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Thursday Thirteen: Thirteen Frugal Momma Bath Tips

Thursday, May 18th, 2006

Welcome to the Thursday Thirteen over at the good old MotherLoad. I thought it might be fun to come up with a few ideas for saving money at bath time in your house and also share a few frugal recipes that you can use to make bath time special for your little ones. Please remember to take this week’s poll & click our comments box at the bottom of the post to share about you & your family. I love to hear from you and there really is nothing more exciting (well, maybe a FEW things!) than seeing that people have left comments on my posts.

Thirteen Frugal Momma Bath Tips

1. Here is a recipe for homemade bathtub crayons. These can also double as a great stocking stuffer for Christmas or another fun item in your child’s Easter Basket.

Bathtub Crayons

1 Cup grated Ivory soap
¼ cup warm water
Food Coloring Plastic cookie cutters or hard candy molds

Directions: Mix water, soap and food coloring together in bowl. Remove the mixture from bowl and knead it until it’s the consistency of thick dough. Spoon mixture into plastic cookie cutters or candy molds. Place the cookie cutters or molds in the freezer for 10 minutes or longer. Pop the crayons out of the cookie cutters and allow them to dry overnight.

2. Don’t buy expensive bath toys. My favorite bath toys, as a child, were my mother’s Tupperware collection. The bath toys that she bought were not as much fun as pretending to cook or collecting water to dump.

3. When you wash your shower curtain liner you can just toss the bath toys in with the liner to be washed. This periodic washing will cut down on germs.

4. Use a child’s sand pail to put all of your bathing supplies in for your baby. When they get older, they can then use this as a toy. This will save you from running back and forth to get all of the items that you need for bath time.

5. Yet another recipe for fun in the tub…

Bubble Bath Finger Paints
2 cups flour
1 teaspoon salt,
Food coloring
Bubble bath (not the foamy type)
Water

Directions: Mix water with the flour until you get a paste. Add food coloring and bubble bath until you get the thickness you like. This works well in the bath tub. They can paint themselves or the walls and it washes right off. It may turn the water the color of the food coloring but it won’t stain the child.

6. If you use the foamy hand soaps, save your pump and reuse it for your child’s bodywash. Simply refill the pump with a third of your child’s favorite bodywash and then top it off with water. Give it a little shake and you have fun foamy soap for a fraction of the price!

7. Make your own hair detangler by combining one part conditioner with ten parts water. Mix well and pour into a spray bottle.

8. Reuse an old mesh laundry bag for all storing all of your bath toys. The mesh will allow all of the water to drain from the toys and the bag can easily be hung from the string or handles.

9. Use the bubble bath finger paints as a teaching tool for your children. You can write letters and numbers for smaller children, and as they get older, work on addition and subtraction. It can make learning time fun without the investment of those foam letters and numbers.

10. Skip buying a baby tub (unless you receive one as a gift) and use your sink instead. We love bathing our little one in the sink and it is easier on my back because I am not leaning down into a tub. When they get bigger (but are still not big enough for a regular tub), use a plastic laundry basket to bathe them in.

11. Don’t buy special baby towels- these are a waste of money. You can just use the towels that you already have on hand to wrap baby in. If you really like the hood on the baby bath towels, you can easily make your own. Look here for these simple instructions.

12. Make a frugal bathtime gift for a family member. When I was in college, I made these as a Mother’s Day gift for the moms in my life. I purchased inexpensive bottles at Walmart and tied a bow at the top of the bottle. This is a very simple craft that you could do with your children and makes a lovely gift for any occasion. One warning- GO EASY on the food coloring. Don’t ask me why I know this, but just trust me! Grandma won’t think this is such a great gift if she is a dark shade of blue…

Homemade Bath Salts

1-4 lb. bag Epsom salt (this can be purchased at any drugstore)
Food Coloring or Powdered Cake coloring (Powdered Cake coloring can be purchased at a cake decorating store or craft store)
Perfume or soap safe scents

Directions: Take a 4 lb. bag of Epsom salt and dump pour it into a bowl. Then add your food coloring to the salts and mix gently with a large spoon. You can add any essential oil or perfume that you would like to the mixture (or leave this out if your family member has sensitive skin). Pour the salts into a pretty bottle or a jar and tie a ribbon at the top. For foaming bath salts, add two tablespoons of glycerin to the mixture and toss this in gently.

