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I have been talking to a lot of bloggers recently that have been asking my advice on blogging and balance. It can be tough to come up with great content week after week and still maintain your home and family activities.
My life is very busy with two small children. We have family obligations, business obligations, church obligations, friend obligations, and volunteer obligations… as most families do. I am thankful for all of these things that shape my life!
On top of those obligations though are my work obligations. As my site grows, the obligations grow too and that is when your life and your blogging can easily become out of balance. In this last year, it is something I have been really working on improving because my family is so important to me.
I would love to share with you some of the tips and techniques I have been using this year to help me lead a balanced life. I hope that they will offer some inspiration to those of you who are feeling tapped out and tired.
(Photo Credit: Michael Sullivan)1. Schedule Working Hours- Some people might be surprised to know that I rarely write during the week. I have regularly scheduled time on my calendar on Saturday mornings and Sunday evenings where I complete 90% of the work that I need to get done for the week. There are times where time sensitive items have to be scheduled during the week, but for the most part I rarely am working on my blog during weekdays.
Anything that I can get done during working hours, I do my best to get it done. Even tiny detail items like choosing a picture and title for time-sensitive entries is done during my scheduled work hours. These tiny details can easily suck up an hour’s worth of time so I know that anything I can get done during my work sessions will free up more time for me with my children during our week.
You can also schedule everything to appear at the same time each day. On here, for example, each entry is typically scheduled for 7:00 AM and publishes as scheduled in the morning. Now you all know that I am actually still laying in bed while all of these entries are posting. Did I deceive you with my supposed morning productivity? I hope so!
The information that I write is not time-sensitive so freebies/deals/coupon sites could not adapt to this schedule, but you could try to supplement deal information with how-to information that could be set up within your own working schedule.
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2. Cut Down on Distractions & Set Limits- It is very easy to become distracted when doing your work and these distractions can slow down your pace. When you schedule your time to work, shut down social networks and other websites and tackle that to-do list with as little interruption as possible.
You know what your distractions are and what can take you away from the task at hand. Make it a goal that when you are working that you will try to tune all of the distractions out until you have completed your tasks.
Likewise, set limits for yourself on how much time you spend on social networks as they can definitely suck up a great deal of your day if you allow them to. For me, I try to not spend time on Twitter or Facebook on the weekends. I use my weekends to work and spend time with my family so I try to sign off of these networks on Friday and return back to socializing on Monday.
If you are looking for more information on staying on task in business and in life, I encourage you to read “The Power of Less,” by Leo Babauta (founder of ZenHabits.net). It is a very quick read, but has helped me greatly in increasing my productivity while leading a fuller life. I found this book at the library and my husband and I both read it and got some great tips from it.
3. Slow Down Your Blogging Schedule- For me, this is one of the most difficult challenges because I love sharing new information with my readers. What I don’t realize though, is how few of you have read me every single day since I began blogging.
Don’t be afraid to shake the dust off of those entries in your archives and use them during the week. I do my best to reuse one article each week to give me a day off from creating new content. You could also utilize guest bloggers once a week or even dedicate a post that will share with your readers things that other people are writing.
Whatever your blogging schedule, routine has been essential in keeping my creativity flowing and knowing what to tackle throughout the week. On our blog, we typically offer recipes on Monday, crafts/things to do on Tuesday, highlighting others in our Notebook entries & tackling a project highlighted in the notebook on Wednesday, a Play it Again, Momma entry on Thursday (where I revisit an old entry), and freebies on Friday. Of those items, I am actually coming up with truly new information two or three times a week.
If at anytime I feel that something is too much or not working with our family schedule, it is my blog schedule to tinker with. I shared with you that my podcast would not work with our summer schedule and I switched our notebook entry to a day that fit better with my family life.
Remember that it is your schedule to switch, but know that whatever you set up your readers will begin to expect from you. It used to bother me when people would email me because A, B, or C had not been posted during the week. I began to realize that even if it was my schedule to switch, it is also imperative to let them know when and why I make these changes. Communication and consistency is the best way to keep your readers coming back for more!
4. Figure Out What You Are Worth- My business coach offered this sound advice to me when we first began our sessions together. She encouraged me to figure out what my time was worth and then choose what was the best use of my time based on that dollar figure. Now that I am able to grasp how much my time is worth, I am better able to say no to things that do not bring in the money or the website traffic that I need for the opportunity to be lucrative.
If I am not sure if an opportunity is worth my time, I try to give it a thirty day evaluation. Within 30 days, I am able to take a look at my past month of web traffic and it can showcase whether or not an opportunity has brought in the traffic needed for it to be lucrative.
How do you figure out what your time is worth? As someone who is self-employed my worth varies from month to month, but I do have a dollar figure in mind when I am approached for an opportunity. The best way to figure out what your time is worth is to start tracking your time for one month and figure out how many hours you are working during a 30 day period. Now evaluate all that your site is bringing in during the month (even a rough average is great). Now you can use those numbers to figure out what that hourly rate is. This should give you a rough idea of what your time is worth and if an opportunity is worth that amount of time.
