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There are no words to explain seeing and holding your book for the first time. Last week a box arrived on my doorstep from Penguin and, with shaky hands, I opened the book and drank it all in. The only thing that even comes close to this experience is the birth of my children.

Last week I received an email that nearly brought me to my knees. My editor emailed to let me know that we had already sold the first print run of the book and they had to reprint it.  I can’t even begin to wrap my head around that, can you? 

The big question I am always asked is how you even begin the process of writing a book. My experience getting published was a unique one because it came through a truly unique opportunity for our family. Several years ago, I had replied to a media inquiry for a magazine that was looking for families that choose to live a life without credit cards. I submitted our family as an example and shared that we also had celebrated paying off our credit cards with our kids by throwing a debt-free party with them. They loved this unique spin on debt-free living and sent a team out to my house to photograph me for Redbook and wrote a feature on us. It was, perhaps, the most glamorous day of my life and I couldn’t believe all of these people were in our little house in Granger.

That magazine somehow landed in the hands of a literary agent who reached out to me and asked if I had ever considered writing a book.

The rest, as they say, is history.

Photo Credit: Nancy Lary Studios

 
Of course, the process of going from a blog and freelance article writer to a book writer was a difficult one. The entire process took me three years, mainly due to my own obstacles with running my site and running after small children.  When we finally sold the book, I had only gone over the first hurdle. You see, with nonfiction books, you sell your proposal before you sell a book.  Writing the proposal is writing the blueprint for what you envision the book will look like. It sets up the skeleton of how it will all look, but it is not the book.

Once that was sold, I still had a book to write.

I remember talking to another author about how I had never realized what a process this all would be and he shared with me that it isn’t really about how talented of a writer you are, it is just if you have the endurance to get through the process of publishing a book. I now understand.

When I finally received a copy of my book in my hands after all that writing, it was a big girl’s little girl dream come true. I don’t know if I ever will get over how incredibly incredible it all is.  You see, even as a child, I wanted to be a writer and to write my very own book.

I remember sitting and listening to my teachers read to me and rolling around words and phrases in my head and mouth because I loved them so much. I wished that I could have that power with words that my words would someday get stuck in their heads the way they did in mine.

One of my favorite authors was Beverly Cleary and now that I am rereading her books with my daughter, it brings even more joy to me as I roll the words around in my mouth again and her stories bring new meaning to me as an adult.

When I was a kid,  I used to type furiously on an old typewriter in my parent’s basement, writing my own little books of stories of my own imagination. My mother can also attest to the elaborate storytelling (that’s how I like to think of it) and my power at embellishing every story I told. I wanted more than anything to be a writer.

Photo Credit: Nancy Lary Studios

 
When my husband suggested I start a blog for my ideas, it turned out to be a fantastic outlet for me when I first became a stay-at-home mom and has fed that creative part of my brain so well over the years. I could be a “published author,” simply by hitting a button to post my words. Granted, it was publishing that anyone can do, but I have always treated it like my life’s work to write words and have people read them. More empowering is when someone reads your words and then they share with you how you have changed their lives through them.

If you have followed me over the years, you have seen the evolution of the blog, the words, and the found love for creating beautiful images with those words. If there is one thing I have learned it is that there is always the potential to do and be better. I am still evolving.

I hope you will be able to pick up my book and read more about our family’s journey out of debt and unemployment and into a life far richer than we could have ever imagined…in all the important ways.

The book will be out on bookstore shelves on January 2nd (a slight shift in dates due to our reprinting), but is now available for pre-order.  Here are some options for great places to order it! I also encourage you to hit your local bookstore to pick it up! 

Amazon

Barnes & Noble

Walmart

Powell’s

Indiebound

My first book signing will be on January 19th from 2-4 PM at the Mishawaka Barnes & Noble Store in the University Park Mall.  Feel free to accept my invitation to join me on that day. I will admit, I am SUPER nervous about that. I can just picture me and my mom sitting at a table alone.

To crickets. 

You don’t want that do you? I would be so honored to meet you all and please forgive me ahead of time about  knowing everyone’s name. I know Facebook faces, Twitter profile handles, and can recognize you on IG… BUT I tend to have an old lady brain and can’t always remember actual names! That is the other part I am nervous about so I thought I would say that in advance!

Thank you all for your continued love and support for me through this project.  I find myself randomly bursting into tears when I think of how kind everyone has been to us through this process and the genuine excitement from our friends about all of it.

Happy Holidays, everyone!

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    Amy – will it be on Net Galley? I will grab it for review. Or I will wait til it’s out in print.
    SO EXCITED!!!
    I will always be able to say “I knew her when…”
    Love you!! beth

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    Amy Reply:

    Beth- I am going to get a copy out to you!! :) xoxo

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    Amy-I SOOOO Wish I could be there for that book signing!! I am still holding out hope for a midwest (if not national) book tour so that I can see you here in Columbus!! Congratulations girl! You deserve ever honor and success that you receive!!! Beth

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    Amy Reply:

    I would love that, Beth, and no worries that you can’t make the book signing! That would be quite a trip just for that :) I miss you and your sweet family!! Happy holidays! xoxo

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    I am so proud of you, and proud to say “I knew you when…!”

