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All Knitted Up: Knitted Gifts With a Purpose

My knitting needles have been clicking at high speed these days with knitted gifts that needed to be turned around quickly. That being said, there is nothing more meaningful to me than knitting with a purpose. I love to have an intention that gives me the opportunity to focus on someone really important and make a gift to show them what they mean to me.

My girlfriend, Kathy Friend, has been such a gift to me.  She is the first person I call when I need help with a big event in my life. She has helped me find clothes that fit, she helps me feel more confident by guiding on me on good style choices, and she is my sounding board on the difficulties of working from home. She is my friend through and through. It is rare that you find someone that genuine in your life and I am so thankful for her friendship.

For over six years, Kathy and her husband have been trying to adopt a little girl named Anya from Russia. There has been much paperwork, many hurdles, and so many life lessons that they have garnered from this experience. After waiting this long, they are in Russia now to get their little girl. My heart skips a beat when I think about it.

I wanted to create a gift for Anya that would be meaningful and hopefully remind her of coming home.  I made another Bon Bon Baby Blanket but larger, that could be her travel blanket as they make the flight from Russia to America. It was done in all of the colors of the US flag as she comes to America, to live with her family that love her more than life itself.

Please keep the Friend family on your prayer list as they finish the final details of bringing Anya home. It is such a big moment of transition for all of them and I am so full of hope for this little family!

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Welcome to America Travel Blanket

Pattern: Sweet Bon Bon Blanket by Suzanne Middlebrooks (available as a free download for Ravelry members)

Needle Size: US 9 Needles

Yarn: Lion Brand Homespun Candy Cane Red, Lion Brand Homespun Hepplewhite (used as the garter stitch section throughout the entire blanket), and Lion Brand Homespun Blue Sky Montana

Notes: Homespun yarn is definitely not my first choice when it comes to a baby blanket. For a travel blanket though, this yarn worked really well and created a beautiful design throughout the pattern with the mix of colors. If you were creating a baby blanket though, cotton yarn would definitely be my first choice!

This pattern is a great one for a beginning knitter and the only stitch you need to know is  the kfbf combination, which I found how to do on You Tube. Because of the width of this blanket (a cast on of only 96 stitches) it comes together very quickly and it makes a beautiful chevron pattern with a garter edge.

I stuck to the 96 stitch cast on and just made the blanket longer so it could be draped over her legs. My little Emily was a great helper and held my yarn for me as well as letting me use her as a model for travel blanket sizing.

I could not be more proud with how this turned out. It did take a lot longer to make then I had thought (four weeks almost), but I am so proud of the results!

I hope it will be something special for her and something that she will be able to snuggle up with for a long time. Welcome to America, Anya! We can’t wait to meet you!

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When my I spoke to one of my girlfriends and found out that her mom was ill, I wanted to do something…  anything to help her.  For me, learning to knit was as much a gift to myself as it is a gift to others. I asked what color was her mother’s favorite and she shared with me that her mom really loved pink. I put my needles on a speed of eleven, and worked on this shawl for hours at a time until it was done. I wanted it to be there when she needed it most.

I wanted this prayer shawl to offer warmth and comfort while still being fashionable and something that I myself would wear. I went back to my favorite shawl pattern, “Alice’s Lace Shawl” by Alice Beck in the The Prayer Shawl Companion book.

For me, half of the beauty of a prayer shawl is in the details. It isn’t just the knitting that makes it beautiful, it is the personalization that is created for that special person. I found the beautiful cross charm at Michael’s in the jewelry section. It was $7.99, but I used my 40% off coupon. The yarn was marked down to $2.99 a ball and it took two balls to create.

I used ribbon from my ribbon stash to pull it together and printed a prayer out for her that came from the book that is highlighted above. It was printed on pink polka dotted paper that I already had in my craft supplies. Tucked in tissue, it was shipped Priority and sent to the sweet recipient to let her know she is being prayed for by someone who has yet to even meet her.


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Pretty In Pink Lace Shawl

Pattern: Alice’s Lace Shawl by Alice Beck (from The Prayer Shawl Companion Book)

Needle Size: US 13 Needles

Yarn: Bernat Softee Chunky Solid in Antique Rose (2 Skeins)

Notes: Prayer shawls can be simple or complicated, but the idea behind them is that they are woven together with yarn and with prayer. As you create them, you pray for the person and ask God that the shawl can offer them comfort through difficult times.

