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As I shared with you last week, I am working on getting happier this year through the help of, “The Happiness Project,” by Gretchen Rubin.

The first month of her book focuses on boosting energy and has several ways that you can do that.

I have been working on four specific goals for this month.

1. Going to bed on time.
2. Dealing with the nagging list of things to do.
3. Kicking clutter to the curb.
4. Returning to a good exercise routine.

You may wonder why kicking clutter to the curb would be an energy booster. I am telling you, my friends, that dealing with clutter on a daily basis is a huge drain to my energy. No matter how hard I try though, it seems that it is a constant battle. I have papers coming home from school, mail and newspapers, magazines, and a constant influx of randomness that seems to enter our lives. Couple that with the “best Christmas ever”, according to my children, and we have a possible avalanche on our hands.

Yes, it is easy for me to tsk tsk and wag my fingers at others though. Did you notice how I never blame myself in this process? I can watch organizing shows and put myself on a pedestal or blame my children and their toys for the clutter in our home, but do I ever look at myself? Not likely!

Let’s look at a space in my home that is just my space…my section in the closet!


Wow, is that an energy drainer or what? Getting ready in the morning has been horrible for me and this is one space that needed some addressing!

I pulled every single item out of the closet and evaluated if I ever wore it or not. No surprise that there are many pieces in this wardrobe that I am not wearing, many because I simply could not find them! These got pulled into a bag to donate to our local Goodwill.

Using the advice that was offered to me by my closest fashion confidant, Kathy Friend, I sorted these items by color so that I could find what I need quickly and also could discover what areas in my color scheme needed a boost and what areas would need some scaling back.

Oh, black, how I love thee! Just seeing this section in my closet makes me happy. A girl can never have too many black items, in my opinion, although I did take note that my closet is a little heavy on the black and could use a little boost in the browns, greens, and blues. Now I will know exactly what to keep my eye out for when I do my thrift shopping!

To go along with my Type A personality, I also organized my colored section by style. Collared shirts and blazers were together, camisoles and tanks were in the front for easy grabbing, and t-shirts were all together in a row.


This is my closet after! I took out two bags of clothes that I did not wear, got rid of the randomness that doesn’t even belong in the closet, and got rid of non-matching socks or socks from high school (I know, so embarrassing!)

The very best part though is that I freed a shelf up and put not a thing on it. I thought only rich folks had free shelves. In fact,  I have never had a free shelf in my home and I will admit that I always blamed it on the fact that our space/home is smaller. While that may be true, perhaps my clutter is the cause and not the size of the space.

The cost to  transform this space? ZERO DOLLARS! The superstores will have you fooled this time of year and make you believe that the key to getting organized comes in the form of more storage containers and fancy organizers. No, the real key to transforming your clutter is not to organize it… it is to GET RID OF IT!

To remind myself to only keep what I wear, I went back to the Peter Walsh technique of turning my hangers around when I wear something so at the end of this season, I can do another weeding.

Now of course I started to evaluate my husband’s section of the closet and thought how nice it would be if he would go through what he is not wearing. I then had to remind myself of this year’s personal commandment- “I can only change me.”

I moved on mentally and decided to tackle the basement instead.

What area in your home is draining you of energy? Do you have a spot in your house that you are proud of that gives you a boost when you see it! Please share here!


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    I can totally relate to the energy drain of clutter! It seems we have more “clutter” now that we have two littles age 3 and 6 months. It’s not really their stuff that creates the clutter as I have made a concentrated effort to keep toys to a minimum, it is that I don’t have the time anymore to tidy my clutter!

    Thank goodness for Grandma and Grandpa who can take the kids and give me time to declutter while my hubby is at work…. If only I could get him get rid of the clutter in “Manland” aka the basement!!

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    Yes, I so agree! My kids don’t create the clutter necessarily, but not having the time to tackle my own stuff has been a drain on my energy.

    Oh, if we could only change those “manlands” Hee, hee!

    Thank you so much for sharing about your experience with this!!

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    Yes! I need to go through my closet again. It’s hard for me to know what to get rid of, though. My job now is pretty much business casual/casual. I have many suits from previous jobs. Do I chuck them and replace later if needed? Argh!

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    Jennifer- Is there a place you could store them until you need them?

    I had some suits, but by the time I get back to the corporate world (should I ever get back to it), the suits will not be in style anymore. There are some great organizations where you can benefit women in need who need business attire that I am sure they would find a good home if you decide to donate them.

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    So true – looks great – ONE THING though – YOU MUST get the NEW “SLIM”, “HUGGABLE” -whatever name they go by-HANGERS….they REALLY REALLY make a huge difference when it comes to space and clothes cling so nicely to them….but then that would have cost ya!

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    Amy Reply:

    Hangers would be lovely! I hate my hangers! I have seen them at TJ Maxx and might put a Christmas gift card towards a few. To have spare hangers after the big closet overhaul was so fantastic too- that will definitely help with the hanger budget :)

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    One thing!? I’m supposed to pick one thing that is draining me of energy!? I feel your pain on the clutter overtaking everything… I feel like every room in the house is FULL of it! I just figure I’ll clean each room really well and then shut the door when I’m done… then we’re moving into the garage to live while the house stays nice. :)

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    Amy Reply:

    Jess- LOVE it! Moving in the garage sounds grand…but a little cold here :) Decluttering is definitely a pain, but I am hoping to have a couple moments of peace :)

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    what a great reminder…time to purge the closet. I am trying to get the office/crafting area under control so I can actually get some projects done during the stay inside cold time. Summer comes and it’s outside all the time!
    Oh, was reading through my copy of Parents and saw your smiling face. Congrats and keep up the great work!

