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I love nothing more than lounging around in our backyard all summer long. I will do anything to stay outside with my kids and hibernate in our big backyard. Indiana winters are so long and our summers here are far too short. I really try to make the most of every moment of sunshine.

Wouldn’t we all love to just lounge around in the backyard all day with our feet kicked up? While I can’t say it will be possible every day, I want to share with you a few things we have been doing to make outdoor living a priority in our home.

Chores come first. We all love being outside and in order for me to be able to camp out with the kids in the backyard, we need to have our indoor chores accomplished. The short list for me is to unload the dishwasher, make the beds, and swipe the bathrooms. The kids have to eat their breakfast, get dressed, and tidy up their rooms and playroom. With the promise of fun and relaxation outside, we all are more motivated to do our chores inside.

For work-at-home moms, I try to get up an hour before the kids and tackle any work priorities and I do most of my work on the weekend mornings. I encourage you to read my post on finding balance to work priorities to assist with figuring out a good work-at-home schedule.


Get the dinner prep done. After I have finished the chores, it is time to get together whatever we will be eating for dinner in the evening. Slow cooker meals are a great alternative in the summer because they don’t heat up the house and can be pulled together quickly. Likewise, marinating meats or preparing meat for the grill is another way to keep the house cool and keep one step ahead of the game in mealtime prep.

Of course, anything that you can do after your grocery shopping will also give you more time to enjoy being outside. Chop up veggies and fruits for snacking on throughout the week, cook pasta for pasta salads and keep it in a food storage bag to make a yummy cold pasta salad, bake chicken for the week to dice in tortilla wraps, for cold chicken salad sandwiches, or to toss into a pasta salad. I also love to wash and chop the lettuce for the week and use it on burgers or for a light lunch for myself or a side salad with our dinner.

Take the night off completely from dinner and roast your dinner on an outdoor fire pit instead. Children will love the novelty of cooking their foods over the fire and you will love having a night off from cooking. We try to do this a couple of times a month as a fun family night tradition.

Scale back those fancy dinners and keep things simple with grilled meats, fresh veggies, and fresh fruit. Summer is not meant to be spent in a hot kitchen so get acquainted with your grill or slow cooker so you can enjoy that beautiful weather outside.


Be prepared for outdoor excursions. The past couple of years, I have learned to become more prepared for those unexpected outdoor adventures. On our door hangs a beach bag that is ready to go for a fun outdoor getaway. I keep sunblock, bug spray, towels, bathing suits, and a water bottle in this bag.

In our car, we have a collapsible bag that is filled with activities for the park. I try to keep containers of bubbles, a ball, a waterproof blanket for sitting on, a Frisbee, and a lawn chair. These activities not only come in handy for when we take a trip to the park, but they also are invaluable when visiting friends who don’t have activities/toys to keep little hands busy.

Revise your homemaking schedule with the weather. Check the forecast at the beginning of the week and try to format your schedule according to the weather. If it is raining on Thursday, make Thursday your day to clean the house. If it is sunny on Tuesday, use that day to accomplish the laundry day outside and hang your clothes on the line instead. If it is sunny all week long, then accomplish chores during your child’s nap time or after they head to bed. By revising your homemaking schedule to fit the weather forecast, you can take advantage of as many beautiful days as you possibly can.


Make the outdoors fun.
My children will play outside for the entire day, but each summer we make an investment into outdoor activities that will help keep the outdoors fun. Some of my favorite summer investments have been a sandbox, a small water table, sprinkler toys, a new set of chalk, and a batch of homemade bubbles.

My children also love to create so I also put out a bucket of water with paint brushes for them to paint the cement or to paint their chalk drawings. We also make a batch of sponge balls to play with in their water table or for fun water play outdoors. Nature journals can help them document the changing of the seasons and what they see in nature. Homemade play dough with some cookie cutters and a rolling pin can lead to fun creations, without the mess, on an outdoor table.

Don’t forget that many activities that you can get your children to do outside can also help you. I have my kids use their water toys to water my garden. My children also love to help wash the cars and wash their own outdoor toys. Have them set their own table for lunch or help you clean up after an outdoor dinner.