I found a fantastic book on prayer shawls called The Prayer Shawl Companion by Janet Bristow & Victoria A. Cole-Galo. The book offered thirty-eight different patterns that could be used to create a unique prayer shawl for someone in need. In the pattern book, I chose, “Alice’s Lace Shawl,” because the pattern had only one row of pattern and then a row of purling and a row of knitting. It was simple enough that I could concentrate on prayer and complex enough that it created a scalloped edge with just enough lace, while still being warm.

This project took me six days of straight knitting every single moment that I had. The lace shawls that I created with Homespun Yarn knitted up much, much faster than this one, but they didn’t have any pink Homespun at Michael’s so I had to go with a less bulky yarn.

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Disclosure: The knitting book link is an affiliate link and is provided so you can locate the book quickly and easily. Feel free to order a book, but we encourage utilizing the library system and buying me some yarn instead.  Wouldn’t that just be so much more lovely?

What crafts have you been working on? How do you benefit others with your crafting abilities?

An Apron Full of Giveaways 02.16.10

palola shop, $42

Thanks so much for swinging by for our Apron Full of Giveaways! Each week we share a link list of great contests to enter all over the web. Below are the contest links to our contests and to yours! If you are hosting a contest please link it up below. I would love to point our readers over your way!

Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them!

Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).” Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!

Good luck, everyone!



Comfort Food: Italian Meatloaf With Smashed Red Potatoes

The weather has been so cold and the snow has been never ending. I won’t complain too loudly though because compared to my friends on the East Coast, I might as well be living in Hawaii.

On cold days like this, there is nothing like a little comfort food to warm your belly.  My go-to comfort food has always been meatloaf, mashed potatoes, and a little cornbread. Even as a little girl, it was my top request for my birthday meal every year. There is just something about those flavors that makes me happy.

Over the years my recipe for meatloaf varies depending on what is on sale and what flavor combination sounds good at the time.  This time I had red potatoes leftover from buying a big bag of them for our fancy steak dinner with rosemary potatoes, and I wanted to incorporate the potatoes in another recipe.  The Italian turkey sausage was on sale and I mixed that in with the ground beef (that was not on sale) to create this delicious combination.

Touching meat seriously grosses me out. I have a gag reflex watching people putting their hands in the bowls to mix ingredients when I watch Food Network. I find my pastry cutter to be a useful tool when mixing meat. This one from Pampered Chef has an extra long  handle and it works beautifully to mix things quickly. I guess I will never be a Food Network star because of this, but I am okay with it!

I hate to keep bringing up a recipe, but there is just no better accompaniment to a meatloaf dinner than a big batch of pumpkin cornbread muffins! If I make a batch of these, I can get my family to eat just about anything because they are so distracted by the bread.  This pretty picture also cancels out that icky picture of meat. I am so sorry about that!

Enjoy a little comfort food tonight and kick your feet up one evening by using your extra meatloaf from the freezer! Give yourself a night off and revel in the deliciousness of great comfort food and all that is warm!

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Italian Turkey Meatloaf (This will yield two meatloaves- one to eat, one to freeze)

2 pounds ground beef
2 pounds Italian turkey sausage, removed from the casings
1 cup seasoned bread crumbs
1 cup Parmesan cheese, grated
3- 8 oz can tomato sauce
2 eggs

In a large mixing bowl, lightly mix turkey, bread crumbs, cheese, 1 can of tomato sauce, and egg. Shape into two loaves in shallow baking dishes. Pour a can of tomato sauce over each of the meatloaves. Sprinkle top with garlic salt.  Bake one loaf uncovered at 350 for 1 1/4 hours. Baste several times while cooking. Freeze the other loaf (uncooked) for another meal later this month.

Side Note: I do not have a big problem with grease with the ground turkey, but grease can be a problem if you buy higher fat content ground beef.  If you are trying to cut back on the fat there is a very easy way to do it. Before patting the meatloaf into the pan, lay down two pieces of bread to soak up the drippings. Pat the ground turkey mixture in, over the bread, and the bread will catch the fat at the bottom. It will also help to keep the shape of the loaf.

