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Today I am sitting in a home that has been greatly reduced of clutter. Three cars (front passenger seat, back row of seating, and trunk)… all filled to the brim with clutter from my home. Another load sits, waiting to be distributed to those I know that are in need right now.

It is as though I can hear the drawers in our home give audible sighs as I open them instead of groaning underneath the weight of random uselessness. There is some emptiness in places that once housed chaos.

Even the man of the house has noticed a difference around here. “This doesn’t even look like our house!” he had exclaimed after car load #1 was removed. By car load #3 there was a sense of panic. “Will we have anything left? Please don’t take my stuff!”

You may have been under the impression that I live in a clutter-free existence. I am afraid you would be wrong! What has been removed from my home?

- The purse collection, whittled down to two everyday purses and one special occasion purse. Each gently unloaded of four hundred lip glosses and hand lotions…two items which I never thought I had.

- The size zero, ones and some twos pants are now donated and no longer a painful reminder of the body that I once had. I don’t have to try them on anymore and be disappointed. I remind myself that my size four body is a happier one and remember that my size zero body was when I was depressed and longing to get pregnant. I am the happy and proud mom of two beautiful children who love me if I am a size four or a size twenty-five. Go me!

- The collection of thrift store items that never really fit into my life. I confused my frugality for a need to deal seek and thrift seek all of the time. I can remind myself that I am maturing in my frugality and now know that I am saving a lot more if I don’t seek the deals anymore. A scaled existence is far more frugal than even those items that seemed to cost pennies.

- The mismatched linens, table linens, and cups that gathered dust in my home. Now the space has been freed for the matched existence that I love. I don’t have to shift the mismatched stuff to get the stuff I really adore. Hurray for space!

- Plastic. Goodbye promotional water bottles, plastic containers missing lids, random plastic clutter in my life. How refreshing to open a cupboard and not be attacked by a plastic monster.

- Stuff I have to dust. You will have to find a new place to live because I am tired of dusting and moving you around.

Here is my challenge, all neatly outlined, and what I was able to achieve this month:

October ’09 Challenge

Challenge: Reduce the clutter in our home. I planned to commit to take one car full (minimum) to the donation box each week until we have our clutter problems under control.

Did I meet the challenge?: Yes, I did! The first car load was easy to pull together, but each pile after that seemed more difficult. I had to really think about the things in our home and weigh their usefulness which took more time and thought then I had anticipated. I am very conscious of clutter and try to be careful about this so everything, at first, appeared quite useful to me.

How did it enrich myself/others?: The enrichment that reducing clutter has been immediately evident to me. For one, I am spending less time cleaning my home. When everything has a place and is useful to me, it is much easier to tidy up and maintain my home. The benefit to that is more time to do what I love…reading, knitting, and hanging out with my family.

The best part is that once you start decluttering, it can be difficult to stop. Suddenly I was dumping junk drawers and organizing seasonal clothing, tidying the basement, and clearing out the pantry. This organized living could become highly addictive!

We also enriched other families by making our donations to charity. I know that I am helping keep people employed at Goodwill and I know that the items I have set aside for those in need in our community will be put to good use. It is a fantastic feeling to bless others when we have been so blessed ourselves!

How I Plan to Continue the Challenge: I am going to be more aware of what I am bringing into my home and if I really need the items. I also plan to keep a bin in our garage going at all times to toss items in that don’t add to the quality of my life.

Let’s be honest though… I am the mother of two small children. It isn’t just my clutter that I am trying to maintain. I know that is unlikely that I will have a clutter-free home for awhile. I am honest with myself though and know that as long as they have oodles of space to play and I do the best I can, that is the most important part. I just want to create a home that is lived in, loved, and maintain a space that we all can love and appreciate. It is a modest goal that I know I can accomplish!

Reward- The reward is the new space that I am living in and the reward of the time that I have reclaimed in the process!

Next Month’s Challenge- I don’t eat breakfast…ever. I can count on one hand the amount of breakfasts I have ate this year. This month, I plan to commit to eating something every single morning and see if it has any improvement on my day.

Want to take on a 30 Day Challenge of your own? Read more details about how these challenges can be beneficial and share with me one thing you would like to change this month!


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    Amy, that is really inspiring. I think I try to set too many goals for myself, maybe I should stick to one a month!

    I know exactly what you mean about "shopping the deals." I was so excited about being "frugal" and finding deals online at first, but now I have matured, realizing that not spending at all saves me more money and saving up and spending more on the things I love, things that matter, makes me happy.

    Good post. I feel like organizing today!

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    We just had our very first garage sale this weekend. It was awesome getting so much stuff out of the house! It was also great to bring in a little extra money for the family with things that were literally collecting dust. AND, like you mentioned, it felt great to put the bags of unsold stuff together to give to charity too!