5. Limit the Extras- Just recently it seems that I have gotten a lot of opportunities to travel for my work. It is a wonderful opportunity to get to go into a company and see how they work or sit in a round table discussion about their products and services.
The pitfall of traveling though is that I am away from my children and my life begins to feel out of balance because I am not able to keep up with my normal routines. Going away for even two days can put my household routines behind, my work schedule can become interrupted, and I become stressed.
I am now being more selective about those extra opportunities that come along and picking things that will benefit my readers the most, relationships that I would like to form with specific companies, and paid opportunities. I have also made the decision that one trip a month is all that I feel I can handle and it has to fit our criteria for that opportunity to come into fruition.
This doesn’t just apply to travel though, this also applies to all of those extras that can take me away from spending time with my family. Things like guest blogging for others, product reviews that are not a good fit for my audience, and many of the unpaid extras that I would have done before have been greatly reduced in efforts to remain balanced.
6. Develop Household Management Routines- What does household management have to do with blogging? In my opinion, it has everything to do with feeling balanced and running a successful business out of your home.
Just as I suggest scheduling working hours, developing a schedule for your home management will free up the time that you need to spend with your family. Don’t go overboard with your routines, but develop a rhythm that will make those day-to-day tasks more manageable.
Make sure that your work area is a pleasant place to be by tackling those piles of papers and creating a space that will allow you to be the most productive you can be. Add this time of clearing your desk as part of your weekly routine so that you can be the best blogger you can be in a distraction-free zone!
If you are looking for home management inspiration, my weekly routine can be found here. There will always be things that can get in the way of those tasks, but I do my best to stay within this routine so that my home life can remain balanced.
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7. Allow Room for Creativity in Your Schedule- The best thing that I have started doing for myself is giving myself an hour to do whatever I want with absolutely no guilt whatsoever. I use this time to knit, read, craft, or listen to music.
Before I was doing this, I would go to bed with my stomach in a ball and my head swirling with all the things I needed to get done the next day.
Do something that is creative or calming to you that hour before you head to bed and see how much balance it can bring back into your life. I feel no guilt about it because the more creative I am the more inspiration I can offer to others.
Out of all of these tips though, the one thing I can tell you is that if you are not living a great life offline, it will be difficult to live a full life online. You have to be living, loving, and engaging with your friends and family in order to feel completely balanced.
If your well is tapped dry, sit down with a notebook and jot down ways that you can bring balance back into your life. It will be the best thing that you can do for yourself and everyone will benefit from it- your readers, your family… but most of all, YOURSELF!
Are you struggling with balance? What helps bring balance to your life? Do you have any questions on my blogging routine? Please share or ask away!
33 Responses to “7 Tips For Leading a Balanced Blogger Life”
Thank you for your insightful words. When I started blogging I never thought that it would require such time and energy.
Keep up the great work!
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As I mentioned to you yesterday on Twitter, I am really struggling with balance. Summer is coming, and that means I won’t have my normal job obligations (I am a full time teacher), but I also am unwilling to spend my precious summer ignoring my daughter so that I can write. Or worse, turning on the tv to entertain her.
I think the bottom line is that I have to pare down, but I’m not sure what to get rid of. It’s so hard to say no to people with whom I’ve developed great relationships.
Thanks for the great suggestions.
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The head swirling, stomach in a ball has been me for the last 2 weeks. With 5 children, ministry, homeschooling, blogging, networking I get overwhelmed and I am not productive in ANY area, which only makes the whole cycle worse. One of the best posts I’ve read in awhile on this subject. Thanks!
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Awesome tips, Amy!!!
And, I especially appreciate Tip 5. Opportunities do come in and having a balance and determining what is right for me/my brand, more importantly, my readers (the reason I even exist) is crucial in every decision I make now. I want things to be not only fun and informative for me, but value added for my readers too!
And, being away from my family all the time isn’t what I signed up for when I started this stay-at-home mom gig (which is now a work-at-home mom job
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You are great and always have the best tips for everything! Mwuah!!!
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Thanks for sharing your personal experience. It helps to see how successful bloggers are able to pull everything together. I struggle with balance and frequently have to remind myself that I left my career to be a stay-at-home MOM, not to be a blogger. I will definitely be trying out your ideas.
Thanks!
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Awesome! Thanks so much Amy! Being new to blogging, I struggle with this all the time.
~Liz
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I love how you get most of you work done on the weekends. I was doing well with that, but have fallen off track lately! Thank you for this great post!
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Great tips Amy. I have always felt it was more important to live my life the way I want to than to blog excessively. While being reliable with the blog is important to its success, living my life has to be the priority.
If I have to skip a post (um, like today!) to catch up with life and feel balanced, so be it. I think somehow the blogging world will get along without me today. And, really, my content will be better because I took the time off to LIVE.
Important topic and great tips, Amy!
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Amy, timely post!! I have been feeling overwhelmed & unbalanced lately w/all there is to do at home, work & blogging. I have decided to take a break from blogging to realign. And then I read your post!! Glad to hear that "I'm not the only one!"