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Smashed Red Potatoes (Courtesy of Allrecipes Dinner Tonight Cookbook)

2 pounds small red potatoes, scrubbed and quartered
1/2 cup butter
1/2 cup milk
1/4 cup sour cream
Salt and ground black pepper to taste

Bring a large pot of lightly salted water to a boil. Add potatoes, cook until tender but still firm, about ten minutes. Drain and set aside. Add butter, milk, sour cream, and alt and pepper to taste to potatoes. Mash together until smooth.

Disclosure: The cookbook link is an affiliate link and is provided so you can locate the book quickly and easily. Feel free to order a book, but we encourage utilizing the library system and buying me a latte instead.  Wouldn’t that just be so much more lovely?

What is your go-to comfort food? Feel free to share your recipes and links!

Freebie Friday: February 12, 2010

Happy Freebie Friday, everyone!  Freebies 4 Mom shares their best freebies of the week each Friday on MomAdvice. This week be sure to get your FREE 8×10 Collage from Walgreens today only! Be sure to check out Heather’s Valentine’s printable round-up for a last minute way to say I love you!

On MomAdvice this week I am sharing about how to have a steakhouse experience on a poor house budget, nine simple ideas for frugal date nights, a list of great reads for moms, our notebook of inspiration, and we have our weekly apron full of giveaways that you can enter!

I hope everyone has a wonderful Valentine’s weekend and that you get plenty of time to spend with those you love!

Health & Beauty

BareMinerals Foundation (with coupon at JCPenney Sephora counter)
iS Clinical Youth Eye Complex
Escada Marine Groove fragrance


Food

Emergen-C
Kraft First Taste
Mueller’s Meal Planner (limited states)

Entertainment

Home & Garden

Walgreens Free 8×10 Collage Photo (with coupon code VDAY Friday only)
Love Letter Kit (restock daily at 10am CT)
Kids N Pets full rebate (on Facebook)
Printable Valentines
Poise Ladies Who Laugh House Party
Ziploc DIY Home Organization House Party
Maxwell House/Velveeta Spring Into Brunch House Party
DiGiorno Champions House Party

Upcoming Freebie Events:
Please call your local store or restaurant to confirm they are participating in these freebie events

FEBRUARY

William-Sonoma Cooking Demos & Classes
5-18 – Walgreens Diabetes Wellness Event (free blood glucose testing)
12 - The Coffee Bean free chai 4 – 7pm
13-15 IKEA Kids Eat Free
13 – Walmart Littlest Pet Shop Parade 11am – 2pm
13 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a Jewelry Organizer 10-11
15 - Long John Silver’s free crispy breaded pollock samples
18 – America’s Biggest Bedtime Story 9am CT
20 – Auntie Anne’s Free Pretzel Day 10am-3pm
23 - IHOP National Pancake Day 7am-10pm

9 Simple Ideas for Frugal Date Nights

Just in time for planning your romantic Valentine’s Day night is a list of 9 simple and frugal ideas for creating a wonderful night with your spouse. If my recipes for a fantastic steakhouse dinner don’t win your husband over, maybe one of these inexpensive ideas will!

I don’t know about you, but I never knew how creative I would have to be in order to squeeze in a little alone time with my spouse. We don’t get to escape as often as I would like and it is hard to find people you really love and trust enough to watch those that are most precious to you. Not only that, but teenagers sure seem to be a lot busier than they used to be! I am so thankful for the grandparents who offer to take our kiddos time and time again so we can get that time away.

With that in mind, I wanted to share with you some creative ideas for dating that will cost you little/no money and won’t even require paying a babysitter. These are the ideas that have worked for us through these years and I hope you can share some ways that you have found to creatively date your spouse when you are low on cash and sitters.


Book Club Night- My husband and I have started, what I jokingly refer to as, our “magical book club” together. I have been dying for him to read the Twilight series and he has been dying for me to read the Harry Potter series. We made a deal to exchange books and talk about them each night. Obviously, this is not intellectual material we are talking about, but I have to say that I am so enjoying every moment of this exchange.

You could also read the same series together or tackle a literary classic together. Better yet, reread those amazing books from your childhood. Have a book club night together instead of a night parked in front of the television.

Once we have finished the books though, we plan to have a screening night of the movies together too. I am wondering if I am pushing the envelope too much if I make my Edward cupcakes?

Engage in Conversation Starters- I think I know just about everything there is to know about my husband, especially since we have been together since we were teenagers. Conversation starter questions though can sometimes lead to some beautiful surprises of happy memories that we had never heard before. Look at these unique conversation starters, these sweet conversation starters, or this list of fun questions to get the ball rolling. My husband & I sometimes just ask each other questions in Facebook quizzes. Anything that gets you talking together is a great investment of your time!