    Keep up the good work!!

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    So funny ou posted this…I have been cleaning out closets for the last few days after work. It makes for a full day – working eight hours and coming home to organize non-stop and night, plus I have class two nights a week, but it will be so worth it in the end!

    Thanks for the motivation!

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    Great job, Amy! It feels good to let go of things that are just taking up space. I'm in the process of sorting through all of our stuff as well and trying to get rid of non-essentials.

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    Nice. Well done. I've been doing it little by little, but a month-long chore might be the way to go to make a big impact.

    BTW, breakfast is really good stuff. I need a little something in my tummy by 10am every day, even if it's a little low-fat cookie like a Goya Maria. (2 or 3. It's like a dry tea biscuit that's not to sugary.) Granola bars or small yogurt cups/drinks are a good way to go or even soup. I find something with protein in it works best. (Like nuts in granola. The cookies, not so much.)

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    LOL about the purses Amy! I have gone through several rounds of reducing the number of purses–one more and I think I'll be set.
    Clutter makes me crazy. I saw 5 minutes of an episode of Hoarders and now I am dying to take a garbage bag and fill it up! I think maybe this week!

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    I did lots of "purging" this past weekend too. I have one summer purse, one winter purse and One small "dressy" purse…shoes are
    my issue.I have very small feet (size 4) so dress shoes are very hard to find. Since I no longer work outside my home I know I don't need the 40 or 50 pairs of heels that are in boxes but I can't bring myself to get rid of them….maybe one pair will be just the perfect match for the dress I will wear to a wedding or funeral this next year???
    What do you think???
    God Bless, Pam, South Bend

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    I've been doing this. I took a load to the Salvation Army last week. Such a good feeling to get rid of stuff. I need to do more; thanks for the motivation to move ahead.

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    I loved this post…very inspiring. I'm slowly but surely cleaning up clutter too.

    Also, I think this is the first time that I've ever read that you knit. Could you share some knitting projects with us in the future?

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    Jen B- Oh yes, I love, love, love to knit. All of my past crafting projects can be found here and I always try to highlight any free patterns I run across too! I hope that helps!

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    Pam- I can completely relate! Getting rid of shoes is sooo hard! I am sure with your sizing too that it makes it even harder to do :) I think all women can relate to that dilemma ;)

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    This is so true! I have had my decluttering plans for my basement for..uh…far too long yet it sits, full of clutter and completely disorganized! I think I will put myself on a 30 day challenge and come up with a plan to change that. Thanks for the motivation!

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    How funny! I just went through my clothes last night and donated 4 bags of clothes to Goodwill. I'm planning on going through the house and getting rid of a ton of stuff. Our garage is a disaster!

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    Okay, I was in to it until you started talking about throwing out the size zero jeans…the article went down hill from there:)

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    What a great post! I am inspired to get rid of some of my clutter, too. Enjoyed reading your experiences with it!

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    Way to go, Amy! I've been getting rid of lots of stuff while preparing to move, and it feels GREAT!! I can't believe all the stuff that was hiding around here.

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    FishMama- Thank you so much for sharing about your breakfast ideas swap. I will definitely be watching those as I lack breakfast ideas for myself!

    PS- Both the clutter and the size four are being worked really hard to maintain :)

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    this is wonderful! I think I'm going to try this to clean up my apartment, By the way, now that your kids are in school again do you plan on picking mom advice simplified?

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    October is our no spend month challenge! I've also been working on the clutter since before Sugar Plum arrived, the bags have been accumulating in the garage and I finally got them loaded into the car to donate this week. Six bags so far and there is still more to go through – I'm loving the extra space too, it's so worth it!

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    You did a great job clearing out the clutter! I do that all the time with my junk and it just feels so good to get rid of it all!

    I agree with you when you talk about always deal hunting. I used to feel like I had to go out and deal hunt to save money, so I was shopping every few days. Even though I would find things for dirt cheap, I would buy them, even if I knew I wouldn't use the item(s), just because the deal was so good. If it's something that is of no use to me or my family, it's a waste of money. Even if it only costs a nickel.

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    One key concept to remember when you find that great deal (that doesn't have an immediate place in your home) is "It won't be the last sale item I find!"

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    This is such a wonderful idea. Congrats on being successful! I too am going to commit. The funny thing is I haven't bought anything new, but I need to declutter the old!

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    Nice suggestions… Thank you. I loved these kind of articles and some times I also spend time cleaning clutter in my house. So far, for me it always proved to be a funny game

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    I moved 2 years ago and suddenly my house is cluttered again. I am pregnant and on a mission to de-clutter by the time I have this baby! BTW: EAT BREAKFAST!! Your size 2 jeans might not be clutter if you did!

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