I can’t say that my challenge to eat breakfast each morning has been going very good, but I have definitely made reading time a priority this month. I hope that you also are squeezing in some great time to read especially with the holiday festivities quickly approaching. Your me time is more important than ever!
At the beginning of each month, I will share with you some of the great reads that I have been working on. If you want to add me to your Goodreads friend list, you can find me listed under “momadvice.”
My dear friend and fellow bookworm, Beth, also keeps a great book blog called, “Beth’s Book-Nook Blog,” where she shares some really fantastic reviews and ideas for great reading! Be sure to check her out!
This month I dove into these great reads that I would love to share with you!
Shanghai Girls by Lisa See
This is the first novel I have read by Lisa See so I can’t offer any comparison on this versus her other novels. What I can tell you is that this book takes you on a journey that is beautifully told of the time in China and in the US during the Japanese invasion of Shanghai.
Pearl & May are sisters who deal with many of the insecurities and rivalry that most sisters endure. Pearl is studious and responsible while May is beautiful and has the ability to get her way in any type of situation. Both girls are living a life of privilege and are unaware of the poor and less fortunate. The girls enjoy the good life and are able to afford their lifestyle thanks to modeling for advertisements that help afford them what their family needs.
This all takes a turn when they discover that their father is in deep debt. In order to pay off his debts, he arranges for a marriage and marries off the girls to a set of brothers residing in the United States. They are expected to make the journey to the US and fulfill their father’s debts.
Getting to the United States proves to be more challenging than either sister bargained for as the invasion of Shanghai happens at the same time they are to be heading on the boat.
To say that this journey to the United States is epic, would be a small understatement. The girls endure incredible tragedy, untold brutality, and a journey that they never dreamed they would ever endure.
The story, above all else, is about sisters. Sisters that love each other in spite of it all…and sisters that would do anything for one another.
The ending could have been brought together better, but that was the only thing missing for me. I felt as though I had been on the journey with these sisters and the ending left me wondering if a sequel could follow.
Her Fearful Symmetry by Audrey Niffenegger
Anyone else a huge fan of The Time Traveler’s Wife? This was one of my favorite books of all time. It was so good, in fact, that my husband found me sobbing in a corner with snot dripping down my face because I was so moved to tears. Perhaps that is why I really, really wanted to love this next book by this author.
This story is about two sets of twins- Elspeth & Edie and Edie’s daughters Julie & Valentina. Elspeth passes away and bequeaths all of her estate and belongings to her nieces, Julie & Valentina. There is only one way to cash in on their inheritance though and it is to live in her old apartment for one year and their family is not allowed to enter.
The girls head to London to live in the flat and find that Elspeth is still residing there…in ghostly form. She is unable to pass into the next life and her soul is trapped in the house.
The girls get to know their neighbors like Robert, who is Elspeth’s former lover, and Martin, a man left by his wife because of his debilitating OCD. The story follows them as the girls explore London and Elspeth’s home.
Valentina begins to want to separate herself from her twin and become an individual while her sister craves the sameness that they have always had. In order to become independent, Valentina makes a decision that leads to consequences the reader will never expect.
While I enjoyed the book, it was nothing like what I had expected. I had a little difficulty following all of the different stories and characters that were woven into this story and I found the ending to have a great twist, but not one I could relate to or as believable as I would hope.
Regardless, it was a great read with a great deal of creativity and the history of London weaved in. This is definitely for someone looking for a dark read with a lot of great historical information about London.
Dismantled by Jennifer McMahon
I devoured this book in one day and could not put it down. I have never read this author before, but if this is any indication of her work, then I am completely hooked.
The book is about a group of four art students who form a group called the Compassionate Dismantlers. Their fearless leader, Suze, encourages them to commit petty crimes and vandalize with their motto being, “To understand the nature of a thing, it must be taken apart.”