Late Night Dinners- When our kids were really little, our time alone really felt few and far between. We would sometimes shift our dinner hour until after the kids went to bed to enjoy a romantic and quiet dinner together. I would put table linens on the table, break out the beautiful dishes and stemware, and make a fancy dinner that the grocery budget would not be able to normally accommodate. After all, you are still staying in so there is still a great savings in that!

Don’t be afraid to move your dinner somewhere else in the house. Sometimes I would set up a folding table and chairs and dress it up in a different area of the home or put a fancy spread out on the coffee table with a fun movie. In those long days of newborn feedings and diaper changes, this little change in location was really something to look forward to.


Game Time- My husband & I are both very competitive so we love to play games together after the kids head to bed. For outdoor games, we love a good badminton match and for indoor games we love a good board game challenge or a fun game of Wii bowling. Challenge each other to a match and feel free to indulge in childish behavior to escape the reality of adulthood.

Dollar Store Extravaganza- This is something that I have planned for the two of us as a fun date night idea. Just make a small budget of $10 or less and challenge each other to a contest to see who you can come up with the most creative gift from the dollar store for each other. You can really put a lot of creativity into this and it will be a fun exchange to do after the kids go to bed. See if your husband really knows what your favorite candy in the world is and he can see if you know how to pick a great book for him or what type of puzzle book would be a fun one.


Enjoy Some Time By the Fire- After the kids go to bed, we love to start a little fire in our fire pit and sit by it together. We are finding it is a great way to unwind and have some time to discuss the day together. Make some s’mores and snuggle up under a blanket together. If you have a fireplace, you can do the same thing with some cocoa in your warm house on a wintry night.

Plan an Anniversary Getaway- I decided awhile ago to begin putting money into a separate savings account for our ten year anniversary. At the time, we were really penny-pinching, but $25 a month didn’t seem like a ton of money so it has been automatically transferred every month for our anniversary getaway.

I swear that we talk about this (at least) once a month. Even though there is just $1,000 saved, we have come up with a zillion places we could go to and have been number-crunching to see how much we will have from making this tiny investment each month.

Sitting around and just planning a vacation can be so much fun together. It is such a fun way to spend your time, imagining the places you will go and talking about how quickly we are approaching our big anniversary.

Make it more fun by challenging each other to plan the best anniversary getaway package. You could each research and put together your own vacations and then sit down together and see who came up with the best ideas for the least amount of money. File it away for future reference when you actually do to get to go on that getaway.

Exchange Babysitting With a Friend- I am really lucky because if I really want to go out with my spouse, I can call up my sister and ask if we can do a babysitting exchange. If you have a good friend that you can exchange babysitting with and trade nights out, then you get great care for your kids without having to shell out any money.

While you are enjoying some time alone, you can still enjoy the frugal things in life. Some of my favorite date nights are hitting a movie at the second-run theater, packing up a picnic dinner and taking it somewhere with a view, lounging around Barnes & Noble looking for home improvement inspiration, or even enjoying an evening at home without the kids.

If your spouse can take off work, use a vacation day and try and plan your date during the day. You can take advantage of cheaper matinee rates and even affordable meals out at restaurants because of the earlier hour.

Start a New TV Series- Now that I have given you lots of ideas that don’t involve the television, I think I can bring up an idea that does. I love to pick up a new television series together, particularly in the summer months when nothing good is really on television. You can rent these using a movie membership or check on Hulu or the network websites to watch a series. Try looking for an older series that you have never seen before and watching it for the first time. On our list of never seen television- Lost, 24, and House. We also love to watch rerun sitcoms and relive all those funny moments all over again and watch Friends, Everybody Loves Raymond, & That 70’s Show just for laughs.

I don’t mean to brag, but this man of mine is awesome! He works a full-time job AND manages to run all of the programming on this website too. I am willing to set aside as many fun & free nights as I can to hang out with him. Even when times were very lean, we have found creative ways to spend time together. I know we both benefit from it and so do our children!

What is your favorite budget-friendly date night activity? Please share your creative and unique ideas for keeping the romance alive!

