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Wednesday, November 4th, 2009





“Even if something is left undone, everyone must take time to sit still and watch the leaves turn.”
– Elizabeth Lawrence

In the Book Basket: October ’09 Reading

Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009


I can’t say that my challenge to eat breakfast each morning has been going very good, but I have definitely made reading time a priority this month. I hope that you also are squeezing in some great time to read especially with the holiday festivities quickly approaching. Your me time is more important than ever!

At the beginning of each month, I will share with you some of the great reads that I have been working on. If you want to add me to your Goodreads friend list, you can find me listed under “momadvice.”

My dear friend and fellow bookworm, Beth, also keeps a great book blog called, “Beth’s Book-Nook Blog,” where she shares some really fantastic reviews and ideas for great reading! Be sure to check her out!

This month I dove into these great reads that I would love to share with you!

Shanghai Girls by Lisa See

This is the first novel I have read by Lisa See so I can’t offer any comparison on this versus her other novels. What I can tell you is that this book takes you on a journey that is beautifully told of the time in China and in the US during the Japanese invasion of Shanghai.

Pearl & May are sisters who deal with many of the insecurities and rivalry that most sisters endure. Pearl is studious and responsible while May is beautiful and has the ability to get her way in any type of situation. Both girls are living a life of privilege and are unaware of the poor and less fortunate. The girls enjoy the good life and are able to afford their lifestyle thanks to modeling for advertisements that help afford them what their family needs.

This all takes a turn when they discover that their father is in deep debt. In order to pay off his debts, he arranges for a marriage and marries off the girls to a set of brothers residing in the United States. They are expected to make the journey to the US and fulfill their father’s debts.

Getting to the United States proves to be more challenging than either sister bargained for as the invasion of Shanghai happens at the same time they are to be heading on the boat.

To say that this journey to the United States is epic, would be a small understatement. The girls endure incredible tragedy, untold brutality, and a journey that they never dreamed they would ever endure.

The story, above all else, is about sisters. Sisters that love each other in spite of it all…and sisters that would do anything for one another.

The ending could have been brought together better, but that was the only thing missing for me. I felt as though I had been on the journey with these sisters and the ending left me wondering if a sequel could follow.


Her Fearful Symmetry by Audrey Niffenegger

Anyone else a huge fan of The Time Traveler’s Wife? This was one of my favorite books of all time. It was so good, in fact, that my husband found me sobbing in a corner with snot dripping down my face because I was so moved to tears. Perhaps that is why I really, really wanted to love this next book by this author.

This story is about two sets of twins- Elspeth & Edie and Edie’s daughters Julie & Valentina. Elspeth passes away and bequeaths all of her estate and belongings to her nieces, Julie & Valentina. There is only one way to cash in on their inheritance though and it is to live in her old apartment for one year and their family is not allowed to enter.

The girls head to London to live in the flat and find that Elspeth is still residing there…in ghostly form. She is unable to pass into the next life and her soul is trapped in the house.

The girls get to know their neighbors like Robert, who is Elspeth’s former lover, and Martin, a man left by his wife because of his debilitating OCD. The story follows them as the girls explore London and Elspeth’s home.

Valentina begins to want to separate herself from her twin and become an individual while her sister craves the sameness that they have always had. In order to become independent, Valentina makes a decision that leads to consequences the reader will never expect.

While I enjoyed the book, it was nothing like what I had expected. I had a little difficulty following all of the different stories and characters that were woven into this story and I found the ending to have a great twist, but not one I could relate to or as believable as I would hope.

Regardless, it was a great read with a great deal of creativity and the history of London weaved in. This is definitely for someone looking for a dark read with a lot of great historical information about London.

Dismantled by Jennifer McMahon

I devoured this book in one day and could not put it down. I have never read this author before, but if this is any indication of her work, then I am completely hooked.

The book is about a group of four art students who form a group called the Compassionate Dismantlers. Their fearless leader, Suze, encourages them to commit petty crimes and vandalize with their motto being, “To understand the nature of a thing, it must be taken apart.”

The book flash forwards to ten years later and Henry & Tess, two people that were in the group, are now married and have a child together. They have been living with a secret for ten years of a prank that has gone horribly wrong and both seem haunted by the crime. It is pulling them away from their m
arriage and neither can seem to get over what has happened.

Their daughter is anti-social and has created an imaginary friend who is helping her to bring her parents together. She finds an old journal and pictures and sends a postcard to all of the former members of her parent’s group with their motto on it.