13. Last but not least, save yourself some water and double the kids up in the bathtub or take a bath with your baby. This will save yourself some time so that you can do a little something for yourself, and you cut down on water usage at the same time!

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Works-For-Me Wednesday: Maximizing Space

Wednesday, May 17th, 2006


I am new to the Works-For-Me Wednesday idea, but I absolutely love it and thought it was a great way to showcase some of those hidden organizational ideas that I have in this small head of mine. Thank you to Shannon and her wonderful blog (Rocks In My Dryer- how cute is that?) for letting us participate. Be sure to visit her blog for great homemaking & parenting ideas.

Our house is a good size home, but it is one of those lovely quad homes (don’t ask me who came up with this stupid floor plan!) which means most of my space is very broken and choppy. Our lower level had an enormous closet in the living room that we originally used to store our various games and basically throw any clutter we had laying around the house into it. After some thoughtful brainstorming, I thought that it would be great to actually use the closet so that the kids had more playing room. We took down the closet doors, framed the closet with curtains, painted & floored the interior of our closet and moved the entertainment center into it. It gave us a lot more free space and took attention away from the monstrosity of an entertainment unit. Now the television is no longer the focal point and can easily disappear with a shut of the curtains.

This same idea can be applied into creating a little home office or a cute place to put your changing table and free some space up in your own home!

Festival of Frugality #23

Tuesday, May 16th, 2006

The Festival of Frugality (23rd Edition) is now posted and ready for your viewing pleasure.

My Saving on Groceries blog entry got in (just in time!) for this week’s festival.

This week’s was *seriously* packed with good information. Not that it isn’t every week, but this week it seemed like I got something out of every single entry. My favorites though were Trivial Untruth & Make It- Don’t Waste It.

Trivial Untruth really resonated with me because I could really understand where she was coming from. How many times have I thought it was the cashier’s fault if they don’t ring up my purchases and blame them for my own dishonesty? Her point about what that teaches our children really struck home and I am going to try and be more conscious of that in my daily life. I am a Christian so you would think that this would be a no-brainer, but unfortunately it isn’t. We know I have issues with The Man because I can’t stand for The Man to take my money, but not when it is compromising my honesty & how I appear to my children. I am not going to beat myself up over it, but I am going to be more aware of it!

Make It- Don’t Waste It….well, what’s not to love? Finding new ways to reuse things in our homes is always a great thing with me. I have plenty of stuff to work with over here! I particularly loved her idea of saving the cookie crumbs for ice cream & pudding toppings.

Thanks to Boston Gal’s Open Wallet for hosting another amazing festival. I hope you guys can check out the entries.

Don’t forget to take our poll today too (if you haven’t already). I am inquiring on who has helped influence you the most in your management of money.

Latest Frugal Momma News

Monday, May 15th, 2006

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How to Sell Gymboree on Ebay- The Truth
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Monday WAHM Spotlight

Monday, May 15th, 2006

Please be sure to take this week’s poll & read the results from our grocery budget poll.

We would like to congratulate Kassandra Bragg on being chosen as our Monday WAHM for MomAdvice.com. We wish her much success in her business and with her family.If you are interested in being featured, we will be selecting a mom for each Monday of my blog. You can read more and apply. Email confirmations are sent to each mom if they are chosen.

Please remember to do your own research on these companies. If there are obvious red flags on BBB, I do not post them. Check my scam article to find out more about the potential dangers of work-at-home businesses.

Thanks again to Kassandra for being a part of our WAHM Spotlight!

Name: Kassandra Bragg

City/State: Carrollton, TX

Name of Company: Symmetry International

Website Name: http://www.weeklypay123.com

Two or Three Sentences About Your Company:

We are a new division of a 10 year old corporation based in Austin Texas. Presently we are operating in 18 countries, both profitably and debt free and expanding every year. Our executive staff has over 100 years of combined experience both in the field as well as the corporate setting. Most of my team members are in profit within their first 72 hours with my training & coaching.

Two Tips for Moms Trying to Work-At-Home (these tips can be how you stay organized, how to be successful, how to get started- anything that you feel would help someone just starting out):

1. Have a set schedule! Clock in and out just as you would if you were working in a career outside the home. You are a professional! Do your hair and make up, put on some heels and nylons, just as you would outside the home. Doing this will DRAMATICALLY increase your results immediately!

