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The Hidden Secrets to Perfect Cut-Out Sugar Cookies

I love, love, love to cook. Baking bread, whipping up fancy dinners, making stacks of gourmet waffles…those are my favorite thing to do! Baking cookies? Total fail. I don’t know what it is, but making great cookies is not something I am good at. To be honest, I just don’t think I have the patience for it. More than that, I haven’t had the time. I rely on bar cookies, quick breads, and other easy snacks to get us by.

Of all of the fails, cut-out sugar cookies have been the biggest fail for me. They are misshapen, taste like cardboard, and are far too time-consuming. I have tried a half dozen recipes with the same results and had determined that I was destined to be a cut-out cookie failure.

I decided this year though that I would find a good recipe that would look nice and yield a tasty result. Where do I turn when I don’t have time to run a full-fledged test kitchen out of my home? My America’s Test Kitchen Family Cookbook. The recipe was entirely unique and promised fantastic results. Crisp cookies, full flavor, and step-by-step tutorials that would be worth eating and sharing.

The first step towards a great sugar cookie was to use superfine sugar. According to the cookbook, superfine sugar gives the cookies a finer crumb and crisper texture. You can buy this in the store or do what I did which was to process the granulated sugar in a food processor or blender for thirty seconds and then measure out 3/4 cup of the sugar for the recipe. You know me, I chose the cheaper option for this recipe and put my blender to work.

The second step to their perfect cookie was a “reverse” mixing method. Instead of the traditional creaming of the sugar with the butter they took a different approach to create a cookie that would be sturdy enough to decorate. With this method, you mix together all of the dry ingredients and then add butter tablespoon by tablespoon to create the dough. The dough is finished with cream cheese, to pull everything together and make the dough workable, and you finish the mixing with a vanilla finish.

The dough looked like this. It looked crumbly and not very wet. You were instructed to pull the dough together with your hands and form it into a ball. I wasn’t too sure how this was going to work out. It just did not seem sticky enough to me.

After a couple of minutes of kneading, this is what my dough looked like. I don’t think my dough has ever looked this good.

You were to divide the dough and pop these in the refrigerator, flattened into two 4″ disks, and leave them in the fridge for 20-30 minutes.


While the dough is chilling, you can tidy up the kitchen and then get everything else ready to go. Line your cookie sheets with parchment paper, break out those cookie cutters, and tear off two sheets of parchment paper per dough disk to roll out your cookies. That’s right, no floured counters which will save on clean-up time!

Put your disk between the parchment paper and roll the dough out. I secured one set of corners between me and the counter to hold the paper in place. Let me know if you know a better way to do this, but that seemed to keep everything secure without any special tools. Now pop the dough back in the refrigerator for ten more minutes or until the dough is firm for cutting. I know it is a total pain and feels like a waste of time, but it will yield a cookie with sharp edges and one that will hold its shape. I figured if I was already going to all of this trouble, it would be worth the extra effort to do it right.


At this point, I was already patting myself on the back. Aren’t you glad you weren’t in the kitchen with me for this annoying moment? The cookies cut out beautifully and were firm enough that I could easily transfer them over to the parchment paper without losing feet and snowman arms and wings off of birds. I bet you are glad you never saw my past cookies!

Into the oven they will go while you stand watching them through the glass and continuing to annoyingly pat yourself on the back. Instead of letting one rack stay doughy and one rack get burnt, they have you rotate the cookie sheets halfway through. What a novel idea!

These are my cookies after baking! I KNOW! One thing I want to note about my cookie experience is that the ten minutes is all that is really needed to bake them. They didn’t look done to me, but they were so don’t overcook them. I had one batch that got out in the nick of time after I added two minutes to the cooking time. They will harden up for you without any additional cooking.


They recommend decorating with glaze. I am not a fan of how the glaze tastes. I stick to a traditional frosting recipe that requires a little more time to harden, but has a thicker tasting frosting.

Since our cookie sheets were lined with parchment paper, I took the paper off and gave each kid one to use to decorate their cookies. This caught any runaway sprinkles or the sprinkle dumping that seems to occur every year (see above for examples).


The cookies looked good, but the real question is did they taste good? I asked our very official taste-testing and decorating crew to give me their honest opinions.