The book flash forwards to ten years later and Henry & Tess, two people that were in the group, are now married and have a child together. They have been living with a secret for ten years of a prank that has gone horribly wrong and both seem haunted by the crime. It is pulling them away from their m
arriage and neither can seem to get over what has happened.
Their daughter is anti-social and has created an imaginary friend who is helping her to bring her parents together. She finds an old journal and pictures and sends a postcard to all of the former members of her parent’s group with their motto on it.
The postcard triggers a suicide and a chain of twists and turns that are as horrifying and thrilling as any good horror movie.
The book kept me up at night until the shocking conclusion that will lead you on a crazy roller coaster.
Just as a disclosure, this book had rough language in it!
The Help by Kathryn Stockett
I can’t say enough about how much of a literary treasure this book is! It is rare that a book sticks with me and that I think about it long after I have put it down, but The Help is one of those books that does just that.
The book tells the story of the post-Civil Rights movement through the eyes of three different women. It is told through the eyes of Aibileen & Minny, two African American maids, and Skeeter, a young white woman.
Aibileen is a gentle soul that is intent on offering the best care that she can give to the white children that she cares for. She feels it is her duty to make them feel as special and loved because she knows many of the mothers do not give their children the love they need. Her tender spirit and soft motherly ways instantly makes you feel like she is an old friend.
Minny is a spunky character who has trouble acting as a maid because she doesn’t really like to be bossed around. She has so much spunk and humor that you can’t wait to see what kind of trouble she will get into and how endearing she truly is as you get acquainted with her own difficult home life.
Skeeter is a young woman who desperately wants to become a writer. She gets the idea to write an anonymous book with anonymous maids who could share their story and struggles as an African American woman acting as a maid and (often) being treated unfairly by their white bosses.
When these three characters come together it is pure magic!
After reading it, there were two things that I couldn’t believe:
1) The author was a white woman. To document the African American struggles of the post- Civil Rights movement was so authentically documented and the voice so “true” that I found it surprising and a tribute to a skilled author to capture that voice. It never felt false and the prose was simply beautiful to read.
2) That this was Kathryn Stockett’s first book. The skill of the writing in three different voices and the way she captured that era was something that you don’t normally see out of a first time novelist.
What can I say about this book? It is one that made me laugh out loud, it made me cry tears for the struggles and unkindness that so many had to endure, and I became so attached to the characters that it will be hard to let them go. I wish that the story would go on and that a sequel could tell what happened to these three women as they began the new adventures that each of these women will go on.
If you read anything this year, let it be this book!
What was in your book basket this past month? Any book recommendations you would like to share?







Well, THANKS for the shout-out for my blog! I have loved these books you listed, but haven't read "Dismantled" yet – it's going on the list! Three other books I LOVED this year: "The Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie" , "The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society" , and Lisa See's "Peony in Love". Happy Reading!!
-beth
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Thanks for the recommendations. A few other people have mentioned The Help and I can't wait to get it at the library (there's a long "hold" list…)
I just finished "The Book Thief" and I loved it. It made me laugh, made me cry, and gave me hope.
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I read Snowflower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See and it's one of the best books I've ever read!
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I recently read Perfection by Julie Metz, a true story that is very real and honest. Her husband dies and as she is struggling to put life back together for herself and her daughter, she discovers his many affairs. The story is about her journey through all fo that.
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Two of my recent favorites are "The Best Question Ever" by Andy Stanley. This little volume has forever changed the way I make decisons. And "Katrina's Wings" by Patricia Hickman, an artfully told story of pain and redemption in the life of a less than perfect family. Highly recommend both books to your readers!
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I read Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See years ago and to this day it is still one of my favorites…The Help is everything you said it was and more and I too with there was a sequel!
Can't wait to check out your other recommendations! Thanks Amy!