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These are great tips! While I’m very new to the blogging world, I am very aware of how time-consuming it can be. I’m slowly learning the “once of preparedness” philosophy, and it’s helping so much. I really, truly appreciate your insight!
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Fantastic tips, Amy. I am struggling for balance and for time management help. This is perfect. You are one lady to admire.
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Thank you, thank you, thank you. I’m trying to find balance too, and I have found hope in your words. I have a crazy, bilingual mommy blog, life!!
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These are very good tips. I have been trying to schedule time on the weekend to blog. Some weekends it works out better than others, but even if I get posts for the first few days of the week scheduled, that helps a lot. Monday through Wednesday are my most hectic days with childcare and outside activities.
I can also do some blogging during naptime but I like to accomplish other things during that time as well.
I like your idea for pulling posts out of the archives, too.
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Amy, this is extremely timely for me, as well. When I was running just my personal blog, it was easy to get overwhelmed. Taking over at Simple Kids – which is now an actual paying job for me, not just my hobby – has set me back on my heels about. I totally needed this sound advice from someone who is managing to do so many wonderful things at once.
I am kind of shocked to see that you do 90% of your blog work on the weekends! That makes so much sense to me. Does your husband watch the kids while you work? Kyle works Saturday mornings, but I’ve been thinking of finding child care for the girls one morning a week so I can buckle down and get serious work done.
I needed to hear every one of these tips. Thanks so much for sharing them!
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Great post Amy – I appreciate your candidness, your honesty, and your wisdom. And of course I appreciate your blog – I greatly value your hard work!
ann
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Thank you ALL so much for your feedback on this entry. It took a great deal of time and I am so thankful that I was able to share with you some new ideas for balance.
Megan- I do work on the weekends b/c my husband can help me with the kids. When I have a great deal of work, I often take my work to our supermarket deli (free wifi) or I visit the local library and do the majority of my work there. That is another way I can achieve a distraction free zone
I think it would be great if you were able to hire someone who can help you one day a week. If I did not have my hubby on the weekends,I am sure I would need to do that too.
Andrea- I am with you on the traveling- I feel exactly the same way. I am truly trying to limit travel & only take advantage of the opportunities that serve my readers or (frankly) paid opportunities that can help our family's budget. I am so glad to know that I am not alone in this!
Melissa- And this is exactly why I love and admire you- you take breaks. I can learn so much from you!
Thank you again for your thoughtful words! I hope to share more in pieces like these in the future!!
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“Are you struggling with balance?”
I don’t know any moms who would say “no” to that question.
Myself included.
It’s always a struggle to balance everything – blogging, kids, laundry, meal planning, business relationships, personal relationships, marriage, etc.
The biggest thing that helps me is to try to keep “perspective.” I ask myself: what will matter in 5 years? 10 years? 20 years? 50 years? And then I rearrange my schedule accordingly.
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This comes at such a good time. I have been struggling with this myself and your post has some great points and ideas. Thanks SO much!
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Thank you for writing this. Occasionally, I get completely overwhelmed with blogging. I don’t even do it as a job, just a hobby. For some reason those numbers just move me to work harder and harder. Sometimes that means that I’m writing out lower quality work and my readers deserve better. You have given me great ideas for better organization. Thank you!
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thanks for the great post amy! i was wondering though what tips you have for newer bloggers? my schedule has slowed since having the baby 2 wks ago and i have noticed a big dip in readers. very frustrating after working so hard to develop the blog.
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It seems like there’s always something new to add to the site or revamp, so there’s never an end to the “list”. I guess you just do your best and make sure you’re not offending family members with your computer time. My husband and I are still figuring out what is “fair” time on the computer since I started blogging.
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Amy – thank you so much for this post! I have been struggling with balance for awhile now and appreciate your perspective. Scheduling working hours is on the top of my list right now. I used to be great about setting blogging boundaries but as my site has grown I have found it more difficult. I’m glad to hear you have found a routine/schedule that works…it makes me realize that it can be done.
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Thanks so much for sharing these ideas! Being a relatively new blogger, I am still seeking to maintain a schedule and find the proper balance. With my girls out of school for the summer in just another week, I will have to work out a new “normal” to make sure I am spending the time I want to with them.
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Great post Amy. I think at Blissdom you mentioned writing on the weekends, which I started doing. It has really helped with my schedule!
Thanks for all you do!
Toni
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Absolutely fabulous! I have started doing some writing on the weekend, but I need to do some more of that. I will definitely be linking to your post this weekend!
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This is wonderful information and so helpful as I finish a week of working 10+ hour days on my blog. Thanks tons, I’ll be linking to this as well.
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Such a well written post and fantastic tips. I think my favorite is the last one in bold..living good offline will be make for better online activity.
Thanks Amy, this is what I needed. Now I'm off to read, "Organize Your Week".
MWAH!
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I appreciate that you’ve made some time to share all these insights in a mom/blogger’s life
It’s so annoying to see happy smiling faces all around, pretending not to have any difficulties at all, when balancing family and business can be so-o-o challenging for the modern woman!
Thanks again and get as happy as you need in 2010!:)
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Great tips! It’s easy to forget these things and let too much work rule your life.
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