Last month I decided to challenge myself to cut the clutter in our home over the course of thirty days. My house and my life has been feeling chaotic these days and I knew that a thirty day challenge is just what I needed to get back to the roots of the organization in my home. If you have been a long time reader, you may remember the results from my clutter challenge last year. I am finding by making this clutter challenge a yearly one that it helps bring me back to center again in my home.
The closet, pictured above, is representative of what my home has been looking like. The bones of organization are there, but they are hiding amidst the overflowing drawers, shelves, and cupboards of endless amounts of unnecessary items. I planned to get rid of four car loads of items from my home and challenged myself to a weekly stop at Goodwill.
Pictured here are my first three drops to Goodwill. I have another round of items leftover from our home renovation to take over to the ReStore that are currently sitting in my garage. Once our weather finally warms up, my husband & I have a Saturday date planned with our cluttered garage. All in all, I removed FIFTEEN garbage bags and three totes of random uselessness from our home. In these bags you would find books that we will never read, toys that the children have outgrown, clothing that is too small, a bazillion plastic containers that I do not need, bedding & blankets that are never used, shoes, & items from household projects that have been abandoned.
Can I say, I was not sad to see any of these items leave our home?
Maybe when you see some of the corners of my home now, you will know why!
There is still much more clutter to be conquered in our home, but these corners that I have worked on really have me reassured that having our home organized is an attainable goal. If I was going to offer any advice on tackling the clutter in your home, I would say this:
Start Small…Really Small- When I would survey my house as a whole, I could immediately become defeated. There is so much to do and my to-do list on any given day is enormous. Adding on trying to organize my house to the list and it just did not even seem like a feasible goal. Instead, start with one small spot in your home that has been bothering you. It could be as small as the kid’s bath toys, a junk drawer that could give under its weight of uselessness, or simply a single shelf in your home office. I found that once I began a junk drawer, for example, I would then start moving into the drawer below it, and then I would move to the next drawer. Most of the time it is just getting the momentum to climb that cluttered hill that holds us back from achieving a little organization that is the hardest part.
You Don’t Need Another Basket, But You Might Need Another Donation Bag- I remember when I first began organizing my home, I considered home organization to be about buying organizers, storage containers, and pretty baskets to house everything. All of a sudden my home was filled with a dozen baskets of items I didn’t need or never used. Instead of thinking of how to make the items you have more attractive, consider if you really need the items themselves. If you don’t really and truly love or use them, get rid of them!
Sentimentality & “This Was So Expensive” Has To Be Set Aside- Two things get in the way of me letting the items go in my home. The first is the sentimental feelings that I have about things in our house. Usually it is a gift, an item that was special to my children when they were small, or something that was special to me that I would like to push my children into also loving. The other thing that gets in the way is my, “This Was So Expensive,” feeling about items that we spent too much money on, but no longer have love for. If I could get rid of these two feelings about things, I could almost gather another car load of items. Instead, I have dedicated one tote in our basement that is specifically for sentimental mementos and we are working on passing on the gadgets in our life that we don’t use on to others that can use them.
Your feelings about items might be different than mine and it may take some time to figure out what holds you back from letting things go in your life. When you feel an attachment to an item, try to address where that attachment is coming from and if there is a way that you can manage those attachments to achieve the space you desire.
Embrace Your Power to Live Small- The more I cut the clutter in my home, the more I find that I have just the amount of space that I need in my home. When my closets began to feel too small, when the cupboards are bursting at the seams, when the basement is overflowing…those are the times when I think how nice it would be to move to a bigger home. Each time I cut the clutter in those spaces, I rediscover how perfect our home is for us. Basically, I save myself from a heftier mortgage payment AND I find a renewed sense of commitment to stay right where we are.
Our story of giving things away didn’t end there though, in fact, this is a story about the coolest thing that I have ever gotten to give away. My husband had his ’99 Ford Focus for almost eight years and it was very good to us over the years. For the last five years though, he had been price researching his dream car and dreaming of the day that he could own a Lexus. At the end of this month, his dream car dropped below the price of my Subaru wagon and with some serious negotiating and a couple of hours in the hot seat at the dealership, he drove that car home.
We talked a lot about what we wanted to do with our Ford Focus. While we could have gotten a little money to trade it in, we knew we could make my brother’s whole year if we gave him our old car. That very day we bought our new car, his car began to leak gas and he had no idea how he was going to get around. Later that afternoon I called to tell him that we had a birthday present for him.
