Do you know what these famous people have in common?
- Alexander Graham Bell
- George Patton
- Albert Einstein
- Benjamin Franklin
- Winston Churchill
- Agatha Christie
- George Bernard Shaw
- Will Rogers
If you guessed that they were all homeschoolers, you'd be correct. This is a very
short list of famous and successful people who were educated at home. If you would
like to expand this list, do a search on the Internet for "famous homeschoolers."
There are many websites that list these people and some provide detailed biographies.
There is even a book called, aptly, "Famous Homeschoolers", by Nancy and Malcolm Plant.
The point here is to get into the mindset that people can be educated and become
successful adults without attending public school. And because I can almost "hear"
what you are thinking, no, it is not necessary to have a high school diploma to
go to college.
So what is homeschooling? In the broadest sense, homeschooling is educating your
children at home. You, as parent, become teacher. Parents homeschool for more reasons
than you can imagine. Some want to avoid having their children exposed to violence
and peer pressure. Some homeschool so that they can make sure their children's education
adheres to their religious beliefs. Some live a different lifestyle: perhaps they
travel a lot and want their children's schooling to be flexible enough to fit around
that life style. And some, like me, simply enjoy being with their children.
They don't want the public school to interrupt and weaken the parent/child bond that
they have been working hard to create for the first five years of their child's
Just as there are many reasons to homeschool, there are many methods of homeschooling.
All the way from "un-schooling" (learning by doing, learning from life, not using
textbook type materials) to "school at home" (using textbooks at desks set up in
a schoolroom at home) and everything in between. It's very easy to find hundreds
of homeschool Websites by using a search engine, but just to get you started, try:
Jon's Homeschool Resource Page
When I decided to write this article, I thought hard about what I could offer that
wasn't being displayed on thousands of Websites on the Internet. I realized that
the only thing I have to offer anyone interested in homeschooling is my experience.
So everything in the article below comes from my fifteen years of experience homeschooling
my four youngest children. I hope it is of some use to you.
Deciding to homeschool your child may be one of the most important decisions you
ever make as a parent, and it will take a lot of thought and soul searching. To
the newcomer, it may seem impossible, overwhelming and very, very lonely. But like
most huge obstacles, once it's broken down into smaller pieces, it becomes manageable.
We'll take it one step at a time, in small enough chunks to get a hold of. So, if
you're game, roll up your sleeves and let's get to work figuring out if homeschooling
is for you and your child.
First things first. Organization is the key. Get a three-ring binder (homeschooling
parent's LOVE three-ring binders) and put a label on the front. (If you've made
the transition to digital
record keeping, you can just start a folder on the computer.
But it's not as much fun.) Label it something serious, like "My Homeschooling Plans"
or "Homeschooling Thoughts." Put some paper in the binder, find a really comfortable
ink pen, and sit down somewhere quiet.
Ready? Good. Now, let's get started.
What are your reasons for considering homeschooling? Even if you haven't actually made the decision to homeschool, the fact that you are here reading this article
says you are curious. Perhaps you honestly don't know the answer yet, and that's
ok. The remainder of this article is going to try to help you start to find those answers.
Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but each state has it's own set of laws
that must be followed. Compulsory (how I hate that word) education here in Washington
State starts at the age of 8. Even though I had been homeschooling him from birth,
to stay legal once my son reached 8-years old, I was required to become "certified."
That meant I either had to have two years of college education, or take a "certification
class." I met this requirement by taking an independent correspondence class, during
which I was asked to put on paper my goals, philosophies and reasons for wanting
to homeschool. I'd like to help you do the same right now.
Start a page--either the "tree" kind or a file on the computer and title it, "My
Educational Beliefs." List what personal beliefs you have about education especially the education of your own children. Get as detailed as you can here--the value is
in the thinking process behind the list.
Take your time, I'm in no hurry.
As an example to get you started, I'm going to share with you what I wrote on my
list nine years ago:
My Educational Beliefs
1. I believe my child's attitude about learning should be: One of continual curiosity and seeking of knowledge.
2. I believe my child's learning should lead towards a lifestyle that is: Rural, physically active, creative.
3. I believe these basic values should be part of my child's learning:
- Respect for others
- Loyalty to family and friends
4. I believe children learn best: Through hands-on learning experience, reading,
5. I believe a teacher should:
- Provide side-by-side assistance and direction.
- Interact with the child.
- Provide the structure within which the child may explore, experiment, study and
- Provide a good example of excitement in learning.
6. Other beliefs:
I believe my child should grow up to be self-reliant and occupationally secure in
a field of high interest to them.
Now, that wasn't too bad, was it? Don't give up on this until you have at least
something written down, but don't agonize over it either. You can come back to it
later if need be. Next, start a paper or file titled "Life Goals For My Child."
I want you to write down what kind of person you envision your child being as an
adult. What are your hopes and dreams for him/her? What educational gifts do you
hope to be
able to help them find that will serve them their entire lives?
I'll share mine from 9 years ago, just to get you started:
"Life Goals for My Child"
- Be literate.
- Be self-reliant.
- Compete well in their chosen field of occupation.
- Appreciate art, music, and literature.
- Be creative.
- Be inventive and resourceful.
- Be healthy, mentally and physically.
- Co-operate with others.
- Maintain a strong sense of self-worth.
- Maintain a life-long curiosity, seeking knowledge as a way of life.
- Look to the future with a sense of excitement and adventure.
For the last exercise, start a third paper titled: Why We (I) Am Going to Homeschool
Our (My) Child? (Yes, single parents can successfully homeschool their children.)
You may not have all the answers for this one yet either, but just get something
down. All of these ideas and beliefs can start getting mixed in with other people's opinions once we start educating ourselves in depth about homeschooling, and you'll be glad you have these lists tucked away.
Okay, here's my old list:
Why We Are Going To Homeschool Our Children
Our family consists of myself, my husband, a 21-year-old daughter, a 19-year-old
daughter, an 8-year-old son, a 7-year-old daughter, a 4-½ year old daughter, and
an unborn son due in 6 months. My two oldest daughters (from my first marriage)
were in the public school system for the whole of their educational years. It is
largely a dissatisfaction with the public schools and all it's attendant problems
(academic, social, and moral) that has caused us to make the decision to homeschool
our youngest children. We decided, even before our 8-year-old son (the oldest of
the younger set) was born, that somehow we would find an alternative to the public
We want to homeschool for some additional reasons. We want added closeness with
our children. We want more independence, greater control over our family's moral
and philosophical values, and better awareness of our children's interests.
We dislike the thought of any government agency--no matter how well meaning--directing the raising of our children.
We intend to homeschool because we do not want our children's academic, social, and moral education taken out of our hands.
We believe these areas of a child's education are a parent's responsibility, right, and pleasure.
I'd like you to spend some time going over these lists until you feel they accurately
reflect your feelings about homeschooling your children. When I did these exercises,
I had only a vague idea about why I wanted to homeschool and what kind of education
I wanted to help my children acquire. These simple exercises helped me to solidify
my ideas and provided the basis for our future homeschooling methods. I hope they
help you to do the same. Keep these lists in a safe place and add to them as you
explore the possibility of homeschooling your child.