Sometimes a picture is all you need! They were perfect, not crumbly, sturdy, but not thick, tangy, but buttery. Basically, perfection!

Perfect Cut-Out Sugar Cookies (Recipe from America’s Test Kitchen Family Cookbook)

Recipe says it will yield approximately 3 dozen cookies. I doubled the recipe & got 32 cookies with my cookie cutters. The amount of cookies will definitely depend on your cookie cutter sizes!

2 1/2 cups flour
3/4 cup superfine sugar (just whipped 1 cup sugar in the food processor until it was blended and then measured out 3/4 cup)
1/4 teaspoon salt
16 tablespoons (2 sticks) unsalted butter, cut into 1/2″ pieces & softened
2 tablespoons cream cheese, softened
2 teaspoons vanilla extract

Whisk the flour, sugar, & salt together in a large bowl. Beat the butter into the flour mixture, one piece at a time using an electric mixer on medium-low speed, then continue to beat until the mixture looks crumbly and slightly wet, 1 to 2 minutes. Beat in the cream cheese & vanilla until he dough just begins to form large clumps, about thirty seconds.

Knead the dough in the large bowl by hand a few times until it forms a large, cohesive mass. Turn the dough out onto a clean counter, divide it in half, and apt into a two four inch disks. Wrap the disks tightly in plastic wrap and refrigerate until they begin to firm up, 20 to 30 minutes.

Adjust an oven rack to the middle position and heat the oven to 375. Work with one disk at a time, roll out the dough to a 1/8″ thickness between two sheets of parchment paper. Slide the rolled dough and parchment onto a baking sheet & refrigerate again until firm.

Working with one
sheet of dough at a time cut out shapes using cookie cutters and lay on two parchment-lined baking sheets, spaced about 1″ apart. Bake the cookies until light golden brown, about ten minutes, rotating the baking sheet halfway through baking.

Let the cookies cool on the baking sheet for two minutes before transferring them to a wire rack to cool completely, about thirty minutes. When cooled, the cookies can be decorated as desired.

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Sugar Cookie Frosting

4 cups confectioners sugar
1/2 cup shortening
5 tablespoons milk
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Food coloring

In a large bowl, cream together confectioners sugar and shortening until smooth. Gradually mix in milk and vanilla with an electric mixer until smooth and stiff, about five minutes. Color with food coloring if desired.

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I would highly recommend adding this cookbook to your holiday wish list. That same recipe can be adapted for many different types of cookies! It has definitely earned its keep on my bookshelf.

Do you have a favorite holiday cookie recipe? Please share your recipes or links here!

Freebie Friday: December 11, 2009

Happy Freebie Friday, everyone! A huge thank you to Freebies 4 Mom for sharing their favorite freebies of the week with our readers. Take advantage of a great Christmas deal this year and see how you can get Leapfrog Tag books for only $5.99 with free shipping. Heather features great deals & freebies all week long so be sure to check her site regularly!

This week on MomAdvice you can get some inspiration for your next holiday brunch, make a beautiful holiday wreath, find some ideas for your holiday wish list, and get more fun ideas for the holidays from other bloggers. We also have our weekly Apron Full of Giveaways for you which includes a giveaway of a Webkinz Jr (for ages 3-6) for our readers.

Happy holidays, everyone!!

Food

Stacy’s Pita Chips (All You magazine)
Stacy’s Pita Chips coupon for full-size bag (on Facebook)
Del Taco (2 free tacos)
Chocolate Bar at aerie stores (every Thursday in Dec.)