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    Amy Reply:

    Jessica- Winter is definitely a great time to tackle it. I figure I am snowed in anyway, I might as well get a few things done around here :)

    Thank you so much for the congratulations! That was a happy surprise to see myself in there! I am working on posting about that tonight- very exciting and definitely my target audience :) Thanks again!

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    Looks great Amy! I agree, clutter is a huge energy drain.

    I’ve got my clothes grouped by color and style. I did that about 5 years ago. I was shocked when I did it because I realized I had a ton of black, navy and cranberry and almost nothing else. I’ve done some shopping since. ; )

    Enjoy! I find it’s sooo much easier to get dressed. I hope you will too!

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    I cannot stand clutter. It makes me feel defeated. My husband doesn’t mind clutter and it drives me nuts. Oh, and my kids don’t mind clutter either. Our house is pretty cluttered if I don’t keep up with it. But I love nothing more than organization. Seriously, if my husband offered to buy me diamonds or have a closet/space professionally organized, I’d go for the organization in a heartbeat. (This is all pie-in-the-sky thinking). Glad you wrote this, though, as I’m on an organizational kick this month.

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    Amy Reply:

    Me too, Kristina! I am seriously on a kick. I think I have removed six cars full of stuff so far! I am hoping to inspire a few others in our family :) Ha!

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    Hi Amy! Good for you getting your closet purged out. Clutter is definitely draining and you really notice how much it was weighing on you after it’s gone. My daughter has trouble sleeping if her room is too cluttered and we really have to monitor it. Of course she doesn’t see it even though I’ve proved it to her time and time again.

    Storage containers are nice (and even a little addicting :) ) but are definitely not the first answer to clutter. First we must sort and purge and only then do we get to have fun with our containers.

    Great stuff!

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    Amy Reply:

    I so agree, Laura, it is both draining and does weigh on me when I glimpse corners of my home like this. To be frank, there is plenty more that I can work on. I have found that the more I declutter though the more empty containers I have to organize the current stuff because they have been emptied of junk. I feel like I get new containers when I have empty ones and find a new way to repurpose it.

    Thank you so much for your comment- you know I highly respect your organizing abilities!! :)

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    This was a great kick in the pants to me…I just got rid of a bunch of pre-having kids clothes, but I am going to pull everything out this weekend like you did to get rid of more. Oh, to have an unused shelf!

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    Amy Reply:

    Rah, rah! I will be your cheerleader! You can do it, Emily!!! I believe in you!!

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    I just had to add to the praise of Kathy Friend! She helped me out with my closet 2 years ago, and it’s changed my life. I was holding on to so many things that I never wore or that I did wear that I shouldn’t. It was painful to see my closet so bare at first, but now it’s a blessing. I know what I have and I know it’s all stuff that I actually wear. I took her advice on organizing by color and realized that even though I said I loved wearing colors, nearly everything I owned was black or grey. Having an organized closet has saved me money, since I know when I’m out shopping that I don’t need another piece of clothing in that style/color.

    Congrats on the mention in Parents magazine, Amy!

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    Happy New Year Amy! I haven’t been back to the site in weeks, life kinda got away from me!

    LOVE the closet decluttering post!

    I did my closet last fall, and to my amazement I have more workable outfits now than I did before. When you can see everything, you can see that “hey, this tee would look great under this sweater!” I got rid of the “guilt wear”-you know, things that don’t fit any more-and gave everything in good shape to Goodwill. Some of it I was a bit sad to see go, but once it was gone I felt SUCH a huge sense of relief. The sewing room closet is NEXT! LOL!

    Can I ask though-what closet organizing system is that in your closet? Or was it there when you moved in…my house was built in ’63 and there is TONS of wasted space in the closets, and your system looks perfect for our needs.

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    Amy Reply:

    Colleen- Welcome back! So glad you had a moment to stop by!

    Our house was built in 1967 and had a horrible closet in it. I got these ClosetMaid Organizers over by the hardware/tools in Target. It required a bit of retro-fitting and one shelf on the top doesn’t fit that great, but it is so much better than what we had! I think they cost around $40-50 or so and then I got large fabric bins to store our socks on the bottom. I hope that helps!!

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    Thank you so much for this post. I’m doing my own happiness project this year, and you’ve been a huge inspiration. My goal for next week is to get my closet (and maybe the kids’ closets too) in some sort of order.

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    When did you sneak into my house and take pictures of my closet for your “before” shots? Seriously… that is SO my closet!

    Congrats on such a huge project! I’m sure it feels great! Here’s hoping you keep it that way! Here’s also hoping I do this soon too!

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    Just what I needed to get motivated to get better organized. I am also going to download “The Toothpick Principle” and this weekend plan to get busy.

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