2. Get professionally trained. Set specific goals! Thisis by design, not by default. Be specific, pray daily, tithe, and keep your priorities in order. God first, spouse, children, health, and work. When you take care of these things, GOD will take care of you!

Sunday Poll: Who Taught You To Save?

Sunday, May 14th, 2006

Who has taught you the most about saving money?
Mother
Father
Husband
Children
Myself
Another family member
A Book (please specify in the comments section)
A Website (please specify in the comments section)
Other (please specify in the comments section)
  
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Saving On Groceries

Sunday, May 14th, 2006

I just want to thank everyone for taking our grocery budget poll this week. It was really neat to compare what we were all spending each week on groceries. It seems that the majority of folks have been spending $51-100 each week on their groceries. The poll results can be viewed here

Our family currently spends around fifty bucks each week on groceries. There is myself, my husband, son (who is three) and our daughter (who is about five months). We have been eating on fifty bucks a week for the past three years or so and I just assumed that everyone around me spent about the same amount of money. When I would talk grocery budgets with my girlfriends though, I found that the majority of my friends were spending $400 or more a week. This just blew my mind! I am frugal to the core though and knew that the best way to keep my rear end home was to cut back where I could. Budgeting, for me, started with our grocery allowance.

I will share a few of my secrets on how we save money. For those of you who are as frugal as me, you will just be shaking your head and saying you already know all of this stuff. But not so fast, folks! Maybe there is something in my little tip list that you can get something from. Here are just a few of my tips for reducing your grocery budget and helping you make your wallet just a little bit fatter.

1.Meal planning is key to staying on track. You cannot possibly stay within budget unless you go in with a game plan and follow through with it. Can’t think of a meal to eat? Well look here, and here, and here, and here and then tell me if you see a few things that might help you with your menu planning.

2. Along with menu planning, we stretch our bucks to the max by incorporating a few budget-friendly meals into the mix. One night a week we have a breakfast for dinner night. Waffles, pancakes, French toast, oh my! There are so many great breakfast choices to choose from and most of them are extremely budget friendly. Having one night a week dedicated to breakfast can help cut back the grocery bill. Other budget-friendly fares are pizzas (homemade), pasta, hot soups & sandwiches, and many vegetarian meals.

3. If the recipe calls for a pound of meat, try and make it half a pound and see if you can tell a difference. By stretching your meat, you can now make two meals out of one pound of meat versus just one meal for the family. There is also a great tool that I use on Cheap Cooking for figuring the cost per serving on meat. This can also help you when trying to stretch the meat portion of your budget.

4. I only take cash & a calculator with me to the supermarket. Carrying around cash helps to keep me on a budget. When you have your debit card, there just seems to be an endless budget and if you go a teensy bit over…well, so what? You have the money, right? Well, if you are carrying cash and no plastic you absolutely have to stay within your budget constraints. This forces you to not go over and can help you look at your grocery cart in a whole new light. Suddenly those Twinkies aren’t really necessary, if it means you have a little extra money to put towards things you really need.

5. Avoid paper products and it will free up even more of your grocery money. The only paper products I do buy are toilet paper (can’t skimp on that one, in my opinion!) and paper napkins. The paper napkins are used for lunches & for breakfast. I do try and do cloth napkins in the evenings for dinner though just because it helps to stretch the packages of napkins that I do buy. Could I just do all cloth napkins? Sure, but I can’t keep up with laundry as it is so I choose not to be a martyr and just enjoy the paper once in awhile. Paper towels have been replaced with microfiber cloths (which can be purchased inexpensively in the automotive section of Sam’s, Walmart, or Target), old newspaper is used to wipe down my windows, paper plates have been replaced with cheap plastic plates purchased from Walmart, and paper cups were replaced with inexpensive plastic glasses (also purchased at Walmart). In just one area alone, I shaved off ten bucks or so off of my grocery money.

6. Make your own cleaners or purchase them inexpensively at the Dollar Tree. I love Method cleaners, which are sold at Target, but find the price tag a bit too steep. I noticed now that our local dollar store is carrying an off-brand of these cleaners at just a buck a pop. I purchase all of my cleaners there and save tons of money by not buying the name brand varieties at the supermarket.