2010 Oriental Trading Co. Calendar
Daily Lit - free digital books
Jesse James “My Cowboy” free MP3 (Walmart)
Forbes Investors’ Guide (Mercury Magazines)
U.S. News & World Report (RewardsGold)
Redbox 1-Night Rentals (using codes SNSV26, GANTS9, DVDONME, BREAKROOM)
Blockbuster Express 1-Night Rentals (using codes G29TA1, GT11A, KIOSK)
ProProfs Brain Games

Home & Garden

Hallmark $5 off $5 printable coupon
A Story Before Bed (free recording using code TY3J-RT3Y-YM3E)
ABC Animal Orchestra board book (LeapFrog)
Right@Home Holiday Gift Basket
Xerox’s Let’s Say Thanks (free postcards to troops)
Wii & Jello Mouse House Party
DiGiorno Pizza House Party

Upcoming Freebie Events:
Please call your local store or restaurant to confirm they are participating in these freebie events


DECEMBER

Bass Pro Shops Santa’s Wonderland begins (free 4×6 Santa photo)
Michaels Free Crafts & Demos
12 – Lakeshore Learning Kid Crafts make a holiday card stand 11-3
12 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make Christmas Ornaments 10-11
19 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make Pet Treat Keeper 10-11

All I Want for Christmas…The ’09 Edition

Isn’t it fun to peek into someone else’s holiday wish list? I wanted to share with you my Christmas wish list for this year and hear what is on your list!

40″ circular knitting needle set- I have been hearing a lot about magic loop knitting and I have some circular scarves that I would like to attempt knitting… not to mention my 2-at-a-time sock knitting that I want to try! This set of needles would put off my procrastination on learning this new technique and would be a perfectly cozy activity to do over the winter ($19.99)

lavender & vanilla pillow mist- If I have trouble sleeping, I spray a little lavender pillow mist on my pillow to help me conk out. I have had the same bottle for years, but I am down to my last sprays. I know my husband will never buy this for me as he finds the process of me spraying my pillows annoying. To which I simply say…whatever. There is nothing more soothing and I am hoping someone out there will replenish my supply ($10.00)
6-slice waffle iron- This is a very expensive gift therefore making it very unlikely I will receive it, but I am dying to get a waffle iron that produces more than a single waffle at a time. I make waffles every single Saturday for the entire week and this six slice waffle iron would give me the opportunity to sit and eat with my family instead of eating a waffle alone… Wait, no more eating alone? Maybe it is better that we keep our current arrangement! ($79.95)


Norah Jones & Imogen Heap music- I am a huge, huge, huge music lover and there were so many good albums that came out this year that I would love to have wrapped under my tree. Norah Jones & Imogen Heap are my top two requests this year and would definitely help round out my music collection ($11.99)

new calendar- I am writing activities in the margins of my current planner and can’t wait to get a fresh new one to fill with our activities. This is my favorite calendar of all and I have bought it the last two years and it is one of my most used items in my house. It is the perfect size to tuck in my purse and has pockets for business cards and random receipts. It is also durable and has survived all sorts of spill horrors and messes because of the waterproof cover. ($14.95)

perfume- Every girl should have a signature scent. I want my signature scent to be this Falling in Love perfume. I just need to convince my husband that a signature scent is important to me. Even the teeniest little spray bottle would make me happy and it sure would make those poor saleswomen at Sephora happy too. I don’t have to keep requesting little samples to stick in my purse and could finally get a bottle for myself. It is an extravagant luxury though so we shall see what Santa will bring ($15-60)

cookbooks- My cookbook collection could use a little updating and this year I have asked for the America’s Test Kitchen Family Baking Book<
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Cake Doctor cookbooks. These are two that I would like to stop paying fines on at the library because I check them out so often. The new Pioneer Woman Cookbook would also be a fantastic addition underneath the Christmas tree. ($10.37-$19.57)

What made your Christmas list this year?

Wordless Wednesday: Christmas Beauty



Wishing you a moment today to pause and enjoy all of this Christmas beauty around you! Pause for just a moment- you deserve it!

Amy’s Notebook 12.09.09


These cereal box houses would be a fun project to do with the kids (@ Bella Dia)

I love these knitted hat patterns for the whole family (@ The Purl Bee)

This girl’s bedroom makeover is simply amazing (@ life in grace)

I love this festive Christmas pantry (@ The Farm Chicks)

This screen printing 101 tutorial is so cool (@ Lil Blue Boo)

This weekend project entryway bench is brilliant (@ ohdeedoh)

This well-read Christmas wreath is so cute & thrifty (@ The Shabby Nest)

I would love to eat some of this cranberry orange granola (@ Life as Mom)

This countdown to Christmas garland is so creative (@ Pepper Paints)

These party flowers would add so much festivity to my holiday outfit (@ design sponge)

This felt advent calendar is beautiful (@ Smile & Wave)

This shrimp pasta in a foil packet looks like a creatively delicious dinner (@ The Pioneer Woman)

These pumpkin scones would be a festive addition to the holiday spread (@ Annie’s Eats)

Gifts You Can Make: Kimba-Inspired Holiday Wreaths


A Soft Place to Land has been a longtime source for me to find fantastically frugal decorating ideas. It started with two white pumpkins that sit on my step each year, it graduated into a ping pong wreath extravaganza, and now it has moved into the world of holiday wreaths.