The postcard triggers a suicide and a chain of twists and turns that are as horrifying and thrilling as any good horror movie.

The book kept me up at night until the shocking conclusion that will lead you on a crazy roller coaster.

Just as a disclosure, this book had rough language in it!

The Help by Kathryn Stockett

I can’t say enough about how much of a literary treasure this book is! It is rare that a book sticks with me and that I think about it long after I have put it down, but The Help is one of those books that does just that.

The book tells the story of the post-Civil Rights movement through the eyes of three different women. It is told through the eyes of Aibileen & Minny, two African American maids, and Skeeter, a young white woman.

Aibileen is a gentle soul that is intent on offering the best care that she can give to the white children that she cares for. She feels it is her duty to make them feel as special and loved because she knows many of the mothers do not give their children the love they need. Her tender spirit and soft motherly ways instantly makes you feel like she is an old friend.

Minny is a spunky character who has trouble acting as a maid because she doesn’t really like to be bossed around. She has so much spunk and humor that you can’t wait to see what kind of trouble she will get into and how endearing she truly is as you get acquainted with her own difficult home life.

Skeeter is a young woman who desperately wants to become a writer. She gets the idea to write an anonymous book with anonymous maids who could share their story and struggles as an African American woman acting as a maid and (often) being treated unfairly by their white bosses.

When these three characters come together it is pure magic!

After reading it, there were two things that I couldn’t believe:

1) The author was a white woman. To document the African American struggles of the post- Civil Rights movement was so authentically documented and the voice so “true” that I found it surprising and a tribute to a skilled author to capture that voice. It never felt false and the prose was simply beautiful to read.

2) That this was Kathryn Stockett’s first book. The skill of the writing in three different voices and the way she captured that era was something that you don’t normally see out of a first time novelist.

What can I say about this book? It is one that made me laugh out loud, it made me cry tears for the struggles and unkindness that so many had to endure, and I became so attached to the characters that it will be hard to let them go. I wish that the story would go on and that a sequel could tell what happened to these three women as they began the new adventures that each of these women will go on.

If you read anything this year, let it be this book!

What was in your book basket this past month? Any book recommendations you would like to share?

Apron Full of Giveaways: 11.03.09

Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009
Photo Credit: The Nancy Mom Collection , $40


Thanks so much for swinging by for our Apron Full of Giveaways! Did you notice how brilliantly designed today’s apron is? Why has no one thought to sew in a dishtowel so you can keep your apron looking pretty. Genius, I tell you! I love featuring smart Etsy sellers here!

It is going to be a great couple of months ahead with fantastic giveaways for our readers. We are trying to give back to you as much as we can with these giveaways because we are so thankful for your readership.

The giveaway extravaganza continues with a fantastic new Swinxs Game Console valued at $150. It is seriously one of the best gifts that you could give your children for the holidays and I don’t want you to miss it!

We also are giving away a beautiful plush Madline talking doll from Toys ‘R Us. What little girl would not want one of those for Christmas? Merci, Toys ‘R Us! Hurry on over and get your entry in for this fantastic giveaway!

Today we have two amazing giveaways that are ending. We are giving away a HP Photosmart Premium with TouchSmart Web to one lucky reader. This printer is valued at $399.99 and has so many cool features that it is almost impossible to list. How about knowing that you could ditch the fax machine, the scanner, the copier, and an energy inefficient printer like I have. Hurry over because this giveaway ends tonight!

We also have an amazing Castle Knights Board Game that will thrill any little boy or girl. It is a wooden game that is just the perfect gift to give under your Christmas tree for your little ones. This game retails for $35 and would be a fantastic addition to your board game collection. This giveaway also ends at 8PM tonight. Entries are low on this one, upping your chances of winning. Score!

Below are the contest links to our contests and to yours! If you are hosting a contest please link it up below. Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them! Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).”

Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!

Spunky Spinach Dip

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

I am an appetizer kind of girl. When we go out to eat, I would be satisfied with three or four different kinds of appetizers so I could dip and gorge myself to my heart’s delight. My top favorites? Fried mushrooms, spinach dip, chips & salsa, cheesy dip with french fries, and mozzarella sticks.

This recipe combines two of my favorites into one combination- my salsa dip and my spinach dip. The cream cheese adds a creamy consistency to the dip and the cheese adds the cheesiness that I can’t resist.