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    Amy Reply:

    Oh, you are so sweet, Meredith! Thank you for saying that! Happy holidays to your sweet family!

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    What an accomplishment! I can’t wait to read it.

    If you’re like me, I was already itching to come up with my next project before the book even hit the shelves.

    Enjoy this moment and the pride that your family surely feels.

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    Amy Reply:

    Aw, congratulations on your book and I agree, it is kind of addictive. I was already asking how quickly we can start the next project! :) Happy holidays to your family!

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    SO proud of you, Amy. Can’t wait to get my copy!!!

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    Amy Reply:

    I’m SO proud of you, Tara!!! You did it long before me :) I hope you enjoy the book and thank you for taking time out of your super busy schedule to peek at it. Love you and happy holidays!

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    Congratulations on your success! I’m so happy for you!

    I have a secret desire to publish a book too! Maybe one day..

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    Amy Reply:

    If I can do it, ANYONE can do it. That is the truth, Tammy! Happy holidays! xo

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    If you come to Wisconsin (around the Milwaukee area) I am sooo there! :)

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    Amy Reply:

    Ha! I will try to put a bug in the ears of Penguin on that ;) xo

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    would love to get a copy hope its up for review somewhere. I’ve been reading your blog forever :) but money is tight. I went back to school to get my teaching degree, hubby had dental surgery and the list of money goes on.

    Fingers crossed you have review copies or giveaways!

    gidgetnfroggi (instagram)

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    Amy Reply:

    You are so sweet! I am sure we will have many giveaways- no worries on that! Hopefully they will have the book at your local library too :) So happy to have gotten to know you through IG!!

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    Congratulations! I hope your tour brings you to NC!

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    Amy Reply:

    Thank you so much, Amy! Happy holiday to your family!

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    so very exciting. i feel like i’ve “known” you forever-your upbeat advice and great ideas have been such a blessing. maybe i’ll get to meet you if there’s an east coast component to your book signing tour ;)

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    Amy Reply:

    Oh, you are the sweetest, Kelly! Thank you so much for those kind words. Fingers crossed I can make it over to the east coast. :) Happy holidays to your family! xoxo

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    I’m so excited for you & I can’t wait to read your book! I’ve been reading your blog since 2007 when I had my son. You were & still are such an inspiration to me & you really helped me get into my “mom groove”. At 20 years old I really needed tips & your website is the only place I looked to for answers! I just want you to know how much you have meant to me, It’s really funny how I’ve never met you but you have been a big part in my life! Keep on keeping on! You have great advice & you are a such a blessing to me & all the mom’s out there! :) You go girl!!!

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    Amy Reply:

    I feel like we have “grown up” together, Stephanie! Can you believe the site has been around that long? Thank you so much for the sweetest words! I even read them to my husband when he came home from work and we were both grinning from ear to ear. It means more to me than you could know! Lots of love to your family! xo

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    Congratulations!! I have been reading your blog for a few years now and know how much this book means to you. And you don’t get to say you have “old lady” brain; you’re only in your 30s!!

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    Amy Reply:

    Ha! Old in brain, not in age :) Thank you so much for your sweet words and support over the years. It means so much to me! Happy holidays to your family!! xo

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    I am so excited for you! I’ve watched your blog evolve over the past five years or so. You have found your rhythm and are using and growing your gifts. It’s been fun to watch. I can’t think of a blogger more deserving than you for such a great book opportunity! Let us know if you do a book signing in Michigan! Congratulations!!

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    Amy Reply:

    You are so sweet, Amelia! Thank you so much for your sweet words- they mean more than I can say! Happy holidays to your sweet family! xo

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    Congratulations, Amy! Three years is a very long gestation period, no wonder it’s almost as exciting as giving birth. I knew you back when!

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    Amy Reply:

    Ha! That IS true- the gestation was longer then I had expected :) Thanks so much, Kim! Happy holidays to your family!

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    So excited for you, Amy! I’ve been reading you for years and am so happy seeing your success and progress. Congratulations on the book!

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    Amy Reply:

    Thank you so much, Gina! It means so much to me! Happy holidays!

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    Congratulations! So sorry that I won’t be able to come to the book signing. Being overseas makes that a bit hard. Know that I will be with you in spirit. How wonderful that the book is finally here and the first printing is already sold out!

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    Amy Reply:

    Thank you so much for your continued support and thoughtful comments over the years, Ali! It has meant so much to me and to my family!! Lots of love to you and your family! xo

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    Many congratulations to you Amy! What a fantastic accomplishment!!

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    Amy Reply:

    Thank you so much for your comments over the years, Ingrid! I always am so happy when I see them pop up. Your support has meant so much to me oveer the years! xo

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    Amy!!! I am so excited for you! I have been waiting for this day ever since I stumbled on your blog years ago, and thought “Wow! We could be debt free, too!” Thank you! Are you going to be doing a giveaway with the book? We have had a really tough year, and are cutting all that can get cut at the moment. I just checked, and my library hasn’t pre-ordered it, so I’m wondering if I might have the opportunity to win a copy.
    Again, congratulations! What an amazing person you are!

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    Amy Reply:

    Oh, you are so sweet, Mandy! We will definitely be having giveaways- no worries on that! I can’t wait to offer those and thank you so much for your support over the years. It has meant so much to our family! Happy holidays! xo

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