When Kimba shared her e-book with me, it came with no expectations other than a chance to read it and enjoy it. I couldn’t help but read it and become immediately inspired to make the projects that were highlighted. The tutorials were easy to understand, the projects were budget-friendly, and I found a few new holiday traditions I would like to try.

Pictured above is the first holiday wreath that I decided to make out of her book. Putting things in perspective, this wreath is a gigantic 30″ wreath that looks expensively store-bought. It looks so expensively store-bought that I was genuinely offended that my husband never remarked a word about it. After stewing all day on irritation, I asked if he realized that this required a bit of work and effort with my glue gun. He was stunned…he thought I bought it. “If you only knew how much I am worth,” I muttered beneath my breath.

Pricing wreaths out at Hobby Lobby, I found I could get a scrawny 20″ wreath with three pine cones on it for about $100. This 30″ overloaded wreath cost about $30 in materials and is a genuine show-stopper! The tutorial guided you through ideas on how to achieve a full wreath, how to add texture into your wreath, and guidance even on hanging your wreath. The ideas were simply genius!

Unfortunately, my glass door would not shut on all of the genius work that was done. It required the entire brunt force of my body to shut the glass door and it smashed all of its elegance out of it. No wreath that pretty should look like that.


Our house addition on a budget was the perfect new location to display our gloriously gorgeous new wreath. I was able to mount the wreath with a trusty 3M plastic hook that can be removed without any damage to my new door. The best part about this new location is that you can even see it from our front window of our house. It makes our kitchen area so festive and I know it will be used yearly.

Unlucky for me, I was back to square one on my front door. Fortunately, I bought enough materials to make a smaller version too!


The red cranberries and red ornaments make my door really pop and make our house look more welcoming. Luckily, this modestly sized wreath (20″ wide) fits comfortably behind my glass door.

Of course, after seeing my wreaths, I have gotten a few gift requests that I make a few more! This truly would make a fantastic gift for someone you love or as a gift to yourself!

Pick up a copy today of, “A Very Kimba Christmas,” for a mere $8!

An Apron Full of Giveaways 12.08.09

Photo Credit: pamwares , $32.00

Thanks so much for swinging by for our Apron Full of Giveaways! Each week we share a link list of great contests to enter and share about our own latest giveaways.

Our brand new giveaway this week is for an adorable Webkinz Jr Plush Toy, perfect for our parents with children in the 3-6 year old category! You won’t want to miss this cute furry friend so make sure to get that entry in!

Today our giveaway from Scott Common Sense ends at 8PM. We are giving away a $100 Visa gift card to put towards your holiday shopping this year. If you didn’t win our first giveaway, you have a second chance of winning!

My goal is to help you have the best Christmas ever and we promise more giveaways next week!

Below are the contest links to our contests and to yours! If you are hosting a contest please link it up below. Sorry, we aren’t giving away the aprons just showcasing them! Please put your site name and then what type of contest you are hosting. For example, “MomAdvice (Children’s Movies).”

Please let me know if you have any questions and good luck to each of you!

Our Deliciously Pink Princess Birthday Party

This past weekend we celebrated Emily’s 4th birthday. Being a December baby sure is hard because your birthday is always crammed into the festivities. This year we decided to do a separate friend party and family party. Her family party was celebrated this weekend with a holiday brunch at our house following her holiday concert. This took a lot of party planning to make it come together, but it was so wonderful to be sitting down fifteen minutes after everyone arrived to a delicious meal together.


