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One of the things that people wanted to see on our site were some ideas for giving gifts on a budget for children. I can cover the younger kid category quite easy, but will have to put some thought in for the teen and tween categories.

I know I am not the only parent who sat in amazement when my child became fixated on a box rather than the gift itself. Yes, young children are easier to please than what we might think so remember that when choosing gifts for kids. Don’t add unnecessary stress to your life because chances are that our children will just be entertained and happy with the opening of the gifts and a fabulous spread of holiday food.

Things that I have discovered with choosing gifts for younger children are:

1. Thrifted gifts will be just as loved. Younger children are not at a stage where they are going to be disappointed that a gift did not come in a shiny new box. No, they will just be excited to see whatever it is you have wrapped for them so don’t feel like you are disappointing them if you don’t have a brand new gift for them.

2. Art supplies always make an excellent gift. In my house, you can never have too many crayons, drawing paper, or fun things to keep the kids entertained for hours. When out-of-town relatives send money for the kids, I always apply the money to a big bin of art supplies or goodies for our ornament-making station. I also usually give this gift a little early so that they can be entertained during those hectic days right before Christmas.

3. Giving gifts of traditions are always the best kind of gifts. We try to focus more on traditions rather than what is wrapped under the tree. Try incorporating a Christmas Jar or an Advent Calendar of goodies. Do a countdown to Christmas with items found at thrift stores or wrap each year a set of Christmas books that the children can look forward to every year.

4. Don’t feel guilty about what isn’t under the tree. In this tough economy and with so many job losses and higher prices plaguing families, please do not feel bad if you can’t get your children everything that is their heart’s desire. Remember that young children are impressionable and you can offer gentle guidance towards budget-friendly gifts at this stage in the game. When my son asked for Spike the T-Rex ($130), I showed him some other great dinosaurs that I thought he would really like that were less than $20. With a little guidance and an explanation that Spike was a little out of Santa’s budget, we were able to steer him towards some more budget-friendly options.

Here are some examples of some of my favorite gifts for young children:
One of our favorite gifts that we have received is the Leapfrog Magnet sets. My daughter loves this farm animal set ($14.99) and also loves the alphabet set. The farm animal set is great for young children because they can just put two magnets together to make the animal and then it sings a little song about what the animal says and does. The alphabet set will grow with children more and will be used longer, but does comes at a little higher price ($16.99). When your child is a beginning reader, like mine, the set can be used to begin spelling words, which is really fun.

Both sets have been loved for years and years in our house and it keeps my kids entertained in the kitchen while I prepare supper. I will say that I hated this farm animal set when I was pregnant and would bump it with my belly and it would say things about cows. Um, thanks, LeapFrog!
My children love blocks and last Christmas we got them each a box of these for the holidays. My daughter is two and my son is six and they both love these blocks and play with them for hours. We gave them this gift early (one of our activities in our Christmas Jar) and they had the best time with these. I have a wicker basket that is the centerpiece on our coffee table in the playroom so that the kids can build and create with these anytime they want. This set is $18.99 for 100 blocks. If you get one for each kid, they can build a fortress out of them!

One of the most beloved gifts for both the kids was a sock monkey that I bought my daughter. She carried it around a lot and I have found him hiding underneath the covers in my son’s bed too. My Mommy’s Place has these for only $14. If you are ambitious, you could make a sock monkey yourself and make it entirely unique for your children. I think these guys look so cute popping out of the stockings.

My son is really into the superhero thing right now so I am planning to get him one of these superhero capes to fight off the bad guys in our house. This cape is reversible so he could decide which hero he wanted to be and is available from kidzescapes for $24.

Not to be outdone by the boys, every good princess needs a cape too and kidzescapes has that covered too. You can get this reversible cape for $25. The ambitious momma could tackle this project herself and come up with a wonderfully unique cape for their child.

I swear I don’t work for Leapfrog, even though it might seem like it! I have to say that the best DVD’s we have EVER bought our children are from Leapfrog. We actually bought the entire set of these and they are one of the best teaching tools that I have ever seen. It taught my two year old all of her letter sounds and gave my son an advantage in kindergarten. He was one of the only ones in his pre-K class that could recite every single letter sound. These movies build on beginning letter sounds, word sounds, and even work on math skills. If you are going to add to your movie collection, I highly recommend these. The Letter Factory is priced at only $8.99.
My son is six and his favorite book is definitely the Dangerous Book for Boys (priced at $16.17) We also have a sparkly Dangerous Book for Girls book (priced at $17.79) for my daughter when she gets a little older. These Things to Do editions are only $10.17 (here is a link to the girl’s edition). In it are great activities to keep your kids entertained for hours and hours. Include some supplies to complete one of the dangerous activities and you will be the coolest parent on the block.

If your child is in the beginning stages of reading, they will love Mia’s Reading Adventure. This computer software has been an incredible addition to our collection. Your child learns reading through games and story activities to help them learn word recognition. The characters are 3D and the storyline is really good so it has kept our son really entertained and engaged in it. We have tried other software from the company, but so far Mia has been the biggest hit. This is priced at $24.99.

If your children like to move and groove to the music, I can guarantee that both you and they will absolutely love the new They Might Be Giants, “Here Come the 123s” The CD comes with a DVD that has all of the songs on the CD with a music video to accompany it. The lyrics are hilarious, the movies will make you laugh out loud, and the kids will learn something. The DVD is just as good as the CD so you can get something for your car and to keep the kids educationally entertained in front of the television. This is priced at just $14.99.