Make easy evening routines. After a long day of playing outside, I bring the kids inside and we start tackling the baths. After the kids are bathed, they can have a small snack and watch a television show while I work on getting our dinner ready.

This usually leads to a little napping or general zoning out as they are usually so exhausted from playing outside. With this time, I tidy up and get our easy dinner together for us to dine outside. After that the kids play outside until bedtime and I am able to put them to bed earlier after all of their outdoor fun.

Outdoor chores are accomplished by my husband & I trading off the kids to get done what needs to get done. One of us mows in the front, while the other parent is playing with the kids in the back. As I have said before though, many of these chores are just done side by side with the kids while they are playing or helping.


Remember they are only young once. Each summer, I marvel at how much my children have grown and how quickly our time together seems to be passing. I am trying to savor these moments and for me, that means slowing down our summers. While we make big plans for summer activities, I can admit that I become selfish with my time with them in the summer. The school year will begin again and we will be back to the crazy grind of school days.

Savor these moments and revise your schedule so you can enjoy each moment of them. Seek a little shade with them. Create with them. Hop in the kiddie pool with them. Indulge in homemade slushies and popcorn every single day and blame it on “the kids” and “hydration.” Be selfish with them and their time. Treasure them.

As my husband and I say after it takes two hours to put away all the outdoor toys and clean up after the dinner, “We are making memories.”

How do you make outdoor living a priority in your family?


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    Fantastic post! Amy, as a fellow Hoosier, I totally understand enjoying every drop of summer!!! Kids are only young once… let them gain appreciation for outdoor fun and build memories!!

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    Yep, along with Heather (comment above), I am from the Midwest (MN) and fully appreciate any beautiful day I can be outdoors. I have learned to do many of those things you mentioned! I also plan my dinners around the weather, so if I want to bake something I plan it for a cooler day or do it early in the morning or later at night.

    One other activity our kids enjoy is a plastic easel outside to paint on. My husband gets hives with the kids do crafts, so this keeps everyone happy (and hive-free) and there isn't any pressure to remember to get it in before it rains because it is plastic. (I think it is Little Tikes).

    Oh! And another fun idea – spray shaving cream on the patio table and let the kids draw images into it. Rinse it off when you are done (it will be shiny clean) and send them through the sprinklers to clean them off!

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    Michelle- LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the shaving cream idea! I am so doing that- thank you for the inspiration for some new activities to do outdoors. I really appreciate it.

    FishMama- I am so sorry. My computer crashed last night and I thought that had been linked. It was corrected- thank you for letting me know!

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    I LOVE This post!!! this is so right on with me and how i strive to live and enjoy my family!! saving this post… thanks!! ♥ Tara

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    Oh how I wish we could spend hours upon hours outdoors like you can!! I miss my IN summers!!!

    Since it's over 90 every day (and feels closer to 100 w/the humidity!) in the summer we have limited time outside. But when we are outside in the early morning and early evening we try to make it fun too.

    My son loves "cutting the grass" w/his bubble mower while daddy cuts it for real. A kiddie pool in the shade is a must, as are bubbles, spray bottles full of water, and sprinkler mats.

    I'll have to try your sponge ball project and see what comes of that!

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    I'm always so impressed with your perspective on life — and you provide good food for thought on the type of mom I strive to be. Thanks for a great post!

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    This post got me all choked up, Amy! I live in sunny California, but I still try to make summer fun. This year, I was afraid our summer would be ruined as we had to move unexpectedly (landlord lost their home!), but I'm not going to let that happen. I work outside the home, but am taking days off as much as possible.

    Today, even though we're surrounded by moving boxes that need to be unpacked, we're heading off in the car to Zuma Beach for a fun-filled day!!

    I miss being a SAHM, and hope to work from home soon – your posts remind me why!

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    Excellent post, Amy! Love how well-prepared you are. And I wish I could enjoy a not-disgusting midwest summer with you… Seems like I only live in climates that require us to sweat indoors 24/7. Guess I reap the benefits in the winter!

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    I like the idea of the beach bag ready to go. We are always heading off somewhere just for me to have to turn around and grab something we forgot. This will be handy. Thanks for the ideas.

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