The recipe originally stated to just microwave it until it is hot, but I prefer my dip baked in the oven so I am including the directions for that too. I doubled this recipe for a party and doubled the cooking time (40-45 minutes) and it still was absolute perfection. I do love reheating it though for a great little afternoon snack in the microwave with a stack of tortilla chips.

Serve this with your favorite dipper. I love a sturdy bagel chip, tortilla chips, or even fresh cut veggies. Keep the dish light with fat-free cream cheese and low-fat cheeses and you still get the dipping extravaganza without the guilt!

Spunky Spinach Dip (courtesy of Gooseberry Patch Cookbook)

2 cups salsa (approximately one standard size jar)
2 cups Monterey Jack cheese
8 oz low-fat or fat-free cream cheese, softened and cubed
10 oz frozen chopped spinach (thawed and drained)

Mix ingredients together in a mixing bowl. Stir well. Place in a microwave-safe bowl and heat until cooked through. If baking, cook at 350 for 20-25 minutes (double your cooking time for a double batch) in an oven-safe bowl (covered). Serve with your favorite dipper!

MomAdvice Monthly Recap: October ’09

Monday, November 2nd, 2009


I just want to say a special thank you to each of you for visiting my website and sharing it with your friends, family, and your own readers. We had another great month and it is all thanks to you. I hope to continue offering support through our site, lots of giveaways for our readers, and a place where you feel valued and cared for. If there is anything you would like to see on here, please contact me (amy@momadvice.com) and let me know what you would like to see in the upcoming year.

Don’t forget, you can subscribe to my feeds and never miss another thing on our site again! We have a landing page where it makes it easy to subscribe to our blogs and you can even subscribe to my article feed.

This month’s top referrers were:

1. Freebies 4 Mom
2. I’m An Organizing Junkie
3. Craftzine- Creamy Pumpkin Pasta
4. Facebook
5. Swagbucks
6. Tip Nut
7. Craftzine- Pumpkin Cranberry Cornbread
8. Organizing Your Way
9. Wisebread
10. Deal Seeking Mom

Please take some time this month to check out each of their sites. They are amazing at what they do and we are thankful that we have such great supporters!

This month’s top articles & entries were:

1. Creamy Pumpkin Pasta
2. 30 Day Challenge: Reducing Clutter in Your Home
3. Fun & Frugal Adult Halloween Costume Idea
4. Pumpkin Cranberry Cornbread
5. Foolproof Bread Machine Recipe: Portuguese White Bread
6. Fluffy & Light Pumpkin Pancakes
7. Classic Slow Cooker Entertaining: Pot Roast Italiano
8. Deliciously Spiced Pumpkin Waffles
9. With Great Sadness
10. Protein Packed Strawberry & Banana Smoothies

Happy Halloween!

Saturday, October 31st, 2009

Happy Halloween from our family to yours! May it be fun, safe, and not too spooky!

Freebie Friday: October 30, 2009

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Happy Freebie Friday from Freebies 4 Mom and MomAdvice! We are so happy you stopped by and hope you will swing by Heather’s site for fantastic freebies and deals all week

We have big plans this month to offer oodles of great giveaways and we are kicking it off with an HP Photosmart Printer With TouchScreen and a Castle Knights board game that you won’t want to miss.Of course, if you don’t win the HP Photosmart Printer here, you can enter for another chance to win over at Heather’s giveaway! Don’t forget to visit all of the fantastic giveaways this week!

While you are here you can enjoy a recipe for pumpkin cranberry cornbread that would be perfect with a big bowl of chili, learn ways that you (YES, YOU!) can help a friend or family member that is unemployed, and get inspired with great thrifty projects.

You can also get great tips and recipes for your fall tailgating at Kenmore and visit my posts at Scott’s Common Sense where I am completing a guest blogging spot for the next three months!

Happy Halloween, everyone!!

Health & Beauty
Oil of Olay Body Wash
Pampers Extra Protection Diaper (Walmart)
Amino Vital
Head & Shoulders

Food
Oregon Chai Latte
Sharis Restaurant free slice of pie (with printable coupon)

Entertainment
Cozi members log-in to get free photo book (for members as of Oct. 6)
MyCokeRewards 3 points for watching TV show preview
Home & Garden
Victoria’s Secret Pink Panty (log-in and print coupon)
aerie October Freebie (any Thursday)
QuickBooks Simple Start 2010

Upcoming Freebie Events:

Please call your local store or restaurant to confirm they are participating in these freebie events.