One of our favorite things that has been loved literally until the color wore off and we had only two magnets left because we had lost them all is this School Zone Preschool Magnetic Set. We have taken this set with us whenever we travel or are at a restaurant waiting endlessly for food. The set comes with different heavy-duty backgrounds and comes with an entire farm of animals & magnetic letters that can be stuck to the different backgrounds. The different storyboards have different activities on them or if you have younger children who aren’t reading, they can make up their own stories. These are magnets though so make sure you are supervising younger children or give this gift at an age where you can trust them.

The case is metal so if you have a rambunctious toddler like me, it can get warped from standing on it, but the kids have loved this so much that I plan to get them each a new one. They have a kindergarten and preschool version. Best of all, they only cost $9.99.

These are just a handful of my ideas for gift-giving and I hope it helps a little with your holiday shopping.

What are some of your favorite gifts to give for younger kids? Do you have any special presents that your children are requesting this year? Please feel free to share!


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    Funny, I just posted about it today! I love to make Sensory buckets – the kids love these and have used ours for over a decade! Here is the link.

    http://www.leavingexcess.com/2008/12/wfmw-sensory-buckets.html

    Another great gift idea for any little ones who like to play school is to get a bucket or bin, put in fun school things like a white board, chalk board, some folders, markers and such. Buy a name tag holder (the kind that go around the neck) and make a teacher card (Mrs. Clark) and give a “playing school” kit. My sister-in-law gave one to my daughter a few years ago and she plays with it at least once a week!

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    I’m making my niece and nephew no-sew fleece blankets because they’re still too young to really “want” anything special!

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    Really great suggestions. I love those capes and the sock monkey. And wooden blocks are the best. My kids are 8 & 5 and still play with them all the time. And you cannot go wrong with arts & crafts supplies.

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    My son also wishes after Spike, the $139 dinosaur. We’ve been singing the praises of a giant T-rex from Imaginext that came out last year and is now on clearance at Walmart for $20. That is a price I can live with! Hopefully, my son will feel the same.

    :)

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    I tried the Christmas Jar idea last year when Amy posted it, and my 4 year old daughter LOVED it. This season, she could hardly wait until December 1st to start pulling slips from the jar we had decorated. If you want to start a memorable and lasting holiday tradition in your family, the Christmas Jar is a real winner.

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    The Barenaked Ladies have an awesome cd, Snack Time. We bought the They Might Be Giants one you mentioned and a friend gave us a copy of TBL one and we’ve yet to put TMBG cd back in b/c the other is so catchy and clever.

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    Momma Bear- We love the Snacktime CD too. My kids really enjoy that one as well. That is a great recommendation too. I like TMBG CD because it included an incredible DVD with it- kind of a bonus :)

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    I’m going to have to try the superhero cape. I think that will be a big hit.

    I wish I could remember where I saw this idea originally. Someone collected scarves, hats, “old lady” costume jewelery, and the like at garage sales throughout the summer and packaged it in a decorated box as a dress-up kit for little girls.

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    I have to agree with the farm animal magnets, my daughter has loved them. And the Letter Factory DVD is THE BEST. My daughter knew all her letters by 20 months, front and back.
    This year crayons and paper are going to be a big hit (she likes a blank canvas–good thing we recycle), and that cape idea really has me intrigued!

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    Amy, your list is one of the best and “right on” that I have seen. I couldn’t agree more with you. Love how fun, useful, and economical they are. I know that we will be ordering some of these. Thanks so much for sharing! You have saved this girl from racking her brain for ideas!

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    Wow, thank you so much for the feedback and I am so glad that you guys enjoyed this list. It took me a couple of days to put together because I really wanted it to be economical AND actually things we use or plan to buy for our own two children.

    I will be busy working on a tween/teen version for next week.

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    So wonderfully timely, Amy. Great list! The Leap Frog letter magnets are one of our best investments. I got them for Dacey when she was about 18 months. She STILL plays with them at 3.5 and now our little one plays with them, too.

    I have heard so many good things about Letter Factory – we may have to get that this year.

    I am all about art supplies for Dacey this year. The only thing she has requested repeatedly is a pair of roller skates (can three year olds skate?), so anything else will be easy.

    I think AJ, our crazy toddler, needs a sock monkey as she is our favorite little monkey. Thanks for the great links!

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    After reading your post, last night we found the School Zone Preschool & Kindergarten Magnets at Ross Dress for Less. They were only $3.99 each, instead of $9.99. We snatched those baby's up! One less item on our wish list to find. Thanks again, Amy.

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    Day By Day- That is GREAT! Wow, you paid a fraction of what I paid for it. It comes with the job though- this happens a lot. My readers are such smart shoppers and sometimes they outdo me like that ;) I am so happy that you were able to find those- I hope the kids love them as much as my two do :)

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    letters to elijah- that is so great! she told me someone else had placed an order. I ordered one for each of my little ones- I just know these will be a big hit!

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    This is a fabulous list! I have three boys under the age of 3 and we have most of this stuff, so I know! My boys especially love the Leap Frog fridge farm and letters.

    Thanks for sharing!

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    My guy loved (loves) Megablocks. He is 4 now and I think he will be on to legos soon. You can always find a deal on Megablocks somewhere. We are just starting to get into games. A really good one for this age is Zingo. It’s bingo with pictures and the words underneath. I agree with the Leap Frog picks–Tommy still plays with the farm animals on the fridge sometimes! And, the Letter Factory videos really are terrific.

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    My boys love the magnetic barn and letters, though I am a little tired of hearing “Someone’s in the Kitchen with Dinah” – oh well, whatever keeps them occupied! I saw another version at Kohl’s this summer that was vehicles – police cars, fire trucks, etc.

    I have added the letters DVD and TMBG CD to my Amazon wishlist! We also have the BNL CD but my boys love Justin Roberts more.

    You might want to update the School Zone link – it goes to the website’s main page and it’s hard to find the magnetic books – my search only turned up alphabet ones.

    Thanks for the great ideas!

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