I wanted her table to look very festive and Emily’s favorite color this year is pink. I pulled out a cake stand that I had bought from Goodwill and topped it with vintage-colored ornaments that we had in our holiday supplies already. The cardboard princess hat and pink vinyl tablecloth came from the newly opened Christmas Tree Shoppe ($1 for the hat and $2.99 for the tablecloth). I loved tying in the holiday and birthday elements together.

One thing I did purchase were the cupcakes for the party. Emily wanted pink princess cupcakes with sprinkles and cherries on top. My girlfriend Holly, of Sweet Cakes by Holly, was just launching her cake business in town. There is nothing I love more than work-at-home moms supporting work-at-home moms. Hiring her to do the job gave me the time I needed to pull the other food together AND support another mom doing her business. They were fantastically wonderful and pulled in our theme perfectly! The cupcake stand was found at Walmart for $5 and will be used for her friend birthday party this year too!



Emily got so many princess-y gifts including three princess nightgowns, a princess robe, a Fancy Nancy tutu with feather boa, oodles of girlie books (the favorite being Pinkalicious that was featured in our Top 10 Books to Give), a Madeline doll, a Barbie princess movie, and her very first Barbie.

Here are two of my favorite recipes from our princess birthday brunch…


Perfectly Pink Princess Party Punch

2 liter bottle strawberry-flavored soda (I found this at Walmart)
2 liter (half a bottle) Cherry 7-Up
1 (12 ounce) can frozen pink lemonade concentrate
1 can pineapple juice

Mix all the ingredients together for the punch. This will fill one large punch bowl or two smaller ones.

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Overnight Breakfast Casserole for a Crowd

1 pound sliced ham (lunch meat)
2 teaspoons mustard
½ teaspoon salt
6 eggs, beaten
2 cups milk
8 slices white bread, toasted & cut into cubes
8 ounces mild cheddar cheese

In a medium bowl, mix together mustard, salt, eggs, and milk. Add the ham (cut into cubes), bread cubes, and cheese, and stir to cat evenly. Pour into a greased 9×13″ baking dish. Cover & chill in the refrigerator for eight hours, or overnight. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Cover and bake 60 minutes. Uncover and reduce temperature to 325 and bake for an additional 15-25 minutes or until set.

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Things We Did To Keep the Party… On Track

1. Cooking Prep Was Done the Day Before- I opted for overnight breakfast casseroles that could be made and refrigerated until we needed them instead of something that would need to be prepared the morning of the event.

2. I Used the Preset Functions on My Appliances- Take a peek at your stove and see if your stove offers a “Cook/Bake and Hold” option. I set my temperature to bake the casseroles at
350 degrees and then the length of time that they would need to cook. Once the casseroles were cooked, the hold option switches to keep the food warm (ours went down to 170 degrees). I also preset my coffeemaker and timed it to the time I anticipated we would be eating.

Thanks to taking advantage of these preset functions on my appliances, I was able to attend my daughter’s holiday recital and have the food cooking and coffee brewing while we enjoyed her show. If it wasn’t so fresh in my mind all of the prep work from the day before, you would have thought that the food made itself!

3. All of the Prep Was Done in Stages- Hosting a party can be really overwhelming so I always try and break down the prep work over the course of the week. One day is spent party-planning/list-making, the next day is spent shopping for what is needed, another day is spent cleaning & decorating, the last day is the food preparation and wrapping gifts. If you look at the grand picture, it is quite overwhelming. If you look at it in smaller chunks though, it makes it a little easier to manage.

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Things We Did To Keep the Party… On Budget

1. We Threw a Reusable & Repurposed Kind of Party- My set of white dishes were put to good use again and I had leftover pink napkins from another party that I used for the big day. We opted for a vinyl tablecloth that will now be used for all of our girl parties ($2.99) and a cheap princess hat that made my daughter so happy.

The centerpiece was made from found items from around the house and gathered together for her table and we used the ultimate centerpiece to finish out the birthday table…the food!

If you are looking for accessories or centerpieces to keep your parties frugal, hit the thrift shops for some amazing items to take your parties to the next level. Our punch bowl was a $2 find (complete with dainty cups), the cake stand was only $1. Mix in those yard sale finds with your fancy dishes and no one will ever know the difference!