OCTOBER
30-31 – Bass Pro Shops Free Family Events
31 – Taco Bell Free Black Jack Taco 6pm-midnight
31 – Michaels Halloween Event 10-2
31 – Toys ‘R Us “Trick ‘R Treat” 12-3
31 – Lakeshore Learning Kid Crafts make a Batty Buddy 11-3
31 – Sears free Mattel toy to trick-or-treaters (select stores)
31 – Mardel free lamination day (up to 50 ft)

NOVEMBER

7 – The Home Depot Kids Workshop make a Tile Trivet 9-12
14 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a #48 Garage 10-11
21 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a Snowman 10-11

Amy’s Notebook 10.28.09

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

I love this tip to skip rinsing those pumpkin seeds (@ Parent Hacks)

These fluffy frosted soap cupcakes are adorable (@ Soap Queen)

I am loving this lacy cabinet transformation (@ Daily Danny)

I love this sweet little Halloween garland (@ forty-two roads)

I am loving these ideas from a Halloween photo shoot and these batkin rings (@ Eddie Ross)

This handmade play tent would be adorable in my daughter’s room! (@ ohdeedoh)

These homemade monograms would be adorable on my kid’s doors (@ ohdeedoh)

I want to try this recipe for homemade mayonnaise (@ Southern Grace Gourmet)

These knitted bunny ears would be a hit for Halloween (@ Flint Knits)

This ring pillow for a wedding is so elegant and sentimental (@ Lil Blue Boo)

I am really loving this book sling for little ones (@ Sew Liberated)

This no carve pumpkin inspiration is great (@ DIY Maven)

I love these vintage school desk makeovers (@ Trey & Lucy)

I am going to dye our pumpkin pancakes orange for Halloween (@ not martha)

I want to make a big pot of this chicken pot pie soup (@ Cooking During Stolen Moments)

These apple cider doughnuts look like a yummy fall treat (@ Real Mom Kitchen)

I love these adorable little apple cups for serving apple cider (@ Shivaya Naturals)

This is a much better way to carve a pumpkin (@ Make)

I want to make some of this easy homemade cheese bread (Lynn’s Kitchen Adventures)

I am bookmarking these 50 cheap & easy Halloween costumes for next year (@ Coupon Sherpa)

I love this laundry room inspiration (@ The Farm Chicks)

This Cinnamon Bun Oatmeal looks divine (@ Thought 4 Food)

These oven hand mitts would make great hostess gifts for the holidays (@ The Idea Room)

This pumpkin cobbler sounds like the perfect finish to an autumn dinner (@ goodLife {eats})

How You Can Help the Unemployed Today

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009
Photo Credit: David Reece

It is no secret that our family endured almost a year of unemployment and a mountain of credit card debt that came along with it. I often look back on that time in our lives and wonder how we ever did it. How did we make that situation work? How did our marriage survive it? How did we manage to keep our home and our car?

There are so many families right now that are truly suffering… in much worse ways than we have ever had to endure. This time of difficulty is supposed to turn around in our economy and in many ways it has for many. I know though that many others are still enduring hardship and struggling to overcome these difficulties.

With that being said, I wanted to share with you some ways you can make a difference in the life of someone who is undergoing financial struggle and unemployment. You can make an incredible difference in the life of someone who is struggling and, in most cases, it won’t even cost you a dime!

Lend an Ear– The most important thing you can do for someone who is having a hard time financially is to just sit and let them talk. Let them share with you the anger that they have over their situation, let them cry tears of grief over the struggles they are enduring, and celebrate with them when those times turn around.

Let them talk about what they feel like talking about and try not to push them to tell more than they feel comfortable with. It is a very brave thing to do to open up and tell someone that you are struggling and it takes time and trust for them to want to share this private information with you.

Photo Credit: Jim Sisko


Offer To Babysit
– The #1 cause for divorce is money problems. When a spouse is unemployed, particularly the male in the family, it is such a difficult time in a marriage because so much of one’s pride and self-esteem comes from being able to contribute financially to the family.

The best thing you can do to keep that marriage growing strong is offer to support them by babysitting for them. Give the family the time they need to have a date night or just to have time to quietly do some job searching.