I felt a little like Oprah handing over those keys.
He told me he felt like he won the lottery.
We both couldn’t stop grinning.
I don’t say this to brag, but to showcase how wonderful it can be to pass on the things we have in our lives to others. No matter how much or how little you have, you can always give with your whole heart. Look for creative ways to give back to your community, pass the items on that you no longer use to someone in need, use your talents to bless someone else in your life, and live a life of great thankfulness for all that you have.







I am so proud of you, Amy and what a generous gift to your brother! You rock!
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Amy Reply:
April 19th, 2011 at 12:24 pm
Thank you so much, Kristen! It was a very special day for our family!
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You did good! And you are an inspiration
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Amy Reply:
April 19th, 2011 at 12:23 pm
That is very sweet! Thanks so much for stopping by, Mia!
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Great job blasting the clutter, Amy! And what a neat way to bless your brother.
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Amy Reply:
April 19th, 2011 at 12:22 pm
Thanks so much, Carrie! It was a very special day for both of us!
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I need to challenge myself to do this too. How wonderful that you got to de-clutter and give your brother a gift, and your husband got his dream car!
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Amy Reply:
April 19th, 2011 at 12:22 pm
I have never seen a bigger grin on two boys faces as I did that day. They are both very happy! Good luck with your decluttering and thanks so much for swinging by, Elizabeth!! xo
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Three things Amy:
1) Your closet “after” is a thing of beauty! Well done!
2) I completely agree that starting small is the key to a big organization project. If I tell myself that accomplishing 1 drawer is all that is needed, the rest is just a bonus!
3) What an amazing gift for your brother!!!! Congratulations for making your life reach a point where you can give such a meaningful gift.
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Amy Reply:
April 19th, 2011 at 12:21 pm
Thanks so much, Ingrid! I got some new hangers at Sam’s Club & that made a big difference- along with a little weeding out of the wardrobe. Thank you so much for your comment!! Have a wonderful day!
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How wonderful! I always feel so great when I give stuff away – both because a lot of times this stuff weighs us down and because more room and because we make someone else happy. Got a little tearful seeing that picture.
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Amy Reply:
April 19th, 2011 at 12:20 pm
Thanks so much for visiting, Tara! I was teary-eyed that day too. It was a wonderful moment!
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How wonderful! I think we find that its just as good to be on the “blesser’s” side as well as the “blessee’s” side. How awesome for your brother. We are currently de-cluttering our house – 3 loads off to Goodwill and a few more before month’s end. I find our house seems more “relaxed” with out all the clutter. Its a nice feeling…
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Amy Reply:
April 21st, 2011 at 5:06 pm
I so agree, Rene, it does feel more relaxed around here and the house is much easier to tidy without the excess stuff. Good luck with your decluttering and congrats on unloading three loads to Goodwill- that is amazing!
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Amy, I got to about Day 7 and lost focus, mostly because I was in the midst of finishing up our Girl Scout cookie sale and had to deal with deposits and endless paperwork. Thanks for reminding me to get going again…any day can be Day 1.
LOVE that you gave your car to your brother!! What an amazing feeling it must have been to give so generously to someone you love so much.
Have a wonderful Easter!
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Amy Reply:
April 21st, 2011 at 5:06 pm
Well, I am proud of you still! I had hit two weeks of stalling between spring break and a week of sickness in our house. I just tried to pick up the pace towards the end of the month
I absolutely love seeing you on here, Marianne!! xo
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I love the “lottery” story. It is truly magical how “getting rid” of something is someone else’s treasure. Thanks for sharing.
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Amy Reply:
April 21st, 2011 at 5:04 pm
Thank you so much for your sweet comment, Rosa! I really appreciate it!
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Amazing! You are so inspiring Amy! I just found out that we are expecting baby number 5, and I know that before this child is born…some serious decluttering needs to be done. Thank you for the inspiration.
I love your blog…although I don’t comment often.
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Amy Reply:
April 21st, 2011 at 5:03 pm
I can’t tell you how much your comments mean to me- thanks so much for taking the time to let me know you are reading! Good luck with your decluttering projects and congrats on baby number five too!! xo
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Wonderful de-cluttering. Congratulations! I’m about to go in for the kill with the DVDs. Wish me good thoughts!
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