7. If you have a breadmaker- use it! This is one of those great little inventions that can be every mom’s best friend. You can use this to make delicious breads & pizza dough for a fraction of the price of the bakery section of your grocery store.

8. Don’t waste your precious grocery money on lunch meat. I purchase a turkey (once every two weeks) and roast one of these for our lunch meat. All I do is put the turkey in a roasting pan, sprinkle a little seasoning on it (salt, pepper, & poultry seasoning), dump a can of chicken broth in the bottom of the roasting pan, and cook as directed. We eat half of the meat one week, and the other half goes into the freezer for the following week. Just double bag the meat and put half of a can of chicken broth in with the meat (to keep it moist) and pop it in the freezer. Once you have a turkey sandwich like this, all of that processed lunch meat won’t taste as good and you will never go back. Trust me! I have got all of my girlfriends roasting turkeys now!

9. Learn to make things that you normally buy. Go on AllRecipes and look up your favorite foods and make them at home. Things that I used to buy (lunch meat, granola bars, waffles, etc..) are now made at home for a fraction of the cost.

10. Hit the wholesale clubs, but be wary…just because it is bigger doesn’t make it a better price. Make sure to read my article for the best deals on everything in these shops.

11. Learn how to make a price book and carry it with you. We offer a free sheet that you can print out and keep in your purse to keep the prices of items right at your fingertips. Knowledge is power when grocery shopping.

12. Shop at Aldi or Save a Lot for the best deals in grocery shopping. I shop at Aldi for almost everything! Even shopping for your everyday basics there will shave a considerable amount off of your grocery budget.

13. Walmart price matches on groceries. Bring fliers with you and ask them to match the prices. They will even match Aldi prices with their Walmart Great Value brand products. You can get some great deals by picking the loss leaders and shopping at just one store.

14. Go where they take double coupons or find out if stores offer double coupon days. Some stores offer special discounts on certain days where you can get double or triple on coupons.
15. Understand how to use your coupons and how you can combine them. For example, if you have a Target Coupon on Crest toothpaste, you can use that store coupon AND a Crest toothpaste coupon that you got in your paper. Another way you can use coupons is by putting them towards trial size items. For example, you have a coupon for $1.00 off of Ivory soap. Use your $1.00 Ivory coupon on a $0.80 bar of soap and put that $0.20 towards the rest of your groceries. Know where to print your coupons on the computer and use these too.

Thank you all for taking my poll and feel free to leave comments on ways you save your family money. I have realized that just when I *think* I know everything, I find that I have so much more to learn.

Happy Mother’s Day

Saturday, May 13th, 2006

Pictured here are my two precious babies! I am so proud of them and of myself for being able to capture the two of them together.

I wanted to share with you all my Mother’s Day story. I wrote this shortly after having our son and hope that you can enjoy this as much as I enjoyed writing it! I wish all of you a wonderful & joyful Mother’s Day!

Blessings,
Amy

Happy Mother’s Day
By Amy Allen Clark

Isn’t it great that one day out of the year our role as mothers is being celebrated? I look around at all of the advertisements and displays offering special Mother’s Day cards, books, and of course the traditional heart locket and shake my head. It is amazing how a day to celebrate our motherhood has now been turned into a commercial venture instead of a true celebration.

So instead of sending all of my dear friends a card in the mail on this one special day, I salute mothers around the world for all that you do each and every day.

I salute those of you who are bone-tired from being up every night with a sleepless baby and yet still manage to have a smile on your face because you are filled with pride for your new child. I salute the mother who is bone-tired because she stayed up all night not with her child, but instead stayed up trying to get her chores done around the house because she was too busy playing with her child to notice. And I am honored to share the company with the mother who has been up all night with her child who is not wearing a smile on her face and wants to share her night of hell with me over a cup of coffee.

I recognize the mothers who go to work each and every day to help provide for their family as their hearts quietly break when they think of the time they cannot spend with their child. I salute the mother who gave up her career just to know that they will be the ultimate giver of care twenty-four hours a day while their heart silently breaks with longing for the career that they wish they had. And I salute the woman who is happy with her role and doesn’t look back, but straight ahead at the face of their child.