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I just finished "Impossible" by Nancy Werlin. Not the usual kind of book for me, but I really enjoyed it. A young girl is pregnant and unmarried at the same age as her mother, grandmother, great grandmother before her…. Is there a curse on these women? Based loosely on the words to the song "Scarbourgh Fair"… There is a demon, a curse and many wonderful changes in her life…
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You have been busy! Right now I'm reading I Loved, I Lost, I Made Spaghetti by Giulia Melucci.
I loved Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See. You should put that on your list! I've been wanting to read more books by her, so thanks for your review on that one. I also have Peony in Love on my list.
I second the mention of The Book Thief! It's a long read, but so worth it!
I definitely need to make more time for reading…I haven't been nearly as good about it this year. Thanks for the reminder.
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I really enjoyed the books you mentioned last month. As soon as I finish my current stack, I'll be asking for these at the library.
Hugs,
Melinda
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I just finished reading Losing Mum and Pup by Christopher Buckley. It is Buckley's memoir of the year in which he lost his parents, Pat Buckley and William F. Buckley Jr. I found it to be interesting and unsparing.
Before that I read Halfway to Each Other by Susan Pohlman. The author and her husband, on the brink of divorce, sold their home in California and moved to Italy for a year with their two children. The experience strengthened their marriage and their faith.
I also read Liberty and Tyranny by Mark Levin last month. I'm an attorney, but I learned things I didn't know about the Constitution and the founding of our country.
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Have you read "Firefly Lane?" I finished it last weekend and I absolutely loved it.
I read "Time Traveler's Wife" last month and "Firefly Lane" was even better than that.
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I really enjoyed The Noticer http://recipesdealsetc.blogspot.com/2009/10/book-review-noticer.html
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Stephanie- I haven't read that, but I am adding it to be to-be-read list on GoodReads as we speak.
You guys have some awesome recommendations. I am going to have to carve out even more time to read this month to tackle some of these.
Keep these suggestions coming!!
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Amy,
This is the THIRD time in the last couple weeks that someone has recommend The Help–I just put it on hold at our library!
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I love your blog! I try to read every post. Sorry I don't get to post often. I gave you an award!
View it here:
http://asbury4.blogspot.com/2009/11/i-got-blog-award-now-im-passing-it-on.html
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I too loved The Help….I didn't want it to be over….Started the Guernsey book but and finding it really R E A L L Y slow…Read the Shack (you have to buy into the concept but it is very thought provoking) and followed up with Finding God in the Shack.
Pam, South Bend
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Thanks for providing a wonderful list of books that deserve attention. Also, great book reviews. With a world like today, there's hardly time to read a good book. So having a list of fine book reviews is always a blessing.
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This month's best book for me was "Memoirs of a Geisha." One of those books you always hear about but never get around to reading. I finally got around to it and it was sooooooo good.
Up next for me is "The Time Traveler's Wife"
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I just have to let you know you have a "snot sister" here! I had the same reaction to TTTW!!!!
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I added you to my Goodreads friend list! I have been a bigtime slacker there but I'll fix that soon.
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My favorites this year: TTTW,Book Thief (hard to believe it's considered juvenile fiction), The Help, Literary & Potato…, Secret Life of Bees. Case Histories by Kate Atkinson is a great "who dunnit". The Girls by Lori Lansens sounds very much like Her Fearful Symmetry but with adopted conjoined twins. I had the same reaction that you did. The Thirteenth Tale by Diane Setterfield is a good read. Definitely recommend The Year of Wonders by Geraldine Brooks. It's based on a true story of a little village in Europe that tried to seclude itself from the world to avoid receiving or transmitting the plague in the middle Ages. Great female characters and relationships.
Right now I'm reading The Hour I First Believed by Lamb. Anyone have thoughts on it?
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April- What great recommendations- i am going to add them to my list.
I picked up the new Wally Lamb and promptly returned it to the library after reading a hundred pages and then the reviews that it wasn't worth the struggle when people said that it took them a good four hundred pages before they got into it. Life is too short.
Let me know if you like it though!
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