2. We Threw a Birthday Brunch- Brunch is the ultimate in frugal eating and one way that I keep my party budgets on track. With almost twenty people in our immediate family, it can be difficult to stay on budget and still throw a great party. Casseroles, coffee, and punch all are frugal food & drink alternatives. We did splurge this year with a baker’s dozen of Panera bagels and by purchasing the cupcakes this year, but by keeping the rest of the food frugal, we stayed within our budget.

3. Party Gifts Were Compliments of Swagbucks- I horde and deposit my Swagbuck points and credit them towards gift cards for Amazon. I got a nice stack of books for our little princess using these points with all of her favorite books that we have to keep checking out from the library. I don’t know anything more frugal than free gifts!

Need more party inspiration? Swing by and see this Nutcracker Ballet Birthday Party from Like Merchant Ships!

How do your birthday bashes on budget and on track in your house? Feel free to share recipes & party-planning tips here!

Freebie Friday: December 4, 2009

Happy Freebie Friday, everyone! Again, all the credit for this fantastic freebie list goes to Freebies 4 Mom. If you haven’t visited her site lately, make sure to enter her $300 Marriott Gift Card giveaway! Who couldn’t use a night away, especially after all of the stress of the holidays! Thank you, Heather!

This week has been a busy week on MomAdvice as we share ideas for holiday preparations! Don’t miss our recipes for quick breads you can make with free printable gift tags, free pattern ideas for knitted hats, a handmade Advent calendar you can create with things you already have, and some great ideas for budget-friendly guy gifts. We also have our weekly Apron Full of Giveaways which includes a $100 Visa Gift Card giveaway from Scott Common Sense.

Happy Holidays!

Health & Beauty

Benefiber Orange (Walmart)
Huggies Little Movers (Walmart, size 4 or 5)
Pampers Extra Protection (Walmart, size 5)

Food

12 Days of Free Whataburger

Entertainment

Tennis Magazine (FreeBizMag)

Home & Garden

Cleaning for a Reason - free housecleaning services for cancer patients
Right@Home Holiday Gift Basket
Pillsbury 2010 Calendar (new members)
Eat Better America 2010 Calendar (new members)
Betty Crocker 2010 Calendar (new members)
Aveeno Tote Bag

Upcoming Freebie Events:
Please call your local store or restaurant to confirm they are participating in these freebie events


DECEMBER

Bass Pro Shops Santa’s Wonderland begins (free 4×6 Santa photo)
5 – Michael’s Santa’s Workshop 10-1
5 – The Home Depot Kids Workshop make a wagon 9-12
5 – Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic make a Gingerbread House 10-11
5 – Lakeshore Learning Kid Crafts make a celebration candle 11-3

Ideas for Budget-Friendly Gifts For Guys

(Image Credit: Craig)

I don’t know what it is about men, but it seems that people are always looking for gift ideas for them. I have never really had a problem with buying for guys, in particular, but struggle more for those people in my life who seem to have everything. Buying gifts for the guys in your life doesn’t have to be difficult and I want to arm you with some of my favorite gifts for guys that are always a hit.

Give the Gift of Music- I am a big music-lover and the men in my life are music lovers too. Music is always a great gift to give because it is something that can be enjoyed for a very long time. I love to make a “mixed tape” of great music and then follow these instructions for making a very personalized CD cover with pictures that I know the recipient would like. Print the covers on heavy card stock and add a personal message to the recipient.

If the man in your life is more into the digital music, why not give him an iTunes gift card that can be redeemed for picking his own favorite music? These gift cards start at just $15, which would make a great gift for any music lover.

Give the Gift of Movies- One of the best gifts I have ever given has to be the gift of movies. Netflix offers a wide range of plans that you can choose from and you can purchase a month or two for your recipient for very little money. Their plans start at $8.99 and you can present the subscription in a fun way or even tuck the gift in with a popcorn tub and and some movie theater snacks.

Give the Gift of Reading- Guys love magazine subscriptions and I have found that magazine subscriptions can be bought very inexpensively off of eBay. Make your own card and tell your guy that the gift is redeemable for any magazine of his choice (except those filthy magazines which will never be purchased for your guy thankyouverymuch) and that you will get him a gift subscription. I have found subscriptions to magazines for $3 or $4 for an entire year versus the newsstand prices. If it is in your budget, you could subscribe to two or three without breaking the bank and let him think you spent a mint on him.