I stand amazed at the mothers with seemingly superhuman powers, conquering their bills, the family laundry, and dinner, all while balancing their beautiful babies on their hip. I bow to the woman who opens her home and heart to her family and friends even when the bill aren’t done, the family laundry is laying in a mountain on their floor, and they have chosen to eat take-out all while balancing their beautiful babies on their hip. And I acknowledge with grace the woman who decides she just can’t do it all and hires someone to help her so that she can get all of these things done while balancing beautiful babies on her hip.

I feel my heart swelling with pride when I see a woman walking in a store with six children in tow, never understanding how they have done it financially or emotionally. My heart fills with joy at the site of a mother with just one child holding hands with complete looks of contentment on each of their faces. And I rejoice when women achieve their much deserved pregnancies after going through numerous miscarriages and complications.

As I shout all of your praises, I look back upon my life before the birth of my child and realize how little I knew. You see, when I became a mother, I understood that I would have to make sacrifices for my child. I knew that I would love them unconditionally and that I would do anything for them…and yet I did not know. I remember as my mother touched my pregnant belly she had said, “You will finally understand how much I loved you,” and I had nodded my head…I did not know. I nodded my head, but I could not feel yet the power of motherhood.

I feel the power now as I am holding my son in my arms filled with a love that only a mother knows. And I know that someday when my son has his own child I will look to him and say, “Now you will know how much I loved you,” and see him nod too, but never really understand until he becomes a parent.

So in honor of each and every mother I praise you- not through a card or through gifts, but through this little crayon drawing that I am sketching for you that simply says, “I love you, mom!”

I raise my glass to mothers everywhere in honor of your motherhood, not on just this commercialized day, but every single day- cheers to us!

****This writing may not be used without the author’s permission****

Saturday Sales & Chewy Granola Bars

Saturday, May 13th, 2006

Be sure to visit last week’s sales and it is the final day to take our Sunday Poll.

FoodSaver is having a spring sale that can’t be beat! Their Foodsaver Vac 1075 has been marked down from a whopping $129.99 to $69.99. That saves you 60 bucks!

1-800 Contacts has a sale going on how where they are offering $40-80 rebates on all of their top brands of contacts. $50 or over spent will land you free shipping too!

Entertainment Book free! If you reserve yourself a copy of the 2007 book, you can get the 2006 book for free. There are lots of great coupons for all of your dining, shopping, and travel needs. These make a wonderful gift too.

Saturday Snack: I make these every couple of weeks or so. It is a very versatile recipe because you can substitute the chocolate chips for anything you like (dried fruits, peanut butter chips, nuts, etc..). Recently I substituted one cup of the oatmeal for one cup of Rice Krispies and that made the perfect combination for our family. If you like a healthier granola bar, then stick with just the oats. If you are in a pinch, you can substitute the honey with lite corn syrup (equal amounts).

Chewy Granola Bars

4.50 cups oats
1 cup all-purpose flour
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp vanilla extract
1/3 cup packed brown sugar
2 cups chocolate chips
1/2 cup butter, melted
2/3 cup honey
¼ cup peanut butter (creamy)

Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Lightly grease on 9×13” pan. In a large mixing bowl, mix together all of the ingredients (minus the chocolate chips). Stir in chocolate chips. Press into pan & bake for 18-22 minutes. Let cool for ten minutes, and then cut into bars.

More Baby Freebies

Friday, May 12th, 2006

Friday Freebies!!

This is our second installment of baby goodies. Please be sure to visit the first round of freebies and take this week’s poll on your grocery budget. The results will be discussed at the end of the week!

Pull Ups Success Guide
Fill out the form for a free Pull Ups Success Guide (allow 6-8 weeks for delivery)

Bright Beginnings baby Formula
When you become a member of the Bright Beginnings Customer Club, we will send you valuable Coupon Paks good for savings on our already sensibly-priced formulas and nutritionals.

Charmin Potty Training Kit
The potty training kit includes a storybook, poster, stickers, roll ruler, photo magnet, & potty training diploma. This is a really neat freebie and I highly recommend this if you are potty training. Even if you are not potty training, the stickers are great to keep little hands busy during church service!

Nursery Water
Click Magnet Offer & Coupon Offer to receive this freebie

Preemie Magazine
Free one year subscription to parent’s of preemies