If you have the finances to offer a gift card for a night out, that is a wonderful and thoughtful touch. Think of fun budget-friendly things they could do like going bowling, or a gift card to Barnes & Noble for books or coffee, or a gift certificate to the movie theater.

Better yet, supply a gift that they could use for several nights in like a new board game, an electronic game, a Netflix membership, or ingredients for a fun meal that they could make at home. These are simple gifts that could supply many nights of fun for them during a difficult patch in their marriage.

Meals on Wheels- One of my favorite things to do for people during these times is to just drop off a dinner to them or to bring a meal when I come over to spend time with them. Try to make a big batch of food that could get them through one or two nights when money is tight.

If you lack the cooking gene, head over to the supermarket and pick up a take-and-bake pizza, popcorn, and some break-and-bake cookies. These are likely fun food that have been removed from the grocery budget and will be just as much appreciated as a home cooked meal.

Photo Credit: David Kosaco

Hire the Unemployed– Check around at your own place of unemployment, contact your friends through social media sites like Facebook or Twitter, and tap into as many people in your network as you can to find a job for your loved one. Do your part to get their resume out there!

If you aren’t able to find them a job, consider hiring them for some odds and ends jobs around your house. When one of our family members lost their job, we offered to hire him to remove wallpaper and paint our bathroom. It was a job in our house that we were not looking forward to doing and he was looking for a way to make some extra money. We both felt really good about the project and, in the end, it was the money that helped put the Christmas gifts under their tree. In my opinion, that is a total win-win situation!

Be an Anonymous Giver– Pride gets in the way of sometimes getting the help that someone might need. No one wants to say, “I don’t have money for groceries this month. Can you give me some?”

I have some very prideful people in my life who would never tell me when they were struggling. I have learned that anonymous gifts are sometimes the best kinds of gifts to give in these situations. Mail them a gift card or leave pantry ingredients on their doorstep.

Little Things are Sometimes the Best Things– There are so many little ways that you can help those that are struggling that can add up in big ways. Clean out your pantry and bring over the extra food to someone who is struggling, pick up a movie for them, stock them up on diapers for the baby, buy them detergent or paper products that can typically drain the grocery budget, offer to babysit while they run resumes, pass on your old magazines or books for a sweet little pick-me-up, weed through your children’s clothes and share those hand-me-downs, send them a card that you are thinking of them, pray for them daily, and cheer them up when you talk on the phone.

Even though I don’t like to focus on the negative, here is a little advice on things not to do-

  • Don’t harass them every day to ask if they have found a job yet. Know that you are likely going to be one of the first people that would be contacted and let them talk about their successes when they occur.
  • Don’t criticize their unemployed spouse. As I have said before, marriage is hard when a spouse is unemployed and it is important that you do your best not to contribute to the negativity. Allow them to vent, but don’t fuel the fire.
  • Do your best not to chastise them if they are angry or hurt over what is happening in their lives. Many well-meaning people try to correct anger instead of letting them work through it. Simply saying, “I know this must be tough!” will go a lot further in these situations then correcting their feelings.

As someone who has been on both sides of the fence, you will never know what it will mean to that person to be a steady rock for them to lean on. Try to think beyond yourself and do one nice thing for someone who is unemployed today. It will mean more than you will ever know!

Are you struggling with unemployment or have you struggled with it in the past? What is one thing you could recommend that others can do to help? What is the best thing someone has done for you or someone you love?

An Apron Full of Giveaways 10.27.09

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009
Photo Credit: Harker, $28


Welcome to the Apron Full of Giveaways! This is my little link list where you can share your giveaways that you are running on your blogs or find great contests to enter!

It is going to be a great couple of months ahead with fantastic giveaways for our readers. We are trying to give back to you as much as we can with these giveaways because we are so thankful for your readership.

Today we have two brand new giveaways to offer up. We are giving away a HP Photosmart Premium with TouchSmart Web to one lucky reader. This printer is valued at $399.99 and has so many cool features that it is almost impossible to list. How about knowing that you could ditch the fax machine, the scanner, the copier, and an energy inefficient printer like I have. Hurry over because this giveaway ends next week!

We also have an amazing Castle Knights Board Game that will thrill any little boy or girl. It is a wooden game that is just the perfect gift to give under your Christmas tree for your little ones. This game retails for $35 and would be a fantastic addition to your board game collection.

Below are the contest links to our contests and to yours! If you are hosting a contest please link it up below. Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them! Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).”

Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!