Give the Gift of Food & Drink- They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and I have found this is absolutely true. Whip up a special batch of his favorite snack and pair it with some of his favorite coffee. You could make him a batch of these sugar and spice nuts and pair it with a little bucket of his favorite beer. By pairing your homemade specialty with a store-bought favorite drink, you have a great combination for a perfectly budget-friendly gift.

If you want to extend the gift further, wrap up his favorite snack and give him coupons to redeem the snacks for later. This is especially effective with college-aged guys and we have made more than a few college students happy with our boxes of goodies. You can download and print our free college coupon template and mount these to card stock for holiday gift-giving.

Give the Gift of Accessories- Just like women love a good handbag, a pretty scarf, or a hot pair of shoes, men have a desire for accessories too… just not the same kind as us. If your man is into gadgets and already has them, why not supply him with some accessories for the items he already has? For example, if he has a Nintendo Wii, you could give him some Wii points to put towards one of his favorite old Mario Brothers games. Likewise, if he uses any other game system, you could buy an extra controller or a different style of controller so he could play with more of his friends. If he has a Kindle you could give him a gift certificate to Amazon to buy some book downloads. Is he into computers? Why not try and find some computer software that he could put to good use by taking advantage of those rebate offers from the office supplies stores. We often forget to reload the tech gadgets we already have so this is a cost-effective way of building upon investments that have already been made.

There are the other accessories in life too so take a peek at his belt, his wallet, his hat, his scarf, his planner. While not maybe as much fun as some of the other gifts on the list, upgrading your man’s accessories can be very thoughtful and will be used for years to come. I love to go to stores like TJ Maxx and Marshall’s to find these accessories because they are so deeply discounted and you can get some really great brand-names for an affordable price.

Give the Gift of Believing In Your Man- I know how much I appreciate it when someone believes in me and what I do so why not try and make that into a gift for someone you love? Are they self-employed or trying to start their own side business? Why not place an order for business cards for them? VistaPrint offers very affordable prices on business cards and think how much that would mean to someone who is trying to start their own business. You could pair that with a business card case that has been engraved with his initials which would make the gift even more personal.

Does the man in your life have a hobby that he is passionate about? Why not get him a book, a tool, or some items off of his wish list to support that hobby. Make these gifts more personal with a note that tells them that you are proud of them and give him a free pass to watch the children so he can go and pursue his hobby for the day… with no flack from you. Men value their alone time just as much as women so give him permission to go hit a few of those golf balls that are wrapped under the tree and enjoy some of your own quality time alone with the kids.

Give the Gift of Memories- Do you know something about the man in your life that you could use as a creative gift? Think of their favorite book as a child or think of a gift that he said he always wanted, but never got when he was young. Try and find those items on eBay and write a personal message to them about how you always remembered that this was special to them. You don’t have to pay to get a first-edition of the item, remember that the thought is there and he will
appreciate that you remembered that about him.

Another way to capture those memories is by finding an old picture that would have significant memories for him and have it printed up through a photo place and frame it for his desk at work. Maybe it is a picture of you with your father? Maybe it is a picture of you and your spouse on your honeymoon? Maybe it is a picture of your grandfather with his grandkids? Frame it and give it to them as a way of remembering all of those wonderful memories.

Whatever you do, just remember to make the gift as personal as you can. Wrap your gift creatively and tuck in a letter of what that person means to you. Everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated and nothing says appreciation like a little time invested into a personal gift. Don’t just give him the supplies to wash the car, give him a coupon that says it is good for one car wash done by you. Don’t just give him a magazine subscription. Buy one magazine to wrap that says that it is good for the subscription and then tag the magazine with sticky notes with funny notes from yourself. Don’t give him a generic coffee mug, have the children create one with you and fill it with his favorite snack. Make it as personal as possible and your gift will say a lot more than any expensive gift that is wrapped under the tree.

I hope these ideas have helped since this was a topic our readers really wanted to see!


Please share-what do you like to give to the men in your life? Have you done any of these ideas from this list?