opening way.

Cullen also opens our eyes to the fictionalized stories that were shared by the media and the true psychological problems that these shooters had, their motives behind the shooting, and those dealing with the aftermath of these tragedies as students, teachers, parents, and community members. After you read how the media botched the reporting up on so much of this, I guarantee it will make you feel differently about what is reported in the world.

The psychological research on these two killers and how so many of these victims reclaimed their lives again makes for a truly compelling read.

Editor’s Note- This book does contain graphic violence and language. 

5 Out of 5 Stars

The Perfect Son by Barbara Claypole White

The Perfect Son by Barbara Claypole White

I have loved reading the GoodReads Choice Award nominations this year. If you haven’t taken a peek at the list, I have gathered the nominees for you!

The Perfect Son is a beautiful story of a struggling father and son relationship and the mother that holds them together. When Ella has an unexpected heart attack, the result of a heart condition, and must be hospitalized the men in the family must come together to help her and themselves. As a strained relationship between a father and son becomes further strained Felix finds himself suddenly in charge of his son who has Tourette’s and needs more assistance than most teenage boys. Forced to reconcile their differences, they find comfort in unlikely friends and in each other.

It was such an honor to chat with Barbara about her book and about parenting a child with an invisible disability.  Even if you don’t grab her book (which you should), I gained so much wisdom from asking her about the letting go process as you see your kids off to college. It’s a really good read! 

I hope you love her book as much as I did!

4 Out of 5 Stars

Divergent by Veronica Roth

Divergent by Veronica Roth

I am one of those people that has a hard time committing to series books. Are you that way too? When I was asked to help promote the new movie though, I thought I better get familiar with the series.

In Beatrice Prior’s dystopian Chicago world, society is divided into five factions, each dedicated to the cultivation of a particular virtue—Candor (the honest), Abnegation (the selfless), Dauntless (the brave), Amity (the peaceful), and Erudite (the intelligent). On an appointed day of every year, all sixteen-year-olds must select the faction to which they will devote the rest of their lives. For Beatrice, the decision is between staying with her family and being who she really is—she can’t have both. So she makes a choice that surprises everyone, including herself.

During the highly competitive initiation that follows, Beatrice renames herself Tris and struggles alongside her fellow initiates to live out the choice they have made. Together they must undergo extreme physical tests of endurance and intense psychological simulations, some with devastating consequences.

I loved this book even more than I thought I would, although I know I am a bit behind on the times embracing this one. I had been avoiding it because so many had compared it to the Hunger Games series and I doubted much could live up to that. Although there were similarities, I loved the world that Roth created, the factions that divide society and limitations they create in relationships, and the love story. I’m really happy I read this one!

Should I keep continuing through this book series? Let me know!

4 Out of 5 Stars

Tiny Little Thing by Beatriz Williams

Tiny Little Thing by Beatriz Williams

Have you joined our book club yet? I hope you can join in on the fun this year!

This past month our book club selection was Tiny Little Thing. I was so excited to dive in since I enjoyed A Hundred Summers so much!

In the summer of 1966, Christina Hardcastle—“Tiny” to her illustrious family—stands on the brink of a breathtaking future. Of the three Schuyler sisters, she’s the one raised to marry a man destined for leadership, and with her elegance and impeccable style, she presents a perfect camera-ready image in the dawning age of television politics. Together she and her husband, Frank, make the ultimate power couple: intelligent, rich, and impossibly attractive. It seems nothing can stop Frank from rising to national office, and he’s got his sights set on a senate seat in November.

But as the season gets underway at the family estate on Cape Cod, three unwelcome visitors appear in Tiny’s perfect life: her volatile sister Pepper, an envelope containing incriminating photograph, and the intimidating figure of Frank’s cousin Vietnam-war hero Caspian, who knows more about Tiny’s rich inner life than anyone else. As she struggles to maintain the glossy façade on which the Hardcastle family’s ambitions are built, Tiny begins to suspect that Frank is hiding a reckless entanglement of his own…one that may unravel both her own ordered life and her husband’s promising career.

This was a fantastic historical fiction escape as the curtain is pulled back on a high society couple striving for power as a politician. You need not read William’s’ first books to follow along with this plot. I really appreciated the final plot twists in this one and the author ended it in a completely unexpected way. A wonderful escape with juicy secrets!

4 Out of 5 Stars

The Opposite of Everyone by Joshilyn Jackson

The Opposite of Everyone by Joshilyn Jackson

Joshilyn Jackson delivers another solid read with her latest novel, The Opposite of Everyone.  I was such a big fan of Someone Else’s Love Story that I was anxious to dive into this new one.  With this one though, I admit , it took awhile for me to connect with the characters in the beginning of this story.
I blame it a little on the set-up of her book.
Rather than alternating past and present in chapter format, Jackson weaves the two stories of past and present into one chapter smoothly without transition. At first, this can be confusing, but it is worth the confusion as she weaves her reader through plot twist after plot twist of a girl growing up in a group home due to her mother’s incarceration to her powerful role as a lawyer finding out that her mother has kept a big life-changing secret from her.Follow the story of a broken little girl who feels she made the one mistake that cost her a relationship with her mother into a grown woman seeking desperately to connect with family members she never knew, with many surprises along the way.

4 Out of 5 Stars

Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed

Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed

Once again, our book club pushes me to try another new book.  This month’s read was, Tiny Beautiful Things

I, honestly, would have never picked this book up if it had not been selected as a book club pick. Dear Sugar was an anonymous online advice column that Stray answered letters she received online under the name of Sugar. This book is a collection of some of her greatest answers to life’s questions.

The thing that made it so different is typically advice columnist do not interject their own stories and opinions into their advice, while Strayed wrote honestly about her own struggles in a way that was raw, gritty, and real. Shocking at times were her own struggles that spilled on the pages, but beauty & truth was weaved into these answers too. It would be impossible to not a get a nugget out of each answer, even if the situation didn’t relate to you. Her advice to her younger self, a letter written to graduates, and the struggles of when someone should start a family were three of the pieces that really stood out to me. Not for the faint of heart if vulgarity isn’t your thing. If you can handle it though, it’s worth the read!

I still have not picked up her book, Wildyet. What did you think of it? Please let me know if it is worth the read!

Editor’s Note: REALLY graphic and graphic descriptions of sexual abuse.

4 Out of 5 Stars

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Read With Me This Year:

My 2016 Book Stack

March 2016 Must-Reads from MomAdvice.com

 

 

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