Amy’s Notebook 02.10.10

These Valentine’s Day bookmarks are adorable (@ Creative Kismet)

I am bookmarking these thirty printable Valentines (@ the long thread)

We will have to try a make-your-own-pizza-panini night at our house (@ Paula Deen)

These printable butterfly Valentine’s Day cards are so cute (@ giver’s log)

These sock owls would be a fun craft to do with the kids (@ Whimsy Loft)

This vegetarian whole wheat pizza looks like a yummy dinner (@ Food Blogga)

These Anthropologie flowers are amazing and I love that they are made from recyclables (@ Happy Together)

Who could resist one of these little love boats? (@ the light garden)

I love the packaging of these food gifts (@ design sponge)

These heart suckers and candies would be a cute treat to bring to your child’s class (@ The Idea Room)

This sunshine day crocheted baby afghan is simply stunning (@ Posie Gets Cozy)

I need to add a slow knitting project to my list of things to knit (@ Soule Mama)

I have never thought to dry my own mushrooms (@ the kitchn)

This white chocolate popcorn with Valentine candies would be a great heartfelt treat (@ Make & Takes)

This pan pizza looks like a fun recipe to try for our Friday night pizza tradition (@ Serious Eats)

These chocolate cocoa pancakes would be a sweet Valentine’s Day breakfast (@ Dine & Dish)

This headband made from an old necktie is brilliant (@ Craft Envy)

These chair makeovers are so cute & creative (@ Pretty Ditty)

This recipe for peanut butter power bars looks like a healthy & fun snack (@ Salt and Chocolate)

This peeling paint technique would look beautiful on my furniture (@ Brassy Apple)

This fabric rose Valentine’s wreath is going on my list of projects for next year (@ Smashed Peas & Carrots)

Absolutely loved reading through the taste tests on frozen pizzas and taste tests on delivery pizza for a night off of cooking (@ Serious Eats)

These peppermint pink marshmallows look delicious (@ Create!)

Great Reads for Moms: January ’10 Edition

I am so proud to say that I tackled eight books this past month which is the most I have read in a very long time. I imagine that my reading will slow down this month between our home renovation and all that is going on with our family this month, but I am still planning to set some time aside to sneak in a few cups of vanilla chai tea, a library book, and a soak in the tub. Just be careful in the tub with the library book. It can be a very expensive combination, as I have unfortunately discovered!

Here are my top picks for the month of January! Just as an aside, I read many more  books than are just featured here, but try to feature the ones that are my absolute best picks of the month here. If you want to read more, please feel free to friend me on GoodReads! My username is momadvice and I am always happy to connect with people there too!

Still Alice by Lisa Genova-

My great-grandmother suffered from Alzheimer’s so I was very familiar with the topic and the emotional toll that it can take on one’s family members when they suffer from this disease. What I did not know was that over a half million people in the United States alone suffer from early-onset Alzheimer’s and that it is possible to suffer from this disease at a much earlier stage in your life than I had ever imagined.

Alice Howland is a cognitive psychology professor at Harvard and is known for her great intellect. She is admired not only by the other faculty members, but by her students for her amazing ability to captivate an audience when speaking about what it is she is most passionate about. Her husband is a scientist, and together they have collaborated on book projects and have a mutual love for each other and the intelligent and scientific dialogue that they can have together.

When Alice starts becoming confused and begins losing her words, forgetting what she is supposed to teach on, and even forgetting where she lives when she goes for a run, she blames it on menopause and decides to contact her doctor about her memory loss.

After going through screening, it is determined that Alice, at the age of fifty, is suffering from early-onset Alzheimer’s.

Alice’s quick spiral into memory loss is heartbreaking and her story is especially poignant because she is the chosen narrator of the story. At times, as the reader, you can even become confused along with Alice as scenes are repeated and her family member’s begin to lose their names, or she believes she is talking to strangers when they are well-known characters throughout the book.

The book sheds light on a very real disease in a way that can only be told through the narration of Alice. Although Alice is slipping, she is “still Alice,” even when her family feels her mind is very far away.

This book pulled at my heartstrings in a way that I can’t describe and has made me thankful for the beautiful memories that my mind can retain. It is a wonderful reminder how essential memory is in our daily lives and how important it is to love and respect those who are suffering from Alzheimer’s.

The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson-

The book opens with a scene straight out of a movie. A prominent rich man is sitting in his office clutching another framed exotic dried flower in his hands. He receives one each birthday, a gift that had been given to him each year by his granddaughter. The problem is that his granddaughter has been dead for forty years and he is still receiving this gift. Is it a message from the killer meant to open the wounds, the wounds that he will never know what has happened to his granddaughter?

Henrik decides to take matters into his own hands and hire a down-on-his-luck investigative reporter and pay him a ridiculous sum of money to write his family’s life story and do his best to discover what happened to Harriet, his granddaughter, so that he can finally know the truth.

Mikael, the reporter hired, goes into the investigation with low expectations of solving the case. What could he possibly find that had not been analyzed over and over by the police and by Henrik himself?

When teamed with a genius hacker, Lisbeth Slander, though they quickly close in on the case and discover twisted and dark family secrets that will leave you on the edge of your seat. It all unfolds with the gripping conclusion of forty years of lies and twists that will have you guessing whodunit until the end.

The characters are pure magic together and their two stories are interwoven and create dynamic chemistry when paired!

This book is a fantastic read that I could not put down. I had a hard time in the beginning getting through some of the family history, but all of those details came into play and made it worth that dry bit of reading for the shocking conclusion.

Editor’s Note- There is graphic language, sexuality, & violence in this book.

The Girl Who Played With Fire by Stieg Larsson-

After reading, “The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo,” I was anxious to dive into this next book and find out how these characters would develop after such an exhilarating ride with the first book.

The relationship with Blomkvist and Salander ends within the opening pages as Salander realizes that she has fallen in love with Blomkvist and finds him arm-in-arm with his on again/off again lover on the street. She mistakes their history as a relationship that has continued and decides to cut off all contact and her relationship with Blomkvist.

Blomkvist, meanwhile, is at the center of the media after cracking the case in the last book and is unsure of how to address being the focus of the media attention when he once was the interviewer. He is also confused by his sudden end of the relationship between him and Lisbeth and seems to be living his life in a state of limbo.

When he decides to run a story in his magazine though on a sex trafficking operation between Eastern Europe & Sweden, he opens a can of worms that he never thought he would.

The story that will be published will bring to the center of the controversy many of the prominent officials in the Swedish government and endangers many careers and lives with its publishing.

As the story is about to go to press, two investigative reporters are murdered and the accused murderer? Lisbeth Salander.

Lisbeth goes into hiding and her perspective is missing from the story for a good two hundred pages as Blomkvist firmly believes in Salander’s innocence and decides to do his own investigative sleuthing to discover who the true murderer is.

Anticipation builds up as more and more evidence points in Salander’s direction, but the book takes you on a surprising journey through Salander’s past as it comes to the cliffhanger ending.

The only fault with this book is that you have to wait for the next one to find out the fate of Salander and Blomkvist.

Editor’s Note- There is graphic language, sexuality, & violence in this book.


Remarkable Creatures by Tracy Chevalier-

Remarkable Creatures is a beautiful historical fiction story based on the real life story of Mary Anning and Elizabeth Philpot. These two women pioneered the uncovering of fossilized creatures and lead many of the scientific discoveries of the nineteenth century.

Set in the city of Lyme, Mary is a girl who has been unusual her whole life. Her uniqueness begins after being struck by lightening as a baby and she continues to be considered different by her community because of her unusual habit of searching for fossils on the beach… a trait that has been passed down to her by her father.

Elizabeth, a middle-aged woman who has never been married, and her sisters move to the town and each take to their own hobbies. All of the sisters have the usual hobbies of gardening, keeping home, and baking… all of them except Elizabeth. Elizabeth soon finds her own hobby of fossil discovery, although she lacks the eye of training that Mary possesses.

An unlikely friendship between two women of very different social classes form because of their mutual interest in these fossils as they make rare scientific discoveries by gathering these bones.

When a man comes between the two women, neither can put their egos aside to apologize and they are left to their discoveries alone. When Mary discovers something that their community thinks cannot be made by God’s hands, the only person that can preserve her reputation is Elizabeth, because of her social standing.

Will Elizabeth put aside her feelings to defend her friend’s honor or will she allow nature to take its course and discredit Mary’s standings in the scientific community?

I found the book to be a fast read and a very interesting look at a time when talk of fossils challenged the very belief system of people and a time when women were never intended to pioneer anything other than the keeping of their homes. It was a great book and I look forward to reading more books from Chevalier!

True Colors by Kristin Hannah-

I read Firefly Lane last year and was anxious to dive into another Kristin Hannah book. Since I had a flight this week, I thought this would be the perfect light read for my trip, and I was right.

This book is about the three Grey sisters who lost their mother when they were very young and the unfolding of their lives since their mother’s death. Their father, Henry Gray, seems to favor only one child and keeps his focus on making sure that their family upholds their ancestral heritage. His only concern is maintaining their appearance and reputation at all times in their town.

When Vivi Ann meets the true love of her life, their father is angry with her choice in choosing a rancher who is Native American and not from a “proper upbringing.” Vivi Ann follows her heart though despite her lover’s past and decides to make a commitment to him that will change their lives forever.

When a murder takes place in town, the first suspect is Dallas, Vivi Ann’s love, and everyone in the family is forced to choose sides and decide whether they believe Dallas to be guilty or not. With his difficult past and quick temper, could Dallas have been the killer?

The lives of all three sisters change as each sister decides her stance and the true secrets of each of their feelings. Their story is peppered with constant rivalry, the forgiveness that must be given, and the redemption that they must allow one another because of their sisterly bond.

I found the beginning of the book a little slow, the middle to be fast-paced with a fun twist, but the last quarter of the book really slowed down again for me.

I really enjoyed the character development of Vivi Ann and her sister Winona, and Noah, but Aurora’s voice was never heard in the book which would have definitely improved the story since it was about three sisters and not two.

Overall, it was a fast read that would be perfect to take with you when you travel or a fun summer beach read!

Disclosure: All of the links above are affiliate links and are provided so you can locate the books quickly and easily. Feel free to order a book, but we encourage utilizing the library system and buying me a latte instead.  Then we both would be really happy and we could have our own little book club together! Wouldn’t that just be so much more lovely? Happy Reading!

What has been in your book stack this month? Feel free to share your book recommendations or feedback on any of the books that have been mentioned above! I love getting new suggestions for my book pile!

An Apron Full of Giveaways 02.09.10

gock’s frocks, $22

Thanks so much for swinging by for our Apron Full of Giveaways! Each week we share a link list of great contests to enter all over the web. Below are the contest links to our contests and to yours! If you are hosting a contest please link it up below. I would love to point our readers over your way!

Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them!

Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).” Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!

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The Best Steakhouse Dining Experience on a Poor House Budget

About seven years ago, we lost the ability to run out and have dinner out whenever we wanted to. It began with a change in income… or a complete lack of income coming into our house. The decision to eat fancy dinners at home was solidified with the birth of our son and later our daughter.

As I became more acquainted with the kitchen though, we soon realized that dinners out just lacked that pizazz that we could easily get from home. The food was a bit better, (if the house was relatively tidy) the atmosphere was better, and we could spend a whole heck of a lot less and get a whole heck of a lot more.

It is funny, now even when we have help to watch our kids, we still gravitate towards eating at home. I remember having a gift card for a fancy restaurant in town and we ended up spending $75 on dinner. I looked across the table at my husband and he said, “It was good, but…I like your tilapia better.” Yeah, the tilapia that I buy for $4.99 a bag and prepare at home tasted better than the $25 of one fillet of tilapia plated in front of my hubby… sickening, isn’t it?

Pictured above is the dinner that my husband and I shared with no children on New Year’s Eve. For these fancy dinners at home, I break out our wedding china (of which we only own four place settings), get out the fine wedding stemware, and I splurge a little at the supermarket on ingredients I wouldn’t normally treat myself to.

As I was picking out our steaks behind the butcher counter, the lady that was weighing them for me told me that she was planning to buy a couple of them herself.

“Yes, we try to avoid dining out on NYE because the crowds are so bad, ” I shared with her as she packaged the meat.

She looked up at me smugly and said, “You know what we call going out to eat on NYE? My husband and I call it amateur night. Who would ever do that?”

We both giggled and I will now refer to NYE and Valentine’s Day dining out as that because it is so not fun to go out on those nights.

Don’t get stuck on amateur night, my friends, but do make it fun for yourself. Play with new ingredients, buy something pre-packaged that wouldn’t normally fit in your grocery budget, try a recipe that you wouldn’t normally “waste” your ingredients or time on, and throw on some good music to cook to.

Don’t make it the same old dinner that you usually do, but make it a delicious experience that you can treasure. I think having great ingredients and new recipes to indulge in makes cooking feel like fun instead of the same old dinner routine that I have to perform.

I am sharing our delicious menu that was absolute perfection for us that I hope will inspire a deliciously wonderful date night with your spouse! My husband said it was one of my finer moments in the kitchen and we still talk about how special that night was for both of us!  This dinner cost about $30 in ingredients (an entire bottle of fancy wine included), but we had enough leftover for two meals. You couldn’t get a dinner like this out for that price!

Steakhouse Steak Marinade (adapted from Recipezaar)

2 steaks (whatever is on sale and looks good)

2 tablespoon olive oil
2 garlic cloves, minced
2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar or white vinegar
2 teaspoons yellow mustard
2 tablespoon soy sauce
Freshly ground pepper

Mix all ingredients together and place steaks into freezer bag with marinade overnight. This makes enough marinade for two large steaks.

Below is an approximate timetable for how long to cook your steaks for a medium steak. I opt for a little shorter cooking time and prefer my meat to be medium rare. If you are unsure, a meat thermometer is the best gauge for the perfect steak!

Grilling Steak Timetable

Filet: 13-18 minutes

Ribeye, Boneless: 6-8 minutes

Ribeye, Bone-In: 9-12 minutes

T-Bone /Porterhouse: 14-16 minutes

Top Sirloin: 13-16 minutes

Strip, Boneless: 10-12 minutes

Cooking steak, to me, is not easy. I know it is not easy to a lot of other people too because I often get asked how to cook the perfect steak. Use the above timetable for steak as a loose guideline for how long to cook it. The best gauge for cooking will always be the scientific approach… a handy meat thermometer.

(Quick temperature guidelines: Rare is 120 degrees, Medium is 125 degrees, and Medium is 130 degrees)

More important than the degrees though is letting your meat rest. Don’t cut into it to check it when you pull it out of the pan. Give it plenty of time to let everything redistribute itself and then slice into it. That is the real secret to a deliciously juicy steak.

I love steak cooked out on the grill, but refuse to venture out there in the cold. Pictured above is my favorite tool for cooking steak and I got it at Goodwill! It is a cast iron grill pan that had rusted and been poorly cared for. I loved it up and got it in much better condition, and this is my favorite tool for cooking a beautiful steak without getting cold. I found one similar to it on Amazon, should you also be in the market for staying warm, and it costs less than $20!

Bella’s Rosemary Red Potatoes (adapted from Allrecipes Dinner Tonight Cookbook)

2 tablespoons butter, melted

1 tablespoon vegetable oil

8 small red potatoes, scrubbed and cut into wedges

1 tablespoon chopped rosemary

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon pepper

Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Mix together melted butter and oil; pour into a 9×13″ baking dish. Place the potatoes into the dish and stir until coated. Sprinkle with rosemary, salt, and pepper. Cover with aluminum foil. Bake in the preheated oven for 30 minutes or until the potatoes are tender. Stir potatoes to ensure even cooking. Yields four servings.

Pan-Fried Asparagus (adapted from Allrecipes Dinner Tonight Cookbook)

1/4 cup butter

1 tablespoon olive oil

1/2 teaspoon coarse salt

1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper

3 cloves garlic, minced

1/2 pound fresh asparagus spears, trimmed

Melt butter in a skillet over medium-high heat. Stir in the olive oil, salt, and pepper. Cook garlic in butter for one minute, but do not brown. Add asparagus and cook for five to ten minutes or until crisp-tender, turning asparagus to ensure even cooking. Yields two servings.

This dinner was served with a loaf of french bread (on sale), festive bakery cupcakes (on sale), and a bottle of red wine (guess what? ON SALE!!)

Looking for more ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day on a budget? Be sure to read our article on enjoying a frugal Valentine’s Day this year!

Do you dine at home for special occasion or dine out? What recipes do you like to prepare on special occasion nights? Please share!

Freebie Friday:February 5, 2010

It seems that my publishing while I was away didn’t happen for our weekly round-up of freebies! I am so sorry that this is getting up so late and just realized that this never posted. That will teach me to go to a blog conference and not bring my computer with me again!

Please leave a comment to thank our amazing freebie hostess, Heather from Freebies 4 Mom, for sharing  her freebie list with us each week. Her site offers so many freebies and deals for moms that it is  must-stop destination for browsing each week! We are so thankful to